Right, sounds like my evening sorted.  Will kick DP and his dad to pub then.  haha

blue army's guide to destressing

1) go to shop and stock up on naughty treats

2) buy the books 'the accidental mother' , 'the yorkshire pudding club' and 'diary of a mad mother to be'

3) kick dp down the pub

5) run nice bath with lots of bubbles

6) enjoy bath

7) get out of bath, get dry and put on comfiest pj's or nightie

get snacks and juice and create your own haven on the sofa

9) laugh at the books and pat yourself on the back that your more organised than the characters are

I am in panic mode! I managed to book antenatel classes because the other night I was layin in bed thinking - omg what am I supposed todo with a baby! so I'm going to them hopefully they will be good, also going to the hospital tour thing where they show you around, hope i dont see nobody in labour that will push me over the edge lol! Im not panicking so much about what I still need, only because ive got so many lists of things its untrue! plus if i didnt get anything else now she will have somewhere to sleep clothes and nappies and the rest we could get or family could get so Im not too stressed on that front, but omg! I am going to have a baby then walk out of the hospital with her, come home and then I think I will kinda be awestruck!

rachael 31+1

Ah good (well in the nicest way) so I am not alone then.......thought not really.  Right, am going to try to take your advice then blue and not worry about anything.  ALready kind of decided no t buy anything else till after he/she is here.  I have nappies, some clothes and a pram (and car seat).  So, that's that then.  feel slightly better already now! 

Me too! And i already have one!!!

The thought of this tiny little baby being totally dependant on me scares me sh!tless lol

Yes, pretty much every day I have a wtf am I doing moment. Not just about being organised but the thought of becoming a mum scares me sensless!

With DS i didnt worry about anything, i just got down to it....

This time i'm worrying way too much about what i need to get lol. Dont know how i did it with DS, my mind is blank

me. im stressing so much whether i have enough blankets and baby gros and things like that i dont have a clue what im suppose to be doing i need help lol

if its any help whatsover i gave up trying to figure out what on earth i should be doing round about this point with cade.

in the end i did nothing.  and got more done iyswim? its like i stopped worrying and stressing and everything just fell into place x

....or has anyone else (1st timers really) suddenly realised they have no idea what the heck they are doing??  I am not organised, and totally panicking about what on earth I will do.  Hey ho.