thanks thats made me feel better already  xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Families - you can't pick them.  The thing is its your life, you are of the age to have children, and I don't see why your mum would think she couldn't have anymore children just because you have.

If I were you I'd go round there and find out face to face what the actual problem is.  I didn't get on with my mum, still don't to a certain degree and looking back I'd wished I'd spoken to her more.  Having your sister text you stuff thats going on isn't fair either, you know what ppl are like, they start talking about a situation and then they just open their mouth a bit too much and then things are taken out of context. 

Big hugs hun, I'd go round there on your sisters bday too, that way it doesn't look like you don't care as it could be taken if you don't come round you don't care about yor sis's bday and the fact that they aren't well.

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umm ihave one of thoses mums told me to get rid and that wa my first she was too young to be a gran telling everyone i should get rid with the second she was the sam e s***ging me off to everyone cause i got preggers with her when my ds was 6 months old once agian she tried to talk me out of having her i told her she had no right she dont really bother with the grandkid she had so like it was gonna be her problem with my 3rd she f***ed of to spian and dont bother uness she wants something like look after her kids cause she cant dont even send the kids abirthday card it got to the point off well f*ck ya then. but its not always like that im not telling ya to cut all ties because if you have to you will and things can always work themselfs out dont stress out about it chill out sit back and see what happens it took nearly 10 yrs of cr*p from my mum b4 i thought bugger it whats the point in stressing i wish you all the luck i know how s*** you must feel keep ya chin up

aww hun first of all big hugs to you, secondly im sure your mum will come round to the idea of you being pg soon its prob just a shock for her that her lil baby is gonna have a baby of her own, try not to get urself all stressed I no its easier said then done but it wont do you or the baby any good, oh and just coz your not sick when your expecting doesnt mean that you will mc I felt sick with ds1 but didnt with ds2 so no 2 pregnancies are the same so dont get worked up over it you are just lucky that you havnt suffered with the dreaded morning sickness, if you eva wanna chat just pm xxxxxxxxxx

Didn't want to read and run.  Aww sorry to hear about your difficult situation, we all know that support is what everyone needs during pregnancy.  Maybe leaving off a while and see if your mum will come around as your pregnancy progresses and it becomes a bit more real!  Don't really know what to say.  Just take care of yourself and do what you think is right.

last time i was pregnant my mom was really happy for me an then she just changed an said i planned it an im selfish an that my lil brother is too young to be an uncle he was 2 at the time,im 21 an my mom is 43 she said tht know i was preganant it means thta she cant have anymore it really upset me but then i had a mc it took her ages to answer th phone to tell her i was in hospital an she was really supportive at that time ......know im pregnant again 8+5 she was really happy again at the start an said i planned it cause i wanted a baby  iv never planned any of them now she is avoidin me again wont txt me bk wont talk to me an its my sisters birthday on friday i ws gonna go round thre to give her a card an stuff iv just got a message of my lil sis to say there all ill so dont come why couldnt she send it??? what do i do cut her out of my life i dont wanna get stressed i just eally dont know what to do i feel like she wants to be there for th bad but not the good an then she was tellin my bf that sheknw i was gonna mc cause i wasnt bein sick im not bein sick now an that scares me i feel sick an heave alot .

out th blue she will tx me sayin that she was just worried but my sisters tell me she has been s***gin me off she didnt even tx to see how th midwife went on monday xxxx