due on mum in-law b-day
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2/10/08 15:32
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2/10/08 15:26
thank you all im just 1 of them people allways tryin 2make other people happy at the cost of my own happiness ,Sad eh bt i feel abit more encouragement now that its her prob not mine so thank you for all d encouragement ladies it has helped xxxxx -
2/10/08 08:30
HI Hun,
I'm sorry you are worrying like this, age is nothing my lovely!! your MIL should be happy that there is another wonderful grandchild on the way, and if she can't be then sod her!!! I'm sorry, that sounds harsh doesn't it but your MIL feelings on this should not be affecting this lovely time for you sweetheart, MILs are a weird thing, I stopped looking for my MILs approval ages ago, one minute I'm flavour of the month and the next I'm evil, her particular grudge at the mo is that I only give my DD (just 4) her Dave (sorry dummy, we have daft names for stuff in our house) at bedtime...wht a terrible mum I am eh??? lol,
Hope this turns out ok for you, let us know
Hugs
Nettie
xxx
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2/10/08 08:17
I had my DS on my fil b day and he said it was the best birthday present ever, even though that was his only present that year as i went a week early!!!!!!! he loved it though x
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2/10/08 00:17
thanx i suppose i just hav to realise wots don is don n take wat she throws at me like a grown up lol! xx -
1/10/08 22:42
Sorry only just managed to get here for 10 mins. But couldn't just read and run.
In my opinion (that is all it is to be honest) your mil should be happy that you make her son happy even if you are both young. Hey I was 35 when I fell for my 1st and he was due the day b4 my dads b'day and all were over the moon. This one is due the day after my dp's b'day and my mil is still worrying about us being together and we are talking nearly 12 years together.
Ok I've babbled enough in short your mil may have reservations espec since you have another lo and are still young but she should be happy that her son is in love and found himself a wonderfull woman who has given him the gift of 2 children whom he will adore. If she doesn't like it, it will grow on her as there is nothing that can change the fact you are expecting her grandchild.
Sorry I'm not very good at the advice bit, but I hope you get the jist.
Neet xx
p.s it doesn't matter how old the son is the mum always worries about him no matter what (mine is 33 and she still phones me worrying about him).
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1/10/08 22:31
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1/10/08 21:44
im due on my mum in-laws b-day bt d thing is i havnt told her yet bt im dreading it as im only 21 n on 2nd baby lo will b 3wen this 1 comes n i'll b 22 i know shes gonna b dissapointed n now i feel dissapointed in myself bt i want to b able 2 look 4ward 2 this bt dont feel that i can bt you think that telling her the babys due on her bday will softrn the blow or am i just wishful thinkin??? thanx 4 any input xxx
im sure she wount mind what day the baby is due and besides babies down often turn up when expected i remember my due day expecting it to happen and then nothing did. Age is nothing my friend is 22 and has 2 fantastic children with only 14 months between them and she does a brilliant job xx