Thanks ladies.

Glad you're ttc again Sam.  Keep us updated on your progress.  Really hope to hear some big news from you soon.  The likelihood of having 2 babies with the same condition should be slim I would imagine so am sure things will turn our right for you next time and you'll have your little bundle of joy to take home.

I know I'm being silly about all this fortune teller nonsense.  I honestly usually do take these things with a pinch of salt and there have been little things before that haven't been spot on but it was never something that worried me as much as this so I kind of let it become a big issue for me yesterday.  Must be the hormones, lol.  I suppose we all must worry that something bad might happen to our babies, I know I did last year with ds and I had no real reason to.

Thanks again for all your replies.  I really hope you're all right xxx

Hope you are feeling better today.  She can just be wrong or misinturpreting the card.

I am back ttc again.  Found out last week that our baby did have Downs Syndrome and that is why she didn't make it.  He did say that most babies with Downs will be born live but our baby had more severe case and it must have affected her heart development.  Still miss her like crazy but am determined not to be beaten by this.  Good luck and I am sure your baby boy will be perfect.

HI hun.  I dont really have an advice for you but just wanted to say..  I saw a medium in nov, 2 months after my daughter was still born.  He was very accurate about my family, about peope who i'd lost who were "coming through".  He said a very young girl was there but wasnt close enough or able to speak to know who she was.  I assume it was my little girl amber.  He knew odd things had been happening in our house etc.  Obviously we were going to be ttc but i hadnt had my first af by this time so was still waiting.  He said he was feeling flutters in his belly and looked at me and said "your pregnant", which i wasnt, he was insistant i was but just didnt know it yet.  He suddenly said he saw "bells", thought they were warning bells, then said they were wedding bells and knew our anniversay was coming up in jan.  He still insisted that i was pg but if i wasnt then i would be by anniversary on 27th jan.  Turned out i wasnt pregnant and still didnt get a bfp till june, so he was so right on everything except the thing that he shouldnt have said really.  Just trying to say that she may be right a lot of the time, but dont dwell on it too much hun.  mediums do make mistakes, but she was right that you would have 2 babies close together.  So just try and remember that hun. Sorry not been much help.xx

mornin hun,

your not bein silly at all...i visit mediums and tarot readers too. When I first found I was pregnant i went to a medium night and the medium "picked" me to have a reading. he was very accurate, sayin this and that about my past even tellin me i have a lot of gay influences lol as i have a lot of gay friends. he was spot on about me plannin my wedding, tellin me what colour the room was where id chosen to have my reception...until he told me i have had a miscarriage. my mum didnt know i was pg at this point and it absolutely terrified me. but everything, touch wood, has been fine!!

also my nan is a medium and she read me some tarot cards when i was 3 monthes pg and said its deffo a girl, its since proved to be a boy lol.

dont worry too much, they do get it wrong sometimes honestly

claire 21+3

how obvious on the scan were his boy bits? they can never be 100% sure (though mine was lying there legs spread all his glory showing). i know this was like 25years ago but my best friends mum always tell us how she was told she was having a boy and out popped a girl so they can make mistakes. its absolutely fine to believe in tarot reader and she was right in saying u were having 2 close together so maybe just got one tiny detail right. she didn't tell u u were gonna have a miscarrige or that anything bad would happen to this preg (and if she's as acurate as u describe she'd have known that o doubt) so i wouldn't worry hun and just look forward to having ur baby in feb x

I'm sure everything will be fine. Although it must be hard try not to worry after all even though she has been accurate with a lot of things she is only human and could still have got that wrong!

Personally I don't believe in that sort of thing but you obviously do and if it makes you worry so much (pregnancy hormones don't help of course!) maybe you should talk to her. Sometimes it's best to take some things with a pinch of salt and make your own destiny and future I'm sure tarot cards can't always be right, come feb I'm sure you will have another healthy little boy. xx

any good spritulist should never give out information that should cause you to worry. iv been brought up with lots of them my mum has lots of friends that are into it all so iv been a ginnypig lol......i think that your hormones are playing a part in this and maybe wher you was convineced it was girl and was told otherwise your now worring that something is wrong sometime they get it wrong and im sure if you was to go see her and explain how your now feeling she will be more then happy to put your mind at rest.......xxlisaxx

i agree with railop too. maybe going to see her again would make you feel better........... xxlisaxx

Thanks girls.  Feel a bit of a fraud worrying about this after what you've been through Sam.

The scan is definitely not wrong.  I saw his little winky floating about in the amniotic fluid in all its glory twice.  It's not that I put a lot of trust in everything this woman has ever said, most things she's said just the once and I would accept that to be wrong but she tells me this everytime I have ever been to see her.  It's the same card that keeps coming up all the time.

Don't really want to go back and see her incase I end up even more worried.  I suppose its easy to get worried about these things when the baby's inside you and there's not really much you can do to protect it.  And hormones dont help either x

Hi Pregnantpolo, hope you don't mind me gate crashing here.  It seems you have invested a lot of trust in this lady and that is ok if it is something you believe in.  There could be a number of reasons why she has it wrong and it doesn't mean anything bad is going to happen to your baby boy.  She could simply just have got it wrong.  The other thing is it's not the woman that determines the sex of the baby it's the mans sperm if she hasn't met your oh she just didn't get it right.  Or the scan could be wrong it's not unknown.  If you are worried go and see her again and see what she says now you are pregnant....

your not being stupid at all honey. us women a were a nightmare we worry about everythin.......i personally think everythink will be fine and it wont be long befor you have him in your arms.   dont worry hun. xxlisaxx

Please don't laugh at this or dismiss it as stupid as I'm really starting to get quite worried.

I have been going to this tarot reader for the past 6 years (been to her maybe once a year) and she has always been so accurate.  Told me my mum had an illness called Fybromyalgia 2 years before my mother got diagnosed with this disease, predicted I would walk out of my job a few years back, always knew what situations I was in relationship-wise and what I would do about it etc.  Almost everything she's said has been spookily accurate and having been to other tarot readers I'm sceptical about these people but this lady is really good.

Anyway, everytime I have ever been to see her she always tells me that I will have 2 children, a boy and a girl.  Last year I was pg with ds but not yet showing so went to her and she told me I was pg, it was a boy and that I would then have a girl and there wouldn't be a big age gap.  Anyway, today my scan showed without a doubt I'm having another boy.  I'm more than happy with another boy but am quite scared that as this lady has been so accurate with everything else, for her to be accurate with this then am scared something will go wrong with this baby.

Reading back what I have written I can't believe I'm seriously gonna post this as I'm aware it sounds ridiculous but I can't help worrying.  Just want to be sitting in the hospital in February with my little boy in my arms x