Feel so pathetic
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14/12/08 15:06
Hey Ria, sorry to hear you're having a crap time of it at the moment and he's acting up again. I really dunno what to suggest, I always go on about the whole 'can ya try and talk it through with him and explain to him how you really feel about it all' but it's come to a point where I think that has been suggested several times and it's still continuing to go on, so that's obviously not a solution. The only thing I can think of (but would understandably be very hard to do physically and emotionally being 8 months or so preggy) is to suggest some time apart. Maybe he could go spend a week with family or at a mates, and it might show you a lot about one another. He might really realise how much he needs and relies on you, and how much he misses you and Kai. Also, might make you focus on the positive things about him and your relationship (like, there might be things you miss about him whilst he is away?) I don't know, I mean timing is bad for something like that is obviously something that would work a whole lot better had you not been coming up to your due date. I really can't think of other solutions or things to try though. From previous posts he doesn't sound like someone who would consider Relationship Counselling, or is he? I agree with the other girls, I think there is something in the air at the moment, I find it so easy to be p'd off by Raphael at the moment, and it isn't even like he has done anything in particular at the moment! Maybe we're all a lil bit on edge about the approach of D Day? I think men see going out as the easy answer - running away from the problem... When will they learn it isn't? I dunno, but I hope you get some sort of positive result today
Oh, and quickly to add, in your OP you said you feel like you don't have anyone to talk to - please remember there are like 100+ members of DIJ who would be willing to read ya rants (((HUGS)))
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14/12/08 14:14
Hope you get it sorted and are feeling happier tomorrow. Xx
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14/12/08 13:47
Hey hunni , have only just caught up on this thread . Think the other girls have given the advice that i would have . So am just sending love and hugs xxx
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14/12/08 13:33
Hopefully Kai will behave himself and go to bed early so we can talk. He'll probably come home and fall asleep on the sofa like a pig
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14/12/08 13:29
Aww hunie i hope u get things sorted out and things start to get better for you
keep your chin up and b happy hunie, big hugs!!
at spendin £200 last night that terrible, 
you have reason to be down and upset cus i know i would be.. Aww hunnie you deserve to be treat better than this!! let us know how the talk goes x.x.x -
14/12/08 13:23
bloody internets driving me crazy, pay a fortune for it and can't get on it!! Well he didn't come home last night, ended up staying out til 3 and then going to work with a friend 4 til 4. Called me from the work number so I know he's there. Was over the limit to drive home. Told him to be honest I don't want him to come back and can't go on with things how they are. He acts like a pathetic stroppy little child. He groveled for a while apologised and said we'd have a proper chat when he got home because he doesn't want to be like this either. Whether it happens or not is another story, I'll probably get the usuall bullsh!t with him saying he's tired and we'll talk about it 2morrow. We'll see!!!
As for the money he spent £200 last night
and is now sitting eating a pizza with his friend Lol Charlotte I hope that order doesn't go threw that I ordered the other day, still say's proscessing!! Lol!! Whoops!!!
torjo, give ur oh a kick up the backside and get him to put the stuff together for u!! Nesting is driving me mad, I'm trying to get everything perfect and done but don't seem to be getting anything done! I get 1 thing done and then find 2 more things 2 do!!
I spent yesterday painting the bathroom to find the white paint dried blue/grey so had to go and get more paint and start again, wish I hadn't bothered because looks worse then when I started because it needs another coat and patches of blue showing threw and can't be bothered to do anymore!! Then I spent over an hour trying to figure out how to fix on a new toilet seat!!
Lol Felove ur probably right actually!! I sat watching the sma advert last night and thought why can't I have a man like that!!!
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have been in tears all day and the last half hour i haven't stopped, me and oh had another row this morning and been out all day and night and has his phone off.feel so s***, i just want this baby out now, sick of feeling like this, don't know what to do with myself and feel like i need someone to slap me round the face and tell me to pull myself together
feel i've got knowone to talk to either, its like i've grown apart from friends since being pregnant and only have one or two really good friends but there both away the weekend 
sorry for the rant.x