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4/9/08 22:34
4/9/08 16:43
I haven't got room for a changing unit anywhere in this poxy small house so I had to go for one that fits on top of the cot or just use a mat on the floor - just that cos I hurt my knee a couple of years ago that's sometimes difficult so I figured having it on the cot would be better.
At least you're still getting to hockey then, although I expect in some ways that could be harder for you cos you're itching to be playing with them rather than coaching them.
Can't remember whether you said when you were moving? Oh, you should pm us your msn addy if you use msn. We don't go on it very often but it's nice to have another way of keeping in touch other than on here......Aww Supermom, it's really frustrating for you. Have they given you any idea at all what's going on? I wouldn't mind but in three months you'll have your hands full with your little one arriving!
Oh, I just had a message from my dh to say he had his first driving lesson today!!!!! I didn't even know he'd rung anyone! And I was only sitting at my desk this afternoon thinking about the fact that he hasn't done anything about lessons! He's going to tell me all about it when he gets home - wonder how it went then lol!!!! Oh and my sister picked up a new car today, came to visit me but I wasn't back from work, reversed off my drive and scratched lovely new car on the little fence as she reversed off our drive! She's gutted! Think that's about all my news anyway!
4/9/08 14:00
im not happy today, i had shanias hospital appointment, i thought it was cahms but it wasnt it was the child development unit, i have come out more confused then when i went, i have to wait 3 mths to find out whether cahms will be assessing her or the disability team.
i just want to know what is up with my baby

4/9/08 00:07
Me & my mum haven't ever stopped buying things next on the list is the pushchair my4 from mothercare in the new seasons colour... Red. Its gorgeous! Yeah I live about 10/15 mins from the city centre by Bus. Am looking to move more Northfield, Weoley Castle, etc way. Been at hockey training tonight. i can't play but I go and act as like an assistant coach to the girls in my team. Scan on wed's next week VERY excited!!!!!!! All I can think about at the minute.
Hope your all ok, take care x
3/9/08 19:56
im getting my top changer from ikea, it as 8 drawers under it i think, and im getting a cupboard thing to go with it, i was going to get a mini wardrobe but my sis as decided to give me hers how inconsiderate
3/9/08 19:35
No way on this earth would I allow dh anywhere near my nether regions to be anywhere near delivering the baby! LOL!!!! I dread to think what he'd do! I might let him cut the cord if he really wants to

Supermom, you forbade any of us to even consider finding out - and I really, really didn't want to.
Hehe!!!!!! Kimmie, she loves me really - honest!
You're on the south of Birmingham then - apart from me and Barb everyone else is south of Birmingham. Ooohhh I had my cot top changer and changing mat delivered today. Got them from Babies r Us. I went for the Safari friends mat with the toy bar. I know it was more money for something a bit unnecessary but hey, I could never afford things with my last two and this will be my last one so I'm not feeling too guilty. I'm a bit worried that the cot top changer bit is too big for the cot but we're going to give it a go - I think it will be more comfortable for me - I'll just have to be careful not to lean on it.
Anyone else been buying anything lately?2/9/08 22:45
no i want baby delivered onto my tummy, however with 2 of my children i didnt get the option of that so im prepared for the fact he may get the 1st hold lol. with my 1st i delivered her the wrong way, my 2nd was born with the cord wrapped round herself so she was taken off for oxygen, then passed to her dad while i was sorted.
with ds i had the 1st hold but had to wait because i bled, so im keeping fingers crossed this time i will get the 1st hold again lol.
the things i do want him to do though are, cut the cord, tell me the sex and midwife dependant i would like him to have a big part in delivering the baby once the head is out, i know some midwifes will allow it under guidance and others wont so we shall see.
2/9/08 22:28
lol ladies now, now, no fighting! lol
I really can't go on wed's and not be told again i will be distraught. I almost cried at 20 weeks when they couldn't tell me, so if it happens again I'll be inconsolable. Has anyone else thought about letting their other half hold the baby first once he/she is born? I am considering this as I would love to see his face. But i am unsure yet and have plenty of time to decide I suppose.2/9/08 22:15
kathryn what a thing to say, for your information kimmie never said she wouldnt be finding out so therefore i wouldnt be cross so there, not like you caving then saying you saw the bits 
kimmie you wouldnt want to meet kathryn she smells and she's scary

2/9/08 22:10
Hey yeah the end result is definitely worth waiting for and I could have gone back playing in Feb for 7 games till the end of the season, but I wouldnt want to leave lil one i dont think. Mum said she wants to have baby on the pitch side when I do go back, but its not the same. I am definitely finding out but wont tell if you don't want me to. I am in Sparkhill kathryn, but am moving Northfield way cos my bf's work is all that side. I am soooooooooo excited now though the more I think about it the more excited I get.
take care all and did someone mention a meeting. i'd be up for that if you do. x
2/9/08 18:49
Hiya, well I'm not too bad at the moment thanks Supermom, cos I'm not doing anything other than driving to work but I'll see how I go from Thursday onwards before I get too excited. At least I'm not feeling so depressed about it now - I spent pretty much the whole of bank holiday Monday in tears.
It's not like me to get so low, I'm normally really happy and upbeat but hey ho. Guess it's the hormones as well - that's my excuse and I'm sticking to it! Hehe!!!!!Kimmi, for goodness sake don't find out what you're having cos Supermom won't forgive you!
I had a surprise with my first two and it was great and I really didn't want to find out this time either. But Smudge had other ideas and proudly displayed his bits so we didn't have much choice lol! I came out of the scan really disappointed. I was over the moon that it was a boy cos that's what we really wanted but disappointed that I knew. It's funny how some people get disappointed one way and others are disappointed for the opposite! As for you hating the idea of not being able to play hockey, I can understand how you feel given my current situation. But I guess for both of us it's not too much longer and the end result will more than make up for the lack of activity now. Ooohh, by the way, whereabouts in Brum are you?
Speak to you all soon ladies, hope everyone else is ok!
2/9/08 16:21
lol i found out with the others so havent expiericanced the surprise element, this time as its my last i want dp to tell me what it is once its born, with the others i was far to impatient to wait.
we have finley jason (though ds is adament its finley the fire engine, he did want thomas the tank engine, took me a while to convince him he couldnt have his cousins name haha)
we also have keira megan for a girl.
2/9/08 16:06
Awwwwwwwwwww thats sweet how your son wants to name the lil one. We have chosen our names have had them picked out for ages. Although a girls name almost drove me insane so i let the bf choose. We have got Aidan Taylor Christopher Murphy for a boy and Ella-Louise .......... Murphy for a girl (no middle name chosen yet). I loved the name Aidan and was so pleased bf did too. He calls the bump Aidan now all the time.
I don't know how you can not know. I was gutted when I couldnt be told at 20 weeks. I almost cried! Hope everything goes well. take care x
2/9/08 16:01
awww kathryn i hope the spd dont get to bad for you. im glad you are otherwise well.
welcome kimmie, im glad your enjoying your pregnancy, i am being to stubborn this time to find out what im having, so mine is going to remain a yellow bump untill he/she is here, i to am hoping for a boy though, because my son would love a brother, and im not sure i can cope with more girlie hormones in the house, the 2 i have are bad enough haha (if i do have a girl though she will be every bit as loved, though she may have to put up with the name finley the fire engine for a while, as ds has his heart set on that name haha)
2/9/08 15:51
Hey Ladies, Thanks for all the welcome messages. this is my first baby so am really excited. I have had my 20 week scan but couldn't find out baby's sex, lil sod wouldn't show us. Lay face down with legs tucked right up to the chin. Have got an innervision scan next wednesday in West Brom and am incredibly excited as it's my mum's b'day the same day so am thinking we will be told for sure. Kind of hoping for a boy as most people believe I'm having a boy and so have got used to the idea that I'm having a boy now.
Am so bored and frustrated at the minute though as I am a hockey player and a sports coach for schools. The hockey season starts again this week and I can't play
Spectating from now till next June/july when they start the summer league. Also the schools go back and I can't work so fed up with it at the moment. But still enjoying being pregnant alot. Baby's moving about so much now it's fantastic!Good luck to everyone and thanks for being so lovely and friendly
Take care Kim x
1/9/08 22:28
Hiya - sorry, not really been on my pc much lately. How's things? I was very down in the dumps towards the end of last week because my SPD had been so bad. Was on constant pain killers and using co-codamol as well as paracetamol. It's got to the point now that other than going from my front door to the car and from the work car park to the office, I don't leave the house cos I can't manage much more than that. So, have been feeling a bit depressed but the good news is that so far this week it's not been so bad and I haven't taken any pain killers today! However, I lose my space on the car park on Thursday so will have to try and use the bus again so I'll see how it goes - fingers crossed!

How's everyone else doing anyway? We've all been very quiet of late. I hope that everyone is ok. Did we ever decide on a meeting up date or anything? Just thought I'd mention it to see whether anyone is still up for it or not.
xxxxx1/9/08 20:48
come out come out where ever you are
31/8/08 14:43
hello people, how far did this thread drop, where are you all, im all alone and scared

how is everyone, my bubs is still a night owl, it also hates anything on my bump and goes crazy if i try to use it as a cup support haha, wont be long before its kicking the cup off lol, i had forgotten how strong kicks could be.
hope you are all well, i miss you all

24/8/08 16:19
hello stranger! Glad all is ok with you even if you're not getting much sleep. I've not been sleeping well but not sure if that's just me not sleeping or my SPD waking me up. I don't think it's Smudge cos he is very active before I sleep but I tend not to feel him when I wake in the night so I'm fairly sure it's not him. What are you all up to this bank holiday weekend anyway? I felt great this morning when I went to get dressed to go out because I realised that we don't have to get up for work tomorrow - bonus!!!!!

24/8/08 11:48
hello strangers i guess i should get my ass on and say hello
i am so tired lately, this baby is nocturnal i swear and is now kicking strong enough to wake me
i can see im going to have some trouble when he/she arrives!!how is everyone else? i know charlotte cant get on at the mo as her pc is broke so hopefully she will be back soon.





















hey yeah it will be hard coaching but I don't mind really. Sorted a team tonight so am happy about that. I think saturday will test me. 1st proper game where I can't play. We are looking to move as soon as we get a place sorted. We have had to go council cos of me not being able to work at the moment and being on low income, so could be a while. I will def pm you my msn am on there a bit when not at bf's. One week away from my scan
Hope your all ok and doing well. Take care x