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22/8/08 13:09
Firstly I'm so so sorry that you lost your baby, As I read your blog I was in floods of tears....You are so strong and thank you for sharing with us. I really hope you go on to have the baby you are wanting but I'm sure not a day will go by without thinking of you little Angel. I'm a strong believer in thing's happening for a reason, I would hate to think your Angel was taken from you for no reason.
Thinking of you,
Amy x
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22/8/08 11:55
I'm so sorry to hear you lost your precious baby. My thoughts are with you, and I wish you all the best in the future railop xx
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20/8/08 12:10
What a heart wrenching story, i was in floods of tears and since reading cannot stop thinking of you and your family. I think you are an incredibly brave, strong lady to share you story and all your emotions you must be going through.
I hope time heals the pain. Sending you lots of love and special wishes, thinking of you all.
Little Finley a cherished little angel above, always be near. x
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20/8/08 10:04
Railop, I'm so sorry, I am in floods of tears reading your blog. Thank you for sharing it. God bless you and your family.
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20/8/08 07:55
i'm so sorry to hear about your sad loss of Finlay, i read your blog and it had me in tears, you're a really brave woman for sharing it with us. Take care
Diane xxxxxx
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19/8/08 22:29
Thank you all xx
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19/8/08 12:39
Dropping in from DID.
So sorry about your sad, sad news.
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19/8/08 12:11
Hi Hun i read ur blog last night and it moved me to tears, Iv been trying to think what to say as im not to good with words but i just wanted to say i think ur an extremely brave woman and your Dh sounds amazing too. Your son is lucky to have parents like you! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Goodluck with the future xx
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19/8/08 12:03
I'm just so sorry for your loss. You are so brave to have written everything down and to allow us to read and share with you. Reading your thread in High Risk was heartbreaking enough but for you to go through this as well is just so unfair.
It sounds like you are an excellent mummy to your little ones and I can just tell that you would have been to Fin as well.
God Bless.
xx
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19/8/08 10:57
Sorry for your loss - hope you and your partner find some peace together.
xx
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19/8/08 10:50
Just wanted to say thank you so much for sharing finleys story with us I was in tears reading that it was so emotional, I can't imagine how you must be feeling right now just wanted to send you my love and well wishes.
welshgirl x
RIP little Finley xxx
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19/8/08 10:47
railop,i have read ur story and have broke my heart for an hour.i cant imagine what u have been thru nor what u r goin thru and thank god to k's mum for helping out altho i can imagine its also been tough havin her around,its such a private and personal time losing a baby.
i was reminded of many things when i read ur story - my baby was due on 12th aug,i had a mmc in jan - my baby died at 6 wks but i didnt find out til my scan which was so unexpected and painful.i just couldnt believe it was happening to me!!!!
i have fallen preg again,and my 12 wk scan was the day after my baby was ude,i feared this was a bad omen however everything appeared to be fine.The 12th of august was my most emotional day yet since being pregnant,i felt guilty because i have moved on but happy i had a baby to remember those times and i will tell my hopefully take home baby all about that experience - i know the baby was v young,but my 5yr old daughter knew and so did all my family and so was something we all went thru together,equally painful for each and every 1 of us for our reasons - a sore reminder for my mum for the twins she lost and all 4 miscarriages she has suffered.my mum and i have a tough relationship,but this brought us closer sharing a feeling that only a small number of women will experience,however small just too many ppl suffer this trauma.
i am not trying to say i understand how u feel,because what i experienced was nothing in comparison,but it pains me every day - my partner and i discuss it regularly and we have a song which reminds us of our baby and when this comes on we both r silent,and u can just sense the pain we still both feel,even the we r lucky to have another chance and hope now.
life is a funny old thing - what goes around!we found out my partners mum had cancer,then we found out i was pg with the baby i lost,and then his mum went into remission a few wks later and very quickly after i lost my baby - it seemed there wasnt room just yet for my baby......6 months later the cancer had come back and she died,as quick as that - no warning.we were lucky to see her the night she died,and to make amends for a recent fall out we had all had!she always liked me and thought highly ofme and her son being a couple,his family say i helped him out of a whole other world which was dangerous for him,and he is a calm family man now which is far from the man he was 6 yrs ago.her younger son and girlfriend she did not approve of,and she was open about this,right til the bitter end.Both of us were trying for a baby,and it seems i got lucky....just 2days after his mum died,i conceived.I know it was then cos the wks after this were painful and we didnt sleep together,we were both distraught.I am now 12+6,and i feel this baby is a gift from her,and i have had scares with this baby,but me and bubs r strong right now and i hope this really is a gift i can keep and treasure - its the best gift she could have left us,and i feel that his mum has made some room for this baby now so we pray and we hope every day that this is so....
sorry for wafflin on but i wanted to share my story with u,i feel i have intruded on ur life and so i wanted to share some of mine.I hope u get thru this and get strong again,and i know u say u dont think therell be another,but dont give up hope either cos miracles really do happen,look u have ur son!!!i wish u all the luck and love for the future x
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19/8/08 10:25
Hi there, Im half way thorugh reading your blog and I just wanted to say that my thoughts are with you. I can not imagine how you feel to have gone thorugh somthing so traumtic. May you find comfort and peace . Please lok after yourself and give yourself and your family time to come to terms with what has happened.
Love and prayers to you, Keith and O.x.x
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19/8/08 10:03
hi i'm from DIA, i just wanted to say i understand andi am so sorry for your loss
i read your storey and it had me in tears,
i'm sure your angel will look over you and help you through this tough time.
xxx
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19/8/08 09:54
I am so sorry to hear your news, my thoughts are with you I'm nearly in tears. Take care of yourself & hope to see you on here very soon. xxx
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19/8/08 09:49
Im so sorry for your loss. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us all, it was very emotional. I think you are a very strong, brave lady and Fin will be looking down so very proud of his mummy. All the best to you and your family xxxxxxx
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19/8/08 09:18
Like others, I have followed your story and read your blog, thank you for sharing Finley's special story with us. No words can ease the pain you and your family are feeling, but you have a very special place to remember your very special little angel who was too good for this world. RIP Finley James xxx
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19/8/08 01:06
hi, just popped over from ttcal the gang thread...Im trully sorry for your loss honey!! i hope you and keith are both finding comfort in one another!
it was an honour to read your blog and finlay will be sooo proud of you, his mummy - for choosing to share his special story!! i shed a few tears when reading your choice of special place for remembering finlay... that was a lovely thought... somewhere for all the family to visit!!
i wish you and your family all the best for the future and send you all lots of love and hugs!!
gone but never forgotten...RIP little angel xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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18/8/08 23:43
I am in tears reading your blog. Thinking of you. R.I.P. Finley
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18/8/08 22:51
Hey Railop - I took time out to read your blog and was touched that you felt able to share this experience with others. I am so very sorry and cannot imagine what you must be feeling but am glad that Fin's birth was dealt with so sensitively.
Take Care of yourself and all the best for a happy future with your family.
Love Jx
Thank you to everyone that sent me pm's and good wishes for last week.
For those that don't know my baby died last wednesday 13th August and I gave birth to him on Friday 15th at 1537, he weighed 92 grams and we named him Finley James. For anyone that wants to know what happened please feel free to read my blog here: http://mumsam.madmums.com/
Thank you again and good luck with your bumps, take care all Sam xx