awwww big hug,

i would do yourself a nice meal, do him a plain salad and when he moans about his lunch say well i'm not the one on  diet

That's so mean, he should be a lot more sensitive especially when you are pregnant!  My boyf was saying how you don't need to put on a lot of weight when you are pregnant, and said that Jordan didn't and that you coudn't even tell she was pregnant from the back lol!!  Shame we don't all have personal trainers and chefs hey!  I have been feeling pretty sick so I'm just eating what I can manage at the moment, which seems to be blueberry muffins :-) so long as we try and eat healthily we can still treat ourselves - babies need food! xx

LOL rollover, I am 29 and he's 42!!! So he will have many more things to point at than me!!! I keep telling him I won't be pregnant forever. Aggggrrrrrhhhhh he's such a pig how dare he upset me like this. I don't know if I want to forgive him. He's just a pig.

TT 13wks

start pointing out any wrinkles or grey hairs then if that what winds him up and then say your not going to stop until he shuts up!

I tried that 1 last night, he got the right hump !!! He said hes going to start weight training again as he refuses to get fat or old LOL

I so want to tell him to get lost.

TT 13wks

men are just so insensitive. Don't worry though you know it will all come off in the end! My dh is always joking about my weight and I hate it and tell him that but he will never stop as that's just who he is and he finds it funny to wind me up over things. Maybe start lacing his food with lard and sugar etc make him put on loads of weight and start commenting about his man boobs. This wouldn't work for me though as dh can eat anything and stay skinny the git!

LOL thats a good one!!!

if My OH says anything I just laugh at him and say wait until I am 9 months then you will know what fat is!!!

Aww hun!! dam men never say the right things!! mine the other night said he would sleep with someone off tv cos she was fit, was like thanks i jus feel fat and ugly but u keep sayin all that LOL.

eat what and when u like, size 14 anit big anyway - well not in any womans eyes. Im a size 16 at my smallest and im only 5.2 =| . people that anit seen u in ages see the change more. try ignore him even thou its hard and remind him it took him to help u get preggers he jus has the easy way out of not gaining weight.

Pfffft men! lol

Hi girls. Well my gorgeous other half has taken it upon himself to insult me and I am not impressed. In the last week he has made 2 comments about my weight. Basically I think he was trying to find nice ways of calling me fat. Thanks very much you selfish pig is what I thought. I am 13wks today and I have put on half a stone. I am a size 14 normally, and I am 5ft 9, so about right. This is my 4th baby and my previous pregnanices have taken there toll on my body! He has made me feel sooooooooo insecure. I just hate him now.

If that's not enough to put up with.... I went to my sisters house last week, I haven't seen her for a few weeks, and as soon as I walked into her kitchen she said "My god you've put on loads of weight".

I keep weighing myself and I have put on half a stone. I am still wearing my jeans, size 14. I asked the midwife last week if I am overweight and she said no because I am quite tall.

Ahhhhh, what do I do, starve myself just to please everyone else? I feel like telling my oh to just p!ss off now. Sod him.

TT 13wks today.