hi just reading your post if you find it hard look on a website for home-start where a volunteer comes  for 2 hrs a week to help you all for free and they have had police checks and they go on courses have a look in your area and he sounds like a waste of space sorry t***

I have twins myself and i know their a handfull and i was scared when they was born i was young but u dont walk away from it sorry to say the stress comes weather it is one baby or two no matter what, can i ask when u was trying for a baby did he tell u then he didnt want to be a dad or did he plan it with u or did it just happen sorry im being so nosey and i hope thats ok me asking that, also can i ask u say ur friend told u he was seeing some1 else while u was pregnant why did ur friend not tell u that he was myself tbh i think ur better off without him if he is willing to go with some1 else behind urback while ur carryings his babie's i know u dont want  to hear that and im sorry if it may have upset u in anyway.

he wasnt intrested whist i was pregnant he came to the first two scans he didnt come to the 20 weeks scan he was outside whist i gave birth my mate was more help than him at the birth

well i would tell him to f*** off personally, sorry if you think thats harsh but what a co*k, how was he when you were pregnant? did he say then that he didnt want to be a dad? i would go for all the maintenance you can get out of him and then tell him to get stuffed, like other posts said go to mother and toddler groups and stuff like that if you can or if not you've always got us on here to talk to, i'm sure you will do a great job with the twins without him, let him carry on with that other woman, cos one day when he see's sense he will regret saying that he doesnt want to see the twins and he will have to explain to them why he didnt see them. good luck

i went to my boyfriens work today to see my mate who works with him and she told me that he has been seeing someone else whilst i was pregnant and shes is also pregnant what do i do now cause he doesnt want to see the twins and has only given me 40 pound to get things for the twins

thanks forthat i have nosupport hes 25 and works but just cant face hes gonna be a dad he said

can any dads give me some advice i have twins who are 3 weeks old and are at home with me and my boyfriend but on friday my boyfriend walked out and said he cant cope with twins and didnt want to see me or the twins again what should i do