The Deed....
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11/10/08 03:51
10/10/08 21:54
we have done the deed a few times now lol and being mega careful, feels great as been doing pelvics too and can be swung around the chanderliers now i aint preg lol
10/10/08 21:27
i wanted to do the deed when baby was 2days old. felt horny as hell. well i decided wait and did pelvic floors like mad and at 2and a half weeks did it and felt great, dp says its like pre both babies down there and its more sensual too, so for me, my pregnancies have improved our sex life!
9/10/08 12:59
i did it!"!!! me n oh got a bit carried away last ite n did the deed n it was great!!! didnt hurt n he reckons theres no change down there from b4!!! n ive made him promise hes tellng the truth!!! lol will doc give u contraception before 6 week check? i had alfie 3 weeks ago n i dont trust condoms!!? downside: i thought my belly wabbled before! it was wobbling like water baloon!!! not v attractive
9/10/08 00:29
I tried to get Depo injection after my 4yr old son was born, but they said at 35 i was too old! Pah, if they'd gave me it i would not be here.... TWICE SINCE THEN! PMSL!
9/10/08 00:14
lol not even thinkin about it yet, i've got a few stitches still left from an episiotomy (sorry for spelling!) yeah things don't feel completely right down there yet doin my pelvic floors now it's less bruised so hoping that sorts it. Well i might start the prep book a leg and bikini wax, get some nice bath oils, buy a baby doll thingy to cover my saggy (Burst baloon like) belly and strech marks and cover the mirrors>>> oh yeah and get some sleep!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
8/10/08 20:24
well it only took 3 weeks but at last do the deed and omg i could move ! lol and my body actually touched dh's rather than just my belly lol! im going to purchase some new undies might even be having an ann summers party next month!
8/10/08 19:46
lol coriander at the pregnancy quickies i remember them well it really did lose the romance/lust aspect towards the end didnt it. i had a few times of 'oh just get it in and out while i am comfy' e.t.c lmao
its nice to get the romance back again and be able to take our time.
8/10/08 19:29
Ok..... Jamie 2 weeks tomorrow, done it 3 times.... ohhhh it was good to not have a baby between us! Lolol.. Even bought some knew underwear!
8/10/08 17:29
well girls - it took 13 days after having DD to crack him but finally DH relented this morning - and it was lush lmao - a far cry from all the quickies before DD's arrival that were normally initiated by me saying - 'come on hurry up my arms are aching ha ha ha '
best of luck for all those ladies still tentatively waiting xx we're now going to make the most of the 2 hours in the monrings that DS is at pre school until DH goes back to work
3/10/08 13:14
oh my god thats so harsh! perhaps u should say that if u do try it your stitches might burst and your guts would fall out all over him! that should put him off what a sod!
3/10/08 13:13
My OH is driving me mad asking for it - I had a section though 2weeks ago and I'm a bit worried I might get hurt ... is that silly?!
3/10/08 11:40
great thread!!i canny wait to do 'the deed' but more worried about getting caught out again rather than it bein sore lol i dont want anymore lol i must go to family planning and see wheni can get the jag!!!
3/10/08 10:01
lmao ! this thread gets better and better lol, well i did aptempt the deed last night but was sore so dh had to stop ( sorry tmi) and way i got him to have a look down there and i have a blood blister type bruise down one side and a popped out vein the other and a few sores here there and everywhere ( sorry tmi) so decided to hold off another week but on the brighter side i asked him if he could touch the sides or if it was like a bucket and he said no ( although im sure he is lying lol)
2/10/08 22:54
yeah but unfortunately i'm not in the nice position of being a skinny minny - what do u do about the big blancmange stomach u get after? and come on, surely if u push a child out ure gonna have a bagginess issue down there for at least a few weeks??
2/10/08 22:53
I'm terrified as I had a c-section & my belly still hurts. I'm worried about him hitting my cervix too! Still bleeding & recovering from a uterine infection so it's probably best to wait til that stops.
TBH I just don't feel like it. I'm too tired & feel really unsexy/out of shape/mumsy, so I guess I'm just not ready yet.Poor OH is champing at the bit!
2/10/08 22:41
I must be a wimp 'cos I made my hubbie wait for two months after the first baby, as I was terrified it would hurt and worried 'cos I'd had stitches. This time I still think I will wait until I've had my six week check with doc!!! Not as many stitches this time though, but I'm still worried at the thought of it and haven't really felt horny since the birth, even though it is coming up to 3 weeks since baby was born. Had a good laugh reading this thread, some great descriptions!
2/10/08 21:47
bloody hell ! This thread is not helping me --- DH still not having any of it - bet i'll be right off the idea by the time he gets round to it .....we were flicking through the TV channels last night and i saw a load of naked bodies - DH absolutely peed himself when he heard me growl and say ' nudey rudey' - it was a kids cartoon and all you could see were naked cartoon torsos - with no bits or bum creases or anything - he thinks its hilarious how horny I am at the mo cheeky sod !
2/10/08 21:33
I DID IT A WEEK AFTER AS MARA SAID TO GET IT OUTA THE WAY AND I WAS GAGGING FOR IT TOO ,NO STITCHES TEARS ETC ,I THINK UNLESS YOUR SORE THE LONGER YOU LEAVE IT THE MORE YOU FRET ABOUT IT ,AND I DONT THINK YOUR BLEED IS AS BAD AFTER A FEW BIRTHS NOT MINE ANYWAY OTHERS MIGHT NOT AGREE ?? ITS GREAT WITH NO BUMP I THINK YOU NEED TO GET THE CLOSENESS BACK WITH OH ...
2/10/08 21:02
What a great thread lol! I'd LOVE to do the deed but unfortunately my body ain't ready yet. I had to have stitches as had an episiotomy for ventouse delivery so I think it's gonna be quite a while yet
Think i need to do more pelvic floors, body going back to normal, but my bits look like one of the aliens from The Simpsons!! Lolol.