more (hugs) you can have prenatal depression too hun so it could be that

hope you feel better soon xx

no problem lol. n yeh it helped thanks.... i was diagnosed with post natel depression after having baby last time, so maybe its not been sorted out properly......x

Sorry I dont know why I put kerrie Samantha!! My minds gone to pots lately.l went tesco last night and got home thinking did I actually put the shoppig in the car as I didnt remember doing it!! Sorry

Hi kerrie, well I can completely sympathise with you as I have a 16mth old ds to entertain with as well as he is so much hard work when all I want do is rest etc. I must tell you though please be careful with this emotional phase because I am still suffering from post natal depression which has now turned to ante-natal depression. I love my son to bits but at first I completely resented him and wish I never had him which I didnt understand but through brilliant help I learnt that its a depressive state I was going through (and still am in a way) and that I did love him and just had to learn to love him. With this pregnancy I havent enjoyed it so far. I also worry about when the baby is here and all I keep telling myself is that it is going to be like my son when he was a baby which may not be true but thats all I believe. I am on medication but unfortunately I am being referred back to a clinic which specialises in depression during and after pregnancy because I'm not coping so well at the moment. I would consider talking to your mw just for giddance and for someone to unload on. Theres no point in keeping it to yourself because people will clock on to the fact your moods have chnaged so I would suggest you talk to your partner/husband or a friend you trust. Dont feel bad about yourself because it isnt your true self just remember there is help out there if you need and dont be afraid to ask. I know theres such a stigma still attached to depression etc but its more common than you think and if you ever want a chat please dont hesitate to pm me if that helps. Take care and I hope that has helped a bit xx

ahhh thanks alot everyone, ya comments have made me feel better..... today i feel a bit more optamistic, not as snappy etc. but its only just started ill keep ya posted through the day. anyways thanks for all ya support. xxx

I just wanted to let you know you are not alone. I have a ds 19 months and sometimes am the same. I just snap at him for little things that should not bother me and then feel guilty or burst out into tears about it. I was impatient with him some days before being pregnant but could control it better. It could just be a mixture of things and sometimes hormones can take over. Sounds like you have a lot on your plate right now plus all the normal pregnancy worries. I hope you get to feeling better. Sending you hugs

hi there, sorry you're feeling bad. Sounds like you've been under enormous amounts of pressure lately and with a child to look after and try to look after yourself, it's all got a bit much. Wonder if it's worth seeing your GP? Have you any family/friends who can take your LO for a while and give you a break?  hope you feel better soon  xx

Sending you big hugs, i'm kinda the same, some days i can handle my dd (she's 2 and a half) strops ad other days (like today, see my post 'i've had a horrible day') it's really got to me. I was nearly in tears in the middle of a shop today!

So sorry to hear that.Were all here if you need a chat x

thanks alot for your answers. n yeh i read tht thread. . . think mines a build up of alot of things too tho, like u said uv got good suppost with hubby n stuff. . . well my fiance got sent to prison 3 and a half weeks ago, and wont be out for a year ( just for minor charges nothing too serious-dont wanna get into it, but it shouldnt ov been done and hes being punished i understand that) so im thinking maybe thats added to all this aswell xx

hi hun firstly ((((hugs)))).Sounds like your hormones hun,im the same i put a thread up before saying how hard im finding it as i feel so stressed and upset all the time.If you want to read it the title is Q for those of us that is having no 4 or more x

I 2nd the (hugs) remember each pregnancy is diffrent hunni so it is probably just your hormones.. i take it this is your 2nd, remember before you didnt have a 2 year old to look after just yourself so little things that before didnt annoy you will do more so now and even more so with having your lo to look after,, not saying that she isnt a good girl or anything just that you are more easily affected by things. do you get me? I trying to explain it easily.

 take care though huni and more (hugs)

Rachael 22+2

Hi I don't know what to advise as I am a first timer but I felt I couldn't ignore your thread and wanted to send you a virtual (((((hug)))))

Am sure some of the other ladies will have some good advice for you.

Take care,

Kerrie

xx

im really sorry for the long moan but i really dont know what to do an cant really talk to anyone about it so use are stuck with me lol. at the minute im not really feeling myself. . . .  i find myself crying all the time even when nothings wrong. and i have no patience whats so ever with my 1 year old (and thats not like me) every little thing she does is doing my head in, shes entering the terrible 2 stages and every little thing is just grinding on me... so i either keep shouting at her for the slightest little thing ( an then i feel really guilty an like a bad mum) or i just sit with my head in my hands and cry.... i feel like i cant control my moods really, and it doesnt just feel like normal pregnanct hormones as i wasnt like this wghile pregnant with her. i just dont know what to do any more...... if any ones got any advice please tell. . .  thanks for listening girls xxx