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22/11/08 11:02

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newmummy39

Hiya girls,

I just needed to vent really. I had a MMC in june and the 1st signs of my MMC was this niggling feeling and my head telling me my baby had died then my nipples returned to their usual colour. After that it was a loss of symptoms.

Last night the niggly feeling and my head was telling me my baby had died then i cheked my nipples and they are back to pinky colour and today im having horrendous pains down low where the baby is developing and shooting pains in my back. Ive been pretty symptom free for a few weeks any ways but today my boobs no longer hurt and i just feel like its over. Im feeling gutted if im honest but what will be will be. I spent last night praying and begging for my bubble to be ok.

Sorry i really had to vent this im going to try see my doctor on monday and discuss the pains and how im feeling. I hope so much that my baby is safe and its a take home baby but something makes me feel like it just really isnt meant to be

Nicole 10wks

  1. 25/11/08 17:27

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    delbarnes

    I an 12+ 4 and i had my scan today. And everything is ok, But that hasnt stopped me being worried, As in the past i have had 2 mcs, one being a silent mcs. I had convinced myself so much that i would be empty that the worry was all consuming. But i also have 2 sons but u will always worry.

    I am sure all will be fine. And it is quite common to get alot of pains in the early days. But you do all to put ur mind at rest and if you want an early scan ask for one. There is no harm.

     

    Good luck xxxx

  2. 25/11/08 09:39

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    BabyGlueClairey27

    Big hugs sweetie. I hope you are able to get an earlier scan.

    I was bleeding 2 weeks ago and got an early scan and saw the heart beat, it was great. Was warned that I might have pink discharge for a bit but yesterday afternoon I had blood again. Thankfully I had my first midwife appointment so I told her and she said no work today, just rest. I've got to wait for my scan too (a week this Friday) but the bleeding feels and seems different this time plus I'm still feeling sick so I'm hoping blob is just trying to freak me out.

    Keep us posted if you manage to get an earlier scan though and loads of for you.

    Claire 9+5

  3. 24/11/08 20:07

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    lexyluck

    If you tell your mw your fears, she may try and have a listen for you? Good luck lovely xxx

  4. 24/11/08 19:02

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    Love it!newmummy39

    Hiya girls thanks for all your help and support

    Im ok starting to feel a bit better. Hoping all goes well at scan only  days to go 8 more sleeps and im getting scared but really excited at the same time. Midwife on friday where i will discuss my fears and scares and hope maybe she will get me scanned a little earlier but with just over a week to wait ill b ok.

    Thank you all its so nice to have support when other people just tsch and pfft at me lol

    Nicole 10wks x (i am 10 wks today lol)

  5. 24/11/08 14:18

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    Wellenor

    Yeah I hope you are feeling lots better, I think there are a few of us around 10 weeks whose symptoms have disspaeared a little so you are not alone, hopefully that will make you feel a little better about things.

    If you went to the doctors I hope it went well and fingers crossed they have brought your scan forwards a bit.

    Lots of hugs and baby blue 

  6. 24/11/08 13:07

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    bumpyandme

    how are you today, been thinking of you all weeekend

  7. 24/11/08 13:03

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    Hugsazzynbrad

    Hi hunny just popping on to see if you are feeling any better today?  Hope you are hun

    Lots of love n hugs hunny

    Sarah

  8. 23/11/08 17:32

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    BabyGluesammyann1987

    Just popping by to wish you luck if you decide to go and get an early scan. I know it's probably no consellation but your fears are probably just your mind going overdrive after the mc earlier in the year

    I have my scan tomorrow and I'm terrified. Took me ages TTC this one (my first) and I'm anxious that something is going to be wrong so, in that respect, I know how you're feeling.

    Wishing you all the  and in the world

    Sam x

  9. 23/11/08 14:30

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    bfoot

    Hi, I can't help you but wanted you to know I feel exactly the same! Had a mmc in April at 12 week scan, and i'm 12 weeks again now, have never really had sickness but the last couple of weeks I feel fine, just tired. You're not alone in worrying like mad xxxxx
  10. 23/11/08 10:58

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    theprawn

    Big massive hugs and to u Nicole, sent you a PM.

    Please put your mind at rest, get them to give you a scan (even if you have tell a little white lie).

    It's definately your turn for a take home baby!

    TPx

  11. 23/11/08 10:13

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    newmummy39

    Thanks girls feeling a bit more upbeat today and hoping my mind is just playing tricks on me. It didnt help that my IBS had kicked in yesterday so i was having cramps from that. My boobs started to hurt more during day and im still so so tired so i guess its a good sign i hope so.

    Thank you for all your lovely reassuring words. And im ot showing any signs of a bleed and no pains as such so i will take each day as it comes and try get to see my doc tomorrow.

    Nicole 10wks

  12. 23/11/08 10:05

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    Hugsjp1981

    Hey nicole i'm really sorry you're feeling how you are.  If its any consolation i've been feeling the same sort of a nagging feeling that something may not be right and i lost last year and am putting it down to that.  I hope your feeling a bit better and am keeping everything crossed for you hunni for 2morrow.

    Sarah 9+4 xxxxxxxxxxxxx

  13. 22/11/08 21:57

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    leane1988

    awww nicole hun i cant believe your feeling like this. maybe you could phone the mw of something hun tell them how your feeling coz all this stress wont do any good will it hun. i really do hope you feel better about your pregnancy soon hun as we can only hope for the best till ur scans, im so scared for mine and still thing that this pregnancy has gne wrong but i shake my head an hope for the best. its not over till they sayso if you get what i mean. i didnt want to sound awfull saying that it isnt meant in an awfull way. hope you feel better soon

    luv leane n 10week bump x x x x x

    loadz of

  14. 22/11/08 19:05

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    Hugtopbannana27

    Im sure everything is ok,these first few months are a worry for everyone but especially when you have had a mc. I have had 2 and have days were I don't believe things are ok. You should speck to your midwife and see if you can get an early scan for your piece of mind. Im sure you and you baby will be fine xxxx

  15. 22/11/08 17:22

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    AznMother

    hey nicole, hope you are feeling a bit more upbeat and good luck for tomorrow.x

  16. 22/11/08 13:16

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    Smiling at youmam09

    hiya hun! im really sorry you feel like this, i think you should phone your midwife and explain to her your worrys. thats what there for hun, u shouldnt have to be worry about this! i do hope everything turns out ok!! love sarah xx

  17. 22/11/08 13:12

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    Angel-Pie

    Hiya Nicole hunni

    I hate that your feeling this and im hoping n praying that everything is fine inside there hun

    i really think you should push for a scan just to put your mind at rest. otherwise the next 11 days is going to go so slow

    im here if ya need me hunni

    just pvt msg me if you want me to give u a call anytime

    xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Anna 9 weeks today xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  18. 22/11/08 12:42

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    HelenHewitt

    ooohh hun, do you think you may be more worried/paranoid after your mmc? Its understandable that you will feel this way.

    I would still speak to your doc/mw and see if they can bring your scan forward slightly. All this worry and stress is no good for you or little bean ((((((big hugs)))))))

    Fingers and toes crossed that all is ok. We all have little aches and pains that we worry about when pg. Im sure everything is fine hun xxxxxx

  19. 22/11/08 12:39

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    sarahcouk

    Hi Hun

    I know how your feeling as well, My symptoms when for a week at 10 weeks and I feared the worst after a mc in July.

    I listed with my doppler for hours, I can only now at 12 weeks hear it clearly but try face down with your bottom raised to bring your baby more into your tum, almost upside down then listen. I only heard it faintly and once at 10 weeks.

    Good luck Hun.

    Nice to hear from you Sassy. I keep popping into TTAL to see how your getting on.

    Love

    Sarah

  20. 22/11/08 12:24

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    BabyGluesazzynbrad

    Hi hun sorry to gc dont know if you remember me but we chatted a few times in ttcalab, I just wanted to send you all my love and hugs hunny, Like the lady said in the last post, it is very hard to pick up the heart beat before 14 weeks, in my last pregnancy I couldn't find it at all yet my hubby could put it on there and find it straight away!!! but that was around 14-16 weeks, so try not to let that worry you,  (i know its hard not to love)sending you all my love sweet.

    Sarah

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