Heres some advice for you.Stop being such a selfish tw_^at and try thinking about how your wife feels for a change. hth.

heya superdad, my DP is also due in april.

and is also a nutcase she will blow up at me,

she also has a knack of thinking i am cheating all the time which i'm not, (no time for nookie let alone with anyone else lol

jump into DIA and post, your missus will love you more for it, trust me

hi nick im simon, 26 and my partner is 19, using her account btw.  we have a 11 month old and i do sympathise as i can remember the mood swings and arguments.  9as a rule we tend not to argue, but when she was pregnant, we seemed to do nothing but argue and it wasnt me walking out, but being threatend with thrown out) 

i know she didnt mean any of it and now we have the little one we are fine, no doubt the same as you will be, its just the storm before the calm in this case.

i must admit it did irritate me and all i wanted to do som edays was scream and shout but, i just kept remembering that i wasnt the one whos body was changing and who was having to deal with the happy as a pig in sh** one second and homicidal the next second.

i think the thing to remember is that although it is our partners who are pregnant it is something we both had a hand in and as such we have to weather pretty much anything which is thrown at us.  just try to be supportive and keep your head up, its only for 9 months and then you have the rest of your lives together to enjoy your 4 lo's.

hope this is helpful and will be joining bounty myself soon, so will write again to give you my id incase you just fancy a chat and to blow off steam.

good luck and hang on in there.  simon

Hi Nick

I'm carolyne 36 I have 2 daughters one 3 and the other 7 months. In a nutshell and from personal experience I think the simple answer to your question is YES!

I personally hate being pregnant as you feel unattractive and I kept crying all the time or screaming at my hubbie for no reason what so ever. I also found my first emotionally difficult to come to terms with. Not that I didn't want or love her but I found it difficult to accept this was it now forever my life had changed at times it felt like it was over and to be honest I resented the change.

Your wife is very young and has had 3, now 4 babies very quickly so I think its all normal and it must be hard on a day to day basis coping with 3 and being pregnant. I think you need to just be there for her and help her out when you can..but there is light at the end of the tunnel..just think by the time your my age your children will be 10+ and you would have done most of the hard work while you are young! Remember it doesn't last for ever in relative terms it is all very short lived and things will get better..Good Luck and all the best with number 4!!

Hi im Nick im 27 and married to Caroline who is 23, together we have 3 daughters and she just recently found out she is pregnant again and due in april. My question is does anyone else wife/gf/fiance turn into a complete psycho when pregnant??

I love my wife but i find the stress of her being pregnant and hormonal too much too cope with and every time she gets pregnant i find myself walking out on her. Not because i dont love her not because i dont want the baby but because the whole thing terrifies me. Am i alone?

Sometimes i look at her moaning at me or crying and think to myself your doing this on purpose and she swears she isnt and all the books say she isnt but i still feel like the only guy in the world who has to put up with all this. Any ones stories or advice would be well appreciated.