Hi Sadey - I hope your feeling better this morning. What on earth were you still doing up at 2am?

I had my scan yesterday and had the same worries. It sounds ridiculous now but when I went for the 12 week scan the sonographer after telling me everything looked fine started to look again at something although he didn't say anything and that played on my mind. It's completely normal for us to worry about everything and i am sure everything will be fine. What time is your scan tomorrow?

I found out yesterday I have another blue bump and I must admit I had a cry when I got home. I had to leave dp sorting Thomas out because I didn't want my eldest to see I was upset about having another boy. Everybody wanted this to be a girl - me more than anyone I think. My mum was laughing though because my gran had 4 girls and my mum had 3 with no boys and now here's me with 3 of them  I would have loved a daughter though and I'm having to forget about that as I don't want any more kids. I'm not a fan of pregnancy as it is and ther's no way I could afford 4 kids.   

I hope you get the pink bump you wanted and you can find out the sex. I was looking for it as soon as she started the scan so noticed his willy early on although she didn't say anything until the end.

anyway

Thanks for replying. I have so many mixed emotions and in a way if I get a chance to find  out part of me feels it will give me time to prepare etc, like if its a boy get rid of lots of my daughters clothes ,making room for more blue ones lol! I will wait to see if I get the opportunity or not!

Just not feeling anything right now though, I am lucky I have two healthy beautiful children a son and daughter so this third one is like a little bonus in a way!

Awww hun Im sure you will have a great scan tmoro.. and your little bubs will be waving at you and kicking away !

Do you think you will want to find out the sex then ?

x

20+5

i have my 20 wk scan tomorrow, well today in 11 hrs time roughly not that i am counting or anything, but i am nervous and really just worried that things will be ok!

i am no spring chicken anymore (will be 38 when bubs is born in april)and just haven't felt pregnant much at all, only past few days, seem to of grown quite rapidly, so looking pregnant and not just fatter

its silly, but at my 12 wk scan the picture wasn't clear at all and its hard to describe, but i didn't really see any arms or legs, you probably think i sound weird but its something that has been playing on my mind, it was such a quick scan they were running an hour late due to staff illness's etc

well all will be revealed by tomorrow afternoon hopefully, i also have not known if i would choose to know the sex this time, last time i wanted to know then was devastated that i didn't get to find out for 24hrs i cried it was such a negative experience then loved looking forward to the surprise in the end, so am mixed views undecided, of course might not get the choice like last time

oh well, best try to get some sleep, but not feeling tired, bit too nervous maybe. roll on tomorrow i mean later today at 11:30