honestly i love my gf with some curves. theres nothing better than being able to feel some curves as you hug and wink wink :-p

I'm not going to lie, I prefer my wife when she is slim and toned.

Although I still find her sexy with her baby weight too, just have a preference though!

Thank you both for your kind words they made me feel much better...I know I'm being a silly moo really, coz it goes both ways in that I still love him even when he has a terminal case of the beer farts and because of his shift work has not bothered to shave for a few days...bless 'im lol

tbh i have the same problem with my girlfriend she constantly moans and tells me i'm a liar when i tell her she is beautiful....

....the fact is that the old saying "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" does hold some water because even from when she gets up in the mornin all bleery eyed with the crust in the corner lol, she is still beautiful to me...i think your OH loves you loads, and i dont think you should question it...the fact is he thinks you are georgus so what else matters?

Believe your bloke! Men are not as concerned about wobbly bits as women.

...I know this forum is supposed to be for the dads, but I could do with a bit of male honesty because I am a weak female who needs reassurance lol.

The thing is, I gave birth 9 weeks ago so of course my figure has really taken a beating and it wasn't exactly great to begin with. So, when I'm whingeing about it and he says I'm still all lovely and gorgeous etc - does he mean it or is he  just being kind? Please tell the truth, because I find it hard to believe he can still be attracted to me when my @rse and thighs are massive, my boobs have lost all their shape and gone south and my belly has been replaced by a big wobbly blancmange.

So what do you fellas really think when you see the havoc wrought on your ladies bodies? My dp reckons it all adds to the appeal because you have given them their offspring and have therefore inspired them to have even more respect for you - but that sounds like a load of old t0ss to me - exactly the kind of thing blokes say to make us women shut up lol.

Cheers!