struggling to see if you are the dad or the mum in your thread but if youre the dad then just be there for the mum and do as much as you can I couldn't have been without my hubby when we had our little girl  she had colic for 4 mths he did so much he ended up in hospital with exhauastion but we soooo needed help as she had colic.  He doesn't do much now and gets annoyed with her within 30 mins she is 5 mths old but does a bit but then he is working and i'm not so its hard for both of us and our realtionship has changed and he keeps reminding me.  Its really hard having a new born in the house. Good luck

ok ppl i dunno how many new dads their are im 22 and my wife just had a gerl

ok EVERYONE thank you so so much for all your support quick update

22 hour labour 6lb 14.5oz assisted birth born 11.14pm amelia margret smit

she turned last minut to 10 position and then back to back i had an apisiotimy and a forcept birth (they appear to be ganetic lol)everything went well and the one saving grace was my husband with me the whole time he was calm amd collected and kept me calm so thanks jaz for bein their xx and again thank you everyone for your support but now im afrain im off to the new mums forums hehe i am pretty sure this means stuff but damned if i know all i know is i have this new tiny little baby girl

a life that depends on me and its far to much so please please tell me im not the only one here