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11/9/08 14:56
Amy, really feel for you hun xxx ((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))
Kim know just what youre going through, my 3 eldest have a different dad to m y 2 youngest and he was the same. Always letting them down and putting everyone else before them. Eventually as they got older they stopped blaming me and realised he couldnt be bothered and refused to go with him. Its been 5 years since they saw him now and life is so much less complicated. Nik is more than enough dad for them all. As you said shame not biological though. xx
Hi to everyone else! Going to cook tea now before the rascals come in from school
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10/9/08 21:54
aww kim (((hugs))) i cant imagine how disappointed you must be for jess and i fully understand and agree with what your saying! larry is a fab daddy to her and he's all she really needs. if her dad cant be arsed with her then sod him! he needs to realise his responsibilities
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10/9/08 21:06
Silly Bounty put the 000 on a different line lol
I'd actually do it for free if I knew I could become emotionally detatched from the baby but I know I couldn't!
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10/9/08 20:55
For a sec I thought you were offering to have a baby for a £10 then KIm, lol, must read properly! -
10/9/08 20:54
Kim I'm not surprised you are cheesed off! A week sounds like a long time to be away from you and her family, a weekend might be different. I think as Larry is such a great Dad it shows Jess's up more, but he should realise that he doesn't want to disappoint his daughter and that it's awful you having to lie for him. Amy I wish we had a magic wand that could wave away the problems that are causing you to need a hysterectomy, I think knowing it's 5 months away must be making it soo hard for you as I know how much you love being pregnant. -
10/9/08 20:49
Amy - hate to do it but here's a virtual slap lol
Do u want me to have a baby for you? £10 000 will do nicely lol
xxxx
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10/9/08 20:47
Oh and that's 4 weeks money he owes me - I've had to buy all Jess's school uniform & shoes and pay school dinners & milk money with no help from him.
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10/9/08 20:46
Ladies I need some advice
Jess's dad hasn't seen her for over 4 weeks apart from 2 hours on Thursday, first he was away for 2 weeks, then we were away the last weekend he said he was taking his girlfriend away for her birthday and therefore couldn't have Jess. Anyway my friend told me that she seen him on Saturday driving his landrover through the floods with his mates, so I done a search on facebook and up he popped - his status said he was waiting for his girlfriend to come home from her birthday night out & he had posted loads of pics of him f*cking about in the floods when he was supposed to have Jess. I actually don't want him to have Jess but how dare he not have her and lie. She is everything to me & she should be to him. I so wish Larry was her biological dad as he is in every other sense of the word.
Anyway I've just had a text from him asking if he can take her on holiday in the Feb half term bearing in mind he has never had her for more than one night and he cancels out so often. I texted him back saying a week was too long & waiting for a reply.
I just want to scream at him that he can't have her when he is supposed to (I've even kept a diary for the last 4 years) so why should he be able to take her away for a week? I'm so angry that he lets her down, she's starting to understand and ask questions and I have to lie for him.
I'm not letting him take her on holiday, I can't be without her for a week.
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10/9/08 20:45
i need all you ladies to kick me in to touch please!!! thing is im gagging for another baby!!!!! tell me off now and totally put me off the idea!!!!!
now i KNOW i cant have one for the babies health and mine and i KNOW im having a hysterectomy in feb (minor detail pmsl) but i cant stop going in the due in forums and general pregnancy. just read this stupid thread about some plonker that is pregnant with baby number 5 and doesnt want the baby. WHY NOT USE PROTECTION
i know accidents happen and its my own fault for lookng through the pregnancy forums but i cant help it lol.someone slap me!!!!!!!!!!!!
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10/9/08 14:22
Suzy I think you'd make a great midwife, you've been there and got the tshirt as they say! Although you already work full time with you 4 lovely kids and as Romi is so small, would you want the stress of studying something new straight away, rather than waiting a year
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10/9/08 13:08
Aaw poor little Dex!! I hate jabs!! At least he's done for a while now though!!
Suzy - I think it's a fab idea to start a course, as you know I've just completed the 1st year of a degree so I can become a qualified teacher & get paid for what I do!! Got to enrol for my second year next week. I thought about becoming a midwife too as they do such a fab job but I'm spoilt in my job with all the hols.
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10/9/08 12:29
hey all
kim no chance of me getting broody anyway we are waiting for lee's app for the snip so no more for us,
i am thinkin of going back to collage not sure tho, i really want to start something so that i can be fully qualified by the time romi gets to school age i think i am going to enrole on the access healh course so i could become a midwife im a bit scared tho if i want to start this year i need to enrole and start by the 15th dunno what to do
anyway how s everyone eles????
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10/9/08 09:43
Hello All
Amy so sorry to hear about the lovely Scarlett, can't believe it .................she's is defo putting you and Lee through it.......glad Sophie liked School!!
Glad to hear everyone is doing well...Dex had his 3rd lot of jabs on monday and he was grumpy afterwards...his poor leg was a bit bruised aswell....good job no more till he is 1!!!
Have a good day
Kelly & Dex x
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10/9/08 08:36
Hey Jo, Suzy & Sandie!!
Jo - what a bargain!! I bought one for Livvy from my friend for £25 and thought that was good lol, Livvy still wakes twice a night for feeds so I know all about ungodly hours!!
Suzy - babies, babies, babies!! Make sure you don't start getting broody again!! Hope your friend's baby continues to do well.
Sandie - pleased Lewis got his jabs at last! Livvy is due her 2nd lot next week and I haven't had an appointment come through so I phoned them & they said she is in a queue & hasn't been forgotten but appointment will be late, grrr!!
Anyway I've got to iron the labels into Jess's school uniform ready for tomorrow & sort out her dance kit for tonight - got a feeling it will be getting small!!
xxx
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10/9/08 07:51
Good morning to you all!!!
Jo where you manage to get a bargain like that from???? I know all about the ungodly hours kids are back at school so im up at 5.30 everyday now!!!!!They have to be in for 8.30
On the bright side though at least I get a few hours peace lol
Lewis finally had his jabs at 10 +5 weeks grrrrrrrrrr How are they going to catch up on them now?????? Bloomin nhs!!!
Oh well hope you and babies are all doing well speak soon xxxxxx
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10/9/08 06:55
Hiya all missed you all, hence the catch up at this ungodly hour. Amy I'm sending Sophie healing vibes, Joe sun you lucky sod! Got my sis staying for a bit, so busy, busy. Managed to get Talise a fisher price swing that's £80+ for £12 on Monday and she soo loves it. She's calling me now, saying more booby please -
9/9/08 23:03
hello hello from suzy and romi
amy sorry that scarlett has had such a bad time bless her i hope that she gets better soon its so horrible to watch them in so much discomfort jayden has it so bad on his elbows and has to have bath cream every night steriod cream and a daily cream about three to four times a day, freya has it too but milder so she just has the bath stuff and an occational rub down and romi seems to be the same fingers crossed hers has not got bad so far, kaydee on the other hand likes to be differnt and was the one that had extrmemly bad asthma so bad in fact that she was hospitalised when she was nearly one and had to have a nebuliser all night was the most scary thing ever luckily she has not had an attck for over two years now. really hope she gets better soon send all our love to her. x
joe glad that you and the family had a great holiday
hello everyone else
we are all good here its a busy time here at the momenet a friend of mine had her baby 6 weeks early he is doing ok now but he was a little poorly for a while, my other friend is being induced in thursday the same day my sister is going for her 20 week scan its her best mate so we are going to stay around the hospital and keep her company for a while if she needs it may fit in seeing the other friends baby aswell glad they are all in the same place lol, i can not belive that my sister is 20 weeks already she has another baby who is only one this month bless her she is a little scared of the small age gap but she will be fine i will help her
anyway enough of my ramblings all our love suzy and romi xx
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9/9/08 17:22
Bless you and those hormones Joe lol I get teary over silly things too!! It's great to see them developing, I just wish the baby stage would last longer!! xxx
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9/9/08 14:27
you'll be fine kim.... if your anything like me youll blub your eyes out hehe
Forgot to say, last night i put some little mice shoes on mia, with ears etc.. she was concentrating soo hard to grab the ears and managed to a couple of times,i again blubbed my eyes out cause it was fantastic to see, shes coming on leaps and bounds..
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9/9/08 13:54
Amy - sorry to hear about Scarlett, bless her little bandages! Hope she gets home soon and doesn't suffer too badly with eczema in the future. Pleased that Sophie enjoyed nursery!
Joe - sounds like you were lucky with the weather like we were! Bet it was nice having quality time with your little family. I'm glad Mia has been ok at nursery & Brandon is enjoying school, Jess starts on Thursday, I'm dreading it!!
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HEY ALL WEST MIDS PEOPLE AND OTHERS CLOSE BY. i noticed earlier on the newbie thread that there were quite a few of you close by.
i thought that i would start a thread for all the ladies from the west mids and surrounding areas i live in teflord which is just outside of the west mids.
ANYWAY i thought it would be good for us all to get to know each other better and you never know maybe even have a get together of some sort one day??
suzy 21 weeks today.