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22/9/08 22:19
22/9/08 21:05
Hi Sarah,
I haven't been on for a while, just read your thread. I wish you all the best for the future & I am sure little sophie will be watching over you now & forever. Me & Dh just read your thread & It brings back memories as our friends Daughter had the same happen to her.
Love Cathryn xx
20/9/08 18:17
Hey Sarah i didnt want to read and leave, i still come into DIS as i have a thread with some other ladies, I lost my Daughter earlier in the Year, and wanted to tell you how very sorry i am you are going through this, it is very hard and my thoughts are with you and your DP, I hope your holiday is as okay as it can be, and you come back to the answers you are looking for x
Sweet dreams little Sophie x x
Theresa
20/9/08 08:21
I am literally in tears reading your story and threads of good wishes. I hope you can find the strength to get through this both of you and I am thinking of you at this very sad time. Your little angel will make an appearence in this world one day and that angel will be the best thing that has ever happened to you... you'll see.
Take care, love and thoughts
19/9/08 22:51
I am so gutted for you, try to be strong for each other and support each other through this terrible time. My angel grew wings 2 weeks ago at 4 1/2 months pregnant. I am so sorry for your loss. Our angels are too precious for this earth.
Lisa x
14/9/08 23:57
I am from Past Due in April 08 and have posted before but just wanted to come on and say how sad i feel for your loss. Life is cruel and noone should ever have to be in the position you are in. RIP little baby Sophie. xxxxx
14/9/08 22:00
just wanted to say again how sorry i am for your loss. My thoughts are with you. lots of hugs
14/9/08 22:00
hi sarah
just wanted to send lots of big hugs for tomorrow. I can't imagine what it would be like to arrange all the practicalities for your little darling, but wanted to say that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
14/9/08 21:56
hi soz gc from pdio 07 i am sorry for your loss no parent should ever have to burry their child
R.I.P little one wantch down on your mummy and daddy
14/9/08 21:49
I am so, so sorry that you and your OH are going through this, no one should ever have to deal with the hurt and pain of loosing a child. I wish there was something I could say or do to ease the pain, I feel so helpless and words just don't seem enough.....
I have heard that the SANDS website is meant to offer really good support and guidance.
I wish you all the best for TTC in the future and just wanted to let you know you and your OH are in my thoughts and I will say a prayer for you.
RIP little angel, please watch over mummy and daddy xxx
14/9/08 21:22
Thanks for all your replies girls. Well I went in last Sunday to be induced at 12.15 and nothing happened until 15.15 where I started to get period type pains, so put TENS on and by 17.17 baby Sophie was born, I couldnt see her until about 10pm that night but I was told she had the cord wrapped round her neck twice and a further knot in the cord, b ut they said this may not be the cause as loads of babies are born with the cord round the neck.
We decided on a post mortem and at the moment they cannot find a cause and told us to prepare for that verdict but i also feel that is good so there is nothing wrong with me etc and I will be able to have another baby.
My doctor has visited twice and my midwife has also visited us but to be honest our world has been turned upside down and just cannot believe we are going through this nightmare right now. My heart is bleeding for my daughter and I cannot have her, life is so cruel sometimes.
We are arranging the funeral tomorrow so its going to be a hard day but we have to get through it and then in a couple of weeks we are going on holiday just to get away from everything and try to make reason of it all.
We will be TTC again very soon but we must wait for the results first.
So girls give your little ones an extra kiss tonight because you dont realise how precious babies really are.
Sarah x
11/9/08 20:45
As the last post said, I keep thinking about you too. I am from PDIA08 and feel so sad for both you and Emma from DIAugust. To go through what you both have had to is just so cruel. keep strong xxxxxx
11/9/08 01:09
still thinking of you hun .. you and Em both.
hope your keeping ur head above water hun, thats all we can ask for. and even thats pushing it. *big cuddles* hope to hear from u soon that your coping. take care of yourself and remember u have a whole forum of friends ready to listen when / if you want to talk xxx9/9/08 17:23
So sorry to hear of your loss, the world is a horrible place at times. I wish you gentle days ahead. The SANDS website mat be some help to you over the next few months/weeks as unfortunately there are other mummies on there who have been through the same thing. I joined SANDS when I lost my angel and although not in the same way as you found that the ladies on there understood me at my darkest moments. I really wish I could make it all better, sending you and your family lotsa love at this hard time.
9/9/08 16:35
i am so very sorry. if you ever need to chat then dont hesitate. Im a good listener.
Your baby will always be with you.
x
9/9/08 16:29
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Words cannot describe what you must feel xxxxx
9/9/08 16:25
I am from DIAug and our first baby, Zack, was born sleeping on 5th Sept (40+12) during an emergency c-section. I can totally understand the upset, hurt and disbelief you will all be feeling at the moment. You are in my thoughts and prayers hun. If you want to talk to someone who is going through the same as you, please feel free to pm me. I am not on Bounty too much at the moment but check my pms every couple of days. God bless you all
Em xx
9/9/08 13:47
im from dim and so sorry for your loss xx
9/9/08 13:42
deeply sorry to hear of your loss. my thoughts are with you and your family. once again so sorry for you.
9/9/08 13:12
oh hun i am so so sorry to hear ur awful news. my thoughts and prayers r with u and ur family at this sad time. may ur little angel watch over their mummy and daddy. xxx
So sorry to hear your sad news, cant imagine the devastation you must be feeling.
^i^ floaty angel kisses to your daughter ^i^