Dont really know what to say about that but thought i should reply anyways.  Might be an idea to sit him down and ask if he has any underlying tension.  Might be that he's scared about been a dad and doesnt know how to communicate it to you.  I sort of went through the same thing not knowing if it was what i wanted etc and i kept it all bottled up, were now seperated but hey ya live and learn. Other than that i got no idea whats going through his head, sorry

also, just wanted to add that ive posted this in  my due date thread and have got a lot of lovely advice from the ladies there, just need a male view.

I want to know what i can say if we have a talk tonight, but i just dont have the words. everything always comes out stupid

me and dp are arguing again. we fell out back in the beginning of may, he said he was leaving me. weve been fine since, had a couple of little niggly incidents but nothing major.

were still doing up the house and last night it was going t1ts up, its been going that way all week and last night he got so frustrated everything was my fault. ive not actually done anything other than p*** him off for being alive i guess. i obvioulsy cant do anything and everythings down to him but becuase everything keeps going wrong it looks like hes not doing anything when hes trying so much and so hard. everything seems to be against us.

last night was the worst ive had for a long while (since may) i couldnt sleep i kept having ligament pains and waking up, went to the toilet twice. thunder and lightening woke me up (i get scared) then i had the worst cramp in my right leg ive ever experienced. i was crying it hurt that much and wouldnt go and i couldnt put my leg anywhere. of course all these time i woke up i woke up dp who was totally exhausted. and to top it all off he was in a mood, very angry and not talking to me. he ended up throwing his mobile phone / alarm clock across the room telling me thanks for keeping him up all night. and then he told me to fu*k off and to leave him alone when i was coming out of the bedroom when i told him that i love him and im sorry for what ive done.

ive tried to call him since ive been at work (3 times) and hes been getting ready for work, and all 3 times hes cancelled the call, so i sent a text telling him i love him and that can we talk about it all and sort it out when he gets home. ive not had a reply.

please, please can you give me advice. it would mean a lot.

Im 34+2 days pregnant