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17/10/08 13:41
17/10/08 13:32
Hello, soz to hear about all your prob's.
Hope Jake is feeling better Nat??
I am gonna join you ............. I am here for a VERY BIG MOAN!!!!!
I am so annoyed with my dr's. Do you remember when I was about 6 months pg the hospital told me to have a smear once I had Leah??? Well, anyway I had to wait until Leah was 12 weeks old. So I had the smear done 2 weeks ago and was nervously waiting for the results. I had already made an appointment to see dr today because feeling like poop and got a backache. Plus af has been here 2 weeks now. I have just received a letter from them saying that the smear was no good and I will have to have another one in, wait for it ................ 3 F'ING MONTHS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So if there is something wrong with me that will be 9 months they have made me wait to find out. I have an appointment at 3:20 with Dr and the poor guy is really gonna get the sharp end of my tongue. I am so upset, I have been crying all morning but now I am just Sooooooooo Mad.
Sorry rant over, x x x
16/10/08 21:18
omg shelly!! thats not right at all!! surely there should be some punishment or he should be kept away from other children in school until he learns to behave! thats completely discussing!! cut off his hands thats the answer!!!little s o d!
but on the other hand at least its not yet effecting alex's school work! thank goodness, i ust say at parents evening if nothing done soon i think i would go mad! at least you can also blame it on pg hormones!!hehe
poor you nat, jake being poorly again! hows he fairing today! dear of him! shame your tests ain't turned up! typical getting hopes up again and being p***ed about!
i had doctors today! now got to take 6steroid tablets a day!! as well as everything else! got more tablets to take than an old lady! sad! hopefully this will work now?! god! dh said he's glad i'm on free percription atm otherwise it would have cost a fortune!
when i got my auntie was here! surprise visit! dh had been telling her tails and she's trys to talk to me!! he's a git for that! the cottage is coming on they've damp proofed the floor gunna slef level it tomorrow! wood for upstairs floor has arrived! bathroom being fitted! kitchen has turned up! yeah!!! should start painting next week although the inside is all being painted white! no choice as its special lime paint! crap! so watch this space!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
16/10/08 20:24
hi girls, awww poor jake, so sorry to hear he's ill nat, what a worry for you, hope he's a little better today? awww did they give you any medication to take home. poor little man i bet his chest hurts. get well soon xxxxx
nat have your tests turned up yet or your af? so confusing for you to keep a proper track of your cycle if you ov twice.
went ok with the headmaster. he said the boy is struggling to behave all day and his mum has been called into see him over various incidents not connected to alex and that they are doing everything they can to improve his behaviour. personally i think he has major problems which all stem from his parents not giving a toss basically. we've both been round to see them at home and got no help from his dad at all. he is being kept indoors until at least after half term but i don't see how that will help, they've tried that already. then when we got home the headmaster rang and said that they want alex and a couple of other girls who are brighter than most, to do higher level work each day with the older children. at first i thought they were doing this because of the other boy but that wouldn't be fair on alex to ask him to do work out of his league really. had more problems today which i have to see his teacher about tomorrow. the boy followed alex to the toilets and pulled his private parts! can you believe the little b***! i am fuming. alex told the boy's mum on the way home. it's parents evening next week and boy do we have a lot to talk about!
chaz how are you and finley doing, are you having a less stressful time now?
15/10/08 22:15
how did it go with the headmaster shelley?
sorry you've had a rough day chaz, id of been fuming too! i spend a lot of my time swearing nowadays!!
ive had a busy afternoon. jake has been poorly since the weekend, all bunged up and snotty but its got worse the last couple days as he chokes on it all and cant move it and then cant breath and its been making him sick and he's halved his feeds etc...so took him docs who sent him hospital who kept us for obs. he's got broncilitis. they think this is the worst of it so they sent us home, they were really busy. ive got an open access thing so can take him straight back if i need too. he got weighed and not put any on since last week. they didnt write it in his red book though so taking him baby weigh in as usual tomorrow. finally got back at 9pm. he was so tired, he's normally in bed at 6pm! the girls are spending the night at their grandma's as dh is working nights so at least ill get a lie in tomorrow!
fr tests didnt turn up, emailed the seller and they posted them on monday 1st class so if not hear tomorrow id say they are lost, will be well p***ed off!! did my digi as couldnt resist and bfn so im giving up for this month. af due tomorrow at latest, no sign yet but still been having af pains. if she doesnt arrive though im changing my af due date to 26th oct as think i ov'd again last sunday.
15/10/08 14:47
Hi girls,
Saw my MW this morning, all well, had bloods taken. Blood pressure suprisingly normal considering all the stress I have atm! Baby measuring fine.
Chaz, not sure about the Weetabix, it used to be 6 months but it changed I think (remember Nat saying before) and I don't know how old they have to be now, sorry. I never gave Alex Ready Brek either. Some help I am eh?
Sorry you're having such a rough time of it Chaz and what a nightmare with your pram. No wonder you're angry, I would be too.
Nat any news yet with the testing?
We didn;t move Alex to a bigger car seat until he was 9 months old as he couldn't sit up unaided until then. There are some that are suitable from birth to 4 years though so I'm sure they would be fine. When we did get ione we got ours from Toys R Us in the sale, it was only £60, still have it and will use it again.
LittleLady hope you're ok?
Off to see the Headmaster very soon, don't want to but have to.
15/10/08 12:36
Having a bad day!!
got to go shopping etc and the bloody roof box where the wheels for the pram are wouldn't open! so had to come home!! typical not done a thing now and Finleys being a rat bag! i'm very teasy hoping it'll pass soon! had to get friend dh got our friend who works here to come a get inot it and sort it out for me!! but by that point its to late to go into town again! hopefully my friend is coming around later! see if she turns up this time?!Finley can sit up pretty much! so do think going straight into a 9mth one!!! its all so confusing to know what to do for the best! i suppose i'll go friday now to get him weighed so that'll give me more of an idea weight wise?! coz he should be shaping up to 9kg!!
I will ask about it and let you know! if theres a hv in there?!!
Have you tested today? i have doctors tomorrow gunna ask when he thinks af will return! really getting on my nerves now!!
hope everyones ok??
14/10/08 23:08
chaz i get all my car seats from argos, they are great prices and do the job nicely. can finlay sit up? if he can even if he needs supporting a bit, as long as he's got head control i personally wouldnt be worried about moving him into the next stage seat. im waiting for jake's back to get a little stronger and then he's moving into ellie's old car seat as ellie's now in toni's old seat and toni's in a booster!! love booster seats, they are soooo easy!
when you get finlay weighed ask about the weetabix and readybrek. i cant remember if i was told a year or 2 years before having weetabix and readybrek not heard anything so let us know what you find out. cant believe finlay will be 6 months!! gone so fast!
shelley glad everything will be fixed soon. same about that nasty boy at alex's school though. def be strong with the school. its up to them to protect your child from bullies. if anything his parents need a good slapping by the sounds of it! id be dreadful if i found out someone was bullying my kids. ive got such a temper.
ill let you know if i manage to test at all tomorrow.
14/10/08 21:27
soz another quick question when can lo's have ready brek! or weetabix!!!!!
14/10/08 21:26
HIya glad your all ok even if everythings breaking in your house Shelly typical and its always before xmas too!
Oh Nat shame the testing isn't giving you a definate answer, i thought at one stage you said you weren't going to test a lot??!! addictive though i suppose! I wish my dh would work away for a few weeks, must be heaven!! lol
Sorry not been on much! things have been fairly busy and stressy here! dh needs to get his head out his arse sometimes!! going to do some retail therapy tomorrow! just to get away from here!lol and get Finley weighed as he's 6mths thursday!! Finley's being a goood boy atm! touching wood as i speak!! (not the trouser kind hehehe ).
My mother actually phoned today to see how i got on at the consultants!! i went last wednesday!! so caring really makes me feel loved the amount of thought that went into it!! Sorry scarcasium(sp). hahaha
Seriously got to look into getting finley a bigger car seat his head is just in it and feet are dangling over the edge or pushed into the chair! dear of him? any advice on a good seat? gunna have to get a birth to 4yrs! friends said i should wait till he's 9mth but there no chnace can only get him just in it now! let alone another 3mths!!!!!
hope your ok littlelady?
14/10/08 21:03
oh no nat how confusing for you! ah well no af today is good news so far.
oh no sorry your dh is on nights and you're sort of alone, well the only adult in the house. i would be sleeping with a light on!
i'm finishing work on 27th november, so still got 6 weeks left. i'm starting to wish i had ages to go as i don't think we'll ever have things ready with all the problems we're having lately! anyway shower and hot water tank/overflo being fixed on saturday - yay! been a got a new shower tonight, i chose it so i hope it's ok! had nothing but problems with triton ones so got a creda, it's really nice and was quite cheap.
got to see the headmaster again tomorrow about the little t*** that bullying alex. he keeps on s***ing his glasses and trying to break them amongst other things he's doing to other kids. his parents don't care and it's gone on long enough now. don;t need the stress of it. i see my mw tomorrow so hope my blood pressure is ok.
i'm getting kicked about by the baby as i type and my tummy is moving about a lot! feels like i've got an ocopus in here! omg so freaky!
chaz hope you're ok, you too littlelady?
14/10/08 19:37
hello ladies! how are we all? im due af today (from 1st ov) or thursday from 2nd ov. no sign yet but have been having af pains but have been since ov so who knows? did last tesco test and bfn (was a very faint line but not sure as was funny light?). only got a digi left as fr tests didnt show up so going to save my fmu in a pot and see if they arrive. all this waiting is driving me mad!!
13/10/08 21:58
shelley whats that saying about raining and pouring! i hope it gets sorted for you soon, what a nightmare. when are you finishing work? im home alone, dh is working nights for the next 4 weeks!! i like the time and space to myself but i shall never watch crimewatch alone again, im bobbing myself now!
13/10/08 20:05
Awwww Nat, so confusing for you again. Fingers crossed you get a stronger positive tomorrow! Aww I've been popping on for news when I can. Good luck though Nat, really want it to be a bfp for you. You have to have it before I give birth lol.
LittleLady talk nice to your dh and persuade him to ttc again soon.
Chaz how are you feeling today? Did you have a good night with Finley?
All ok here but the lounge wall is wet from the bloody bathroom leaking all over and dh just painted the lounge! Got someone coming to look at it tomorrow and quote for fitting new shower. Wonder what else is going to go wrong with the house!
13/10/08 18:18
hey girls. bfn on tesco test but bfp (very very very faint) on ebay test. i dont trust them anymore. i just dont know whats going on, driving me mad. my fr tests didnt turn up today, hopefully tomorrow. af due tomorrow too. grrrrrrrrr.
how is everyone else?
13/10/08 11:13
OMG, I don't come on here for 2 days and I come back to find 1/2 of us pg, lol. Wow Nat you must be sooooooo excited. I am so jealous, lol. Have you tested again yet??? I am sure it must be a bfp, I really trust the ebay tests, they never failed me!!!
OOOOOOH, I am so exited. I will come back later to see if you have tested. Good Luck,
x x x
12/10/08 21:16
shelley get some deoderant wipes and water free alcohol hand wash, who needs a shower!!!!! lol
chaz hope things start looking up on the house front and i know exactly how you feel wanting to run away. once i actually had a look on the internet for places i could rent, that scared dh!!
12/10/08 20:42
Hi girls.
Good luck with the testing tomorrow Nat, really hope you get a stronger bfp!
. So exciting, it's so amazing finding out your pg. I will miss it all when I've given birth. I won;t have an excuse for all the chocolate I'm craving and eating! Wispas yum yum!Chaz awww sorry you're had a rough time of it but don't feel bad about wanting to be on your own. I bet there isn't a parent who has never wished that. It does get you down at times.
Sounds like lots of work has finally been done on your cottage now, that's good news. Hopefully it won;t be too long before you can move in.
Not sure when the tank is being fixed but we now have a leaky shower on top of all that and the kitchen wall is a mess as is the outside wall! Dh been trying to get someone to sort it, no luck yet. Might have to resort to the hosepipe! Or at the worst be smelly!
12/10/08 20:02
Hiya all hope your all well!! omg a bfp hope its the answer you want Nat and tahnks for the note on facebook! had a few hard days!! where i want to be away anywhere alone!! lol i'm sure you all now what i'm talking about!!
Whens your tank getting mended!! Oh shelly shouldn't think there be any bfp here till next year!! not planning it got to get my body sorted first!! got doctors on thursday! gunna get the proper pill i think while i'm there! although i still have NO AF!! gunna ask about that too??!!lol
Most of the plastering is done at the cottage just need it to dry out! hopefully things should start moving on the next 2wks!! there 4000 over budget!! lol and dh hasn't been paid yet and still has work to do up there!! lol
Looking into low cost housing atm also at The Lizard ( where his parents live) coz if we can buy for the amount we're renting we just as well put our money towards that!! but early days and don't know any prices yet??!!
must go !! dh needs to go for a smoke!! lol better fit he gave up a bit?? lol says me!! non smoker for 13mths!!! lol
12/10/08 19:24
ill be due 23rd june. did a tesco test this morning and very very very faint line again which got stronger but quite a while later. slightly concerned its an evap. however tomorrow my hcg will have doubled so hopefully get a 'proper' bfp. we'll see. im excited but very nervous as if bfn then im not pg and were evaps. im sure yesterdays wasn't an evap though?
anyway hope your tank gets sorted soon shelley!! how are you all?
Hi girls, I spent the morning writing pages and pages of things that have happened to Alex at school since he went back in September. My god is took almost 3 hours!
LittleLady the same thing happened to me a few years ago, I had 5 smears in about 6 months as they kept coming back inadequate! In the end I was referred to the hospital for the consultant to do it! He used a special curved hook thing and that came back fine. Was a nightmare and like you say what if something is wrong and it's going to takes ages to find out as you have to wait 3 months!!!!!! No when I have smears I ask them to make sure they get a good sample! Not due one til next year!
Chaz, glad things are coming along with the cottage now and work is getting done at last. How is Finley doing? OMG at all the tablets you're taking, you'll be rattling, hope they work for you though.
Nat how's the testing going, any news for us yet?