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26/8/08 15:13
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26/8/08 14:51
Just wanted to say, was talking to sil the other day and she was eight weeks late and had bfn's the whole time. Her dd is now three months old! Think all women are different hun!
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26/8/08 14:37
i the same as u to some extent a week late and no positve test just negs, but have all the symptons of being preg.
went to docs this morning and they going to do bloods on friday if no af!!!!
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26/8/08 08:31
thanks i just donno what to think now i have no cm sore boobs alrite but that could just be af on her way im cd 29 now should of had af yest nothing to report as of yet im just wonderin when shall i expect af to arrive ....
im not gonna con myself any more tho i do think that its over just wish af would show up now to let me get on with things im hopin it wont be a 2ww
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26/8/08 08:21
Hun when I had my chemical I didn't get any strong symptoms and I got the bfp on the sunday, bfn on the tue then started bleeding later that day!
I know it's hard but wait a few days and try a cb digi. xx
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25/8/08 20:45
i agree with the last post...you need to test again, and maybe use first response as i have heard hundreds of things about how unreliable clear blue is early on. xxxx emma
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25/8/08 16:00
Hun, only a small percentage of women who ARE pg get a +ve result from a First Response Early 6 days before AF is due (the leaflet that comes with the test tells you all about it). This is assuming of course that you normally have a 28-ish day cycle. I'd give it another go hun, just to be sure. Hope it all works out for you {{{{HUGS}}}}
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25/8/08 15:03
awh thanks so much for your positive vibes x its the not knowin i hate x i had a mc last month so 2beans in 2months is horrible i haven been out all weekend as just dont want to talk to anyone. See i tried a first responce last tuesday cd 22and got a very faint line but than i got bfn from then on so thats why i changed to clear blue i just dont feel anything im just hopin on a whim that there still myt be a chance . Just i no alot of people are saying if im gettin positive opk i should be gettin it on a hpt which is not the case. Just would love to hear that someone had the same experience or something i dono x -
25/8/08 14:33
Hi Taz hun. I think your line, however faint, is a +ve. You're still quite early, so a faint +ve (especially on a Clearblue, which are actually not the best tests to use until AF is quite late, the best ones use pink dye not blue and Clearblue needs more hcg to work) is a good sign. I think you'd be better off getting a First Response Early and trying that. Whatever you do, don't use Predictor! They're even worse in my experience.
I had a chemical pregnancy earlier in the year, just over a month after an mmc so my symptoms will probably not be the same as someone who hadn't just had an mmc iykwim. I'd been spotting for a week already, did a test and got a faint +ve, did another test the following day which got a stronger +ve and then AF arrived in full flood later that day.
I would guess, based on what you've written, that you are pg. Get a First Response Early and give that a go. Good luck hun.
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25/8/08 14:02
hi all thanks for your replies well its now af due day and nothing no sign of it at all im so so confused im not getting my symptoms half as strong as i was a week ago but am lightheaded and every now and again get the butterfly feelin but am ignorin them. Done a clear blue yesterday and got what i would class as a bfn thought i could see the faintest line ever but chosen it as a negitive and done an opk today and was positive im so confused what is goin on i wish i just knew x -
23/8/08 18:50
never ever give up hope i took 2 years to concieve and lost at 16 weeks another 6 years later and fertilty treatment drugs and i fell with my ben i fell with my keon dim08 after just 8 months of trying and looks like im a dim09 and i wasnt trying at all..so if i can get pg finally after 8 years and then go on to have 3 im sure anyone can..so like i say never ever give up hope..i got bfn with keon on cd25 but bfp on cd27 xx
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23/8/08 16:08
emical when ttc and it was horrible but it nly took another month before i got my bfp. it ain't over til af shows and ifopks are still pos then it may just be taking a while for pg hormones. if you are more than a week late, please go and speak to epu ust to rule out an ectopic - rare but possible. X
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22/8/08 18:26
As far as i know its when the sperm penetrates the egg but it doesnt implant
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22/8/08 18:20
I can't say i have ever had a chemical pregnancy, can someone tell me what exactly happens to cause it? From what you said it sounds exactly like my symptoms...particularly the v v sore back which i still have, even if i turn sideways it twinges! I got three bfps yesterday and am due on may 1st....keep us posted hun xxxx -
22/8/08 15:33
thanks but i just dont no now i really think i had a chemical so looks like back to smep mind you its affected me alot more than i thought so myt take a break from it... just wish i hadnt had all of this to be honest ... who bloody created chemical preg its just cruel xx
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22/8/08 15:11
hey hun, smep pal! i know you are prob dying to know what's going on, it must be torture ((hugs)). if you have a strong feeling that you are then you're prob right but only word of warning is i think we know from reading other ladies' experiences that bodies are sometimes cruel and play tricks on us. however i had a really strong feeling it was going to be my month and even a few days after ov i thought i was and voiced it to dh even tho i hadn't done a test and it was pre-implantation pains. everyone is different in pg so it's really hard to say your symptoms sound right. for me it was way more feelings and twinges down there, plus cramps and back pain on implantation and bad reaction to alcohol. i also had problems sleeping which i never have and i have felt more energised (which is weird cos you think a lot of things are happening in your body and you'd be tired
). so i would say wait a few more days and re-test. first response are good in my experience as i got faint line on tues and then stronger line yesterday. i did a clear blue today and it came up bfp but it was fainter cos different brand. i know it's hard to be patient but listen to your body, and do another test in a few days. i hope it's bfp and then you join us in DIM x 
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22/8/08 14:48
Hi hun, Ive had a chemical and real pregs and i know with the chemical one all the symptoms that u would get thru out pregnancy i got all within a few days, it was almost like a fast track thing and that was when i got the v v v faint line, and then negs after that and eventually had a period but it took a while. With this one im getting symptoms slower and constant positive tests so im hoping this isnt a chemical one. Not sure i can help just thought id tell u my experience. If u keep getting negs then it may be a chem one hun

Good luck

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22/8/08 13:26
ok ladies im gonna put it on here as im too affraid of the replies on ttc and hope maybe someone has some simular experience
i am now on cd 25 and today tested and got a bfn....
from cd 19 iv been havin the worst back ace ever but i took not notice and its continued to be like this and i was also slightly light headed. on cd 20 i done a opk dont no why just did and it came up + so i thought oh great im ov again (i tested on cd14 got a + and tested agin on cd15 to be sure and got a - so no idef ov than) but however it was a + the next day... from cd 20 i had the weirdest feelins in my body and i just knew i was these were feelins i cant even explain other than i felt my body changin i had butterfly feelins in my belly and at nyt couldnt sleep with all these feelins and had growin feelins in my legs... they got stronger and stronger from that day and i just knew i was boobs are really really heavy and area areound nipple is dark and huge... had been feelin sick but not gettin sick and had heartburn also had the metalic tatse continuin... so on tue this week i done a first responce and got a v v v v v faint line however i did only dribble on it thought i needed loo but didnt lol and it took a while for anything to show so got excited and the next day done another but got a bfn and have been up until to day but opk are still + have had loads of cm... the other day i had that pullin feelin also... well symptoms have worn off but still got a bad back and slighly lightheaded... im been very emotional from think that i just knew and didnt even need to test cus i just knew to doubtin myself im in bits i cant handle it anymore...
am i havin a chemical or am i stil in with a chance ??
sorry to gate crash and
to all you dim mummys xxx


















think ill book a doc app next week as i have my bad back really bad which was my first sign of preg i got and i had the metalic taste this morn and my boobs are really quite sore and still massive.... i would so love to be one of them lucky people with them lucky stories but i doubt it done a cb digi today and bfn so maybe its just gone its weird as i have no af symptoms either but think it will take awhile to show .... i think i wod no wouldn i i mean it is odd that theyv just gone .... bfn are poop lol
listen everyone thanks very very much for your replies really appreciate it keep em comin lol xxxxx
everyone