I didn't have stitches or tear either & was up for it a week after having Abbie. But DP didn't want to do it so soon in case he damaged something, so...........waited another week! Ha, it was great!

Go on lass!! x

GL

My sex life is dead n burried i think..my LO is 13 weeks n we`ve done it 3 times its far to sore still for me..BTW i had stitches galore down below..but i just dont feel in the mood for it..i dont get horny anymore

PS - i read on here somewhere that their midwife recommended having a nice relaxing warm bath beforehand and using lots of lubricant! lol

Think i will do the same on my next attempt!

I had just one graze after having my baby which felt fine but i decided to wait 4 weeks until we dtd.

Unfortunately it didnt really go to plan as it was a bit sore - didnt expect that at all!

Hope you have better luck than me!

have a great weekend

get stuck in I say!! If you feel ready then go for it!! I was ready at 2 weeks this time round..

i waitied about 5 days after this one hun had a small graze but had no stinging or pain anything so so long as you take it easy to start with only you know if your ready x x

get stuck in hun

with my 1st ds i only waited a week

but with ds 2 im waiting coz of grazes and not fully back to norm

ty  i think i will thanks for your help

enjoy

If you feel ready go for it theres no reason why not. x

hi all i had my third baby 2 weeks ago i feel great i had no tears or stiches and i do really feel ready does anyone think it would be a bad idea to give it a try of course with the use of condoms please advise me as i feel like i want to but i not sure whether i should cheers sam