I felt the same with my last pg. I could not understand why anyone would want to know. This time I'm finding out. There are a number or reasons I suppose. I've become more impatient in my old age (dd is only 2 but I feel 100 years older!). I want to know whether to get her stuff out and washed or given away/sold (although not bothered about buying anything). Also, I had PND with dd and I guess I just want to try and make EVERYTHING as different as possible. As it is my pg is totally different so another reason is that I'm so convinced it's a boy I need to have some time to get my head around it if it's another girl (although I originally wanted 2 girls, I've just got myself convinced!). It made me realise how personal this all is. My dad is not happy I'm finding out and "does not want to know". I would like to keep it to just us anyway but not sure how that will work out.

I agree though, I was also surprised how many people are finding out and was the last time too.

I envy all of you that have the patience to wait until the stalk actually visits before finding out... I just have noooo patience!

The 20 extra weeks of not knowing would drive me crazy, I have found out the sex with all four of mine.

xxSuexx 22+5

I am pleased we are all different lol! Some of us know the sex due to medical reason and i know there are a couple and i know as my consulatnt wanted to know and still not 100% on pink.. if it is we know this pregnanyc jus became a lot easier if its a boy then its hardrer. Also after a mmc last year a late mc this year (easter sunday at 17+1 ) i m finding  it very hard to bond with this baby as it hasnt sunk in really but i am also worried sick till i reach viability. Its nice to know what yellow bumps are i agree and the guessing is fun i think each to there own and its nice what ever we decide! My dd was a yellow till a day befor i had her as i had to have a scan as i had pre-eclapmsia and her legs were open!! Hugs Michelle 21+6

im soooo glad we are all so different !

be  avery boring world if we all thought the same ! 

I still will wait ... and have that suprise... i still will congratulate all those that find out ..... is it PINK or is it BLUE.... will let you know in 5 months !

:-)

hormones fine thanx just cant see the point in opinionating on every one else choices

think thing these days the technology there for people to find out so they choose to use it

unfortunately the choice is taken out a lot of peoples hands as baby not sittin right, noticed lots have said that they think its ...... be interestin to see how many right

I found out today that im having a boy.  I wanted to find out for practical reasons because we didnt plan for the baby i wanted to be as prepared as possible.  Im glad i found out but i think if there is a next time i will wait for the surprise.

its does not matter..just saying what i thought..... not a bad thign for people that do find out !! just said i wish i could find out but want a suprise aswell ?? !!

Hormones getting the better of you ???

i think people are missing the point surely the important thing is that we all finding out that our babies are healthy?

does it really matter who chooses to find out an who doesnt? its us that has to live with the desicion of finding out, so wat does it matter?

my laptop is playing up. my post meant to say i'm not finding out. i want the excitment when it comes to feb! not long now ladies!!! halfway there!!!

pb and a wriggly yellow bumpy xx

I had no interest in finding out when I was PG with my DD, I couldn't understand why people wanted to either, I had a c-section and when they told me she was a girl and bought her round for me to see, it was the happiest moment of my life

But as I've had 3 MC's since having her and the feel like this PG hasn't sunk in yet, I think finding out the sex will make the pregnancy seem more real and allow me to bond with the baby. 19+5 x

me 2 ... cant imagine knowing ... just remember how exciting it was not knowing and fter all that pain just saying .. WHAT IS IT ????????????????

I am remaining a yellow bump - we just really want a surprise x

23+1

I think the only reason i found out was because i had waited soooo long to fall pregnant,  I couldnt wait anymore i mean i liked the idea of it, but my attitude has very much become i want it all and i want it now lol.  But really as far as things like clothes shopping goes i prefer to go for lemons and creams, i'm not really big on ALL blue our ALL pink but i is nice to get a few chose item.

Mines a BLUE bump had my scan today.  Any a very cheecky one i might add, syicking his toung out at his mummy and daddy

i'ot finding out. got scan on thursday morning at 9am only 3 more sleeps assuming i actually  sleep!!!

pb and yellow bumpy xx19+6

......... when i was a DIJ mummy hardly any of us found out sex of bubs but there are loads of  you this time round.

i would hhate to know but spose we are all diff

well done to all your PINK and BLUE bumps

xxxxx