A Really personal question
12/6/08 09:07
11/6/08 22:27
i think thats an awful reason to choose a c-section sorry to be blunt.
Like pervious poster said it shouldnt make much difference at all anyway just keep with the pelvic floor thingy lol xx8/6/08 22:12
Hello,
Im not Zantewed thats the wife im the hubby. She gave birth naturally and as long as you do the floor excercises you cannot tell the difference. Thats my view anyway. Hope this helps a bit. Good luck
Joe
8/6/08 21:46
Hiya Guys, I'm very sorry to ask on here and please feel free not to answer, but I can't really ask anyone else, as all the men I know are partners of my friends or single guys without kids.
Basically, we (hubby and I) are trying for baby number 2. I had a section last time and would like to try and give birth naturally this time. However, a friend of mine told me that after his wife (I don't know her) had kids, sex with her was 'like throwing a sausage down a back alley' (so sorry about the wording, but that's what he said) but their babies weighed over 12lb each so can kind of see where he is coming from.
Can you tell the difference? honestly? if your wife can read this and the answer is yes then don't answer - she wont take kindly to it. It's just I'd rather have a section then ......you know, and you are the only people I can really ask who will give me an honest answer as I don't know your wives so can't tell them what you said!
Any answers are greatly appreciated. Thanks
OK i'm really sorry to have to be to crude here, but this has to be said. This will be of a very adult nature so any minors, look away now....
Basically the vagina is a muscle that is designed to stretch to acomodate any size of penis and also to give birth. Like any muscle, if its under used, it goes saggy and looses its strengh. Childbirth can stretch the vagina and leave it "looser" then before childbirth. Pelvic floor excercises are designed to try and reverse this.
However you need to remember the vagina adjusts to size of whatever is going into it (penis). To improve the grip of the vagnina, the man should insert his finger into it for a while during foreplay. Now i dont mean just shove it in and sit their waiting for a miracle, i mean insert in and simulate what you'd do with your tinker lads........the vagina muscles will then adjust to the fingers size (which is smaller/thinner then a penis) and grip it. Now in theory when you insert your penis, there should be more grip there.
Give it a go......in private please