New and very very lost
30/9/08 12:17
27/9/08 23:33
oh crap i just re read my post from when i was olive and it sounded like a come on
it wasnt intended that way honest, im very happily married, just thought you might like a sympathetic ear.
very very sorry if i offended you or mamamummy.i hope you 2 can work things out. you always seemed made for each other.
23/9/08 09:22
good luck xxx22/9/08 20:01
Bit of an update. Found a place in Ealing Broadway (W5) moving in two weeks, the place seems pretty good and the rent is not that bad.
So hopefully my luck is about to change for the better. I need plenty of fingers / feet / arms crossed!
18/9/08 15:37
No worries dadadaddy i understand xxx18/9/08 12:34
Hello.
TBH honest MrsDM it's a very long story and don't feel right talking about it to anyone else
18/9/08 10:40
sorry to be nosey but why did you split up? you dont have to tell me if you dont want to no worries hun xx17/9/08 15:56
Thanks for the replies guys. means alot :D still in a bad place, with the added stress of finding somewhere to live. the thing is that we are talking now more than we ever did and getting on really well.
Not sure where we are going, but at least we talking.
17/9/08 06:36
yes and ma ma mummy too
16/9/08 19:19
hey hoovs shall we try and get a "Bring back DaDaDaddy to debates" Campaign going?
16/9/08 14:54
Aw Dada... so sorry to hear that, thinking of both of you. Its really tough, and I doubt you'll bounce back quickly... it takes time, lots of it. At least you seem to be communicating, which is good. As for the pain, well, one step at a time. You're in theTwilight Zone at the moment, and its a horrible place to be, but it won't last forever, you do have to go through it though.
Obviously I wish and hope that you two can look back at this one day, together, and see it as part of the growth of your relationship. If that doesn't happen and it really is the end, hopefully you two can look back on this as friends.
Things will get better, one way or the other. You're both decent people.
Big hugs to you both. Don't feel guilty about wallowing a bit at the moment, its all part of the process (I usually dust off my old vinals and find it theraputic - but only for a while!). Try not think think about the next step, try not to get your hopes up, or equally think its a no hoper, just take one step at a time.
It is grief, sometimes it can feel worse than that in a strange way, but it doesn't last forever. xxx
Sorry for hopping straight over here, but you were and are a great debator!!
16/9/08 14:38
I meant the Hug icon sorry16/9/08 14:38
Hello I am very sorry to hear this,is it for good? i think you are both very lovely people and Im very sorry that it came to this.
xxx16/9/08 12:40
sorry just having a nose in here but OMG DaDaDaddy!
Sorry to hear that.
15/9/08 00:18
just passing! thought id leave a wee post! sorry to hear things arent going well... and it does feel like the hurt never goes away... but trust me, it eventually does! ive been through it enough times, that i just dont feel hurt anymore!
(((big hugs))) good luck hun... hope things work out ok for you xxxxxxxxx
9/9/08 11:50
A month for every year eh? 9 months then
I am still feeling pretty lost and down, living under the same roof at the moment. The strange thing is that we have got on so well over the last week, really got to know each other again. I just know where we are going. I am off for a few days starting tomorrow and will get a few days away,
8/9/08 23:24
on no are you sure this is the end you and mamamammy seem so perfect
i am
for u 2what happened
8/9/08 21:42
Awww DaDa Daddy...it sounds like you are going through the process of grieving your relationship. Someone once told me to allow a month for every year you were together (not sure how long you have been together) but if you were together for 5 years then its gonna take at least 5 months to get over it...hope this makes sense anyway.
Good luck with everything and chin up x
1/9/08 21:04
dont sit there on your own doing nothing.i'll be on msn in a bit if you want a chat.pm me your addy and i'll add you.xxxx
1/9/08 20:38
I really thought we were. As I am typing this, this is the first time I have had nothing to keep my mind busy. I am sat in work, there is no one except for the security gaurd at reception. I am just sitting here thinking. Which really is not a good idea at the moment.
People are telling me that this pain will pass, but I don't see it at the moment.
Hey, Don't worry. I did not even think of it as a come on. Just someones ear I could bash for a while!!