omg phoebe1971, not much i can say but thoughts are there.

yeah your right all the crap going on here is meaningless

oh hun!!! i am so so sorry... although those words are meaningless.... i read your post in BL .... i didnt realise you were here though.

hun, nothing we do or say will help you through it, but please know we are here and all of us will be thinking of you.

puts us to shame now, with all the petty quarrels,

We will we be moving on the 24th have not been on much as we lost our DS to coteath last week

Im lost who dug a hole for herself? 

I didn't think it was a horrid thread either.

Someone else (can't remember who) posted a thread saying that there was a lot of bítching going on and pointed out mine and another thread. So i thought I'd better explain myself!

i didnt think it was a horrid thread though?

you pointed out what everyone had noticed. i think she dug a hole she couldnt get herself out of. i wont follow her about to keep track, but personally take everything she ssays now with a pinch of salt. dont hold her in high regard at all anymore, and i dont feel you should have apologised, it wasnt a nasty thread, and it was open, everyone knew who we were on about.

it all a bit mad, the whole point of this place is asking for advice, sharing and general chat.  Were all from different ends of country living in different situations and we all raise our children differently and we all can afford different things its nothing about looking down at ppl at all.  I hope trouble doesnt follow us although i popped in one time earlier and they were having a riot aswell lol fun and games

You're right, I hope it doesn't follow cos the last few months on here has been rubbish!

I made my apologies on the 'Hmm' thread .. I thought others might follow but obviously I was the only troublemaker there!!

i was going to say something like that, about it following us, but hopefully it wont.

new forum, new start.

cant hold grudges against people who havent actually done any harm can we?

no real idea on that one. think she may be a troll. BUT the general gist in this place at the moment is, everyione is taking offence at nothing IYKWIM?

the xmas one was actually to bypass how the original one had spiralled out of control, and yet again, it was twisted to make it look like we were rubbing peoples noses in it... id never ever do that, and i know everyone else that posted was not posting with that in mind either.

i just think theres an atmosphere that desperately needs cleearing aat the mo x

I think we should just move, but the trouble is only going to move up a forum, it's not going to change just cos we move.

just reading your post on last thread (bout penfold)  Whats going on?

I didnt like the way the xmas thread went

eowyn not 19m until 13th oct, but i thinnk ive had enough of 13-18 lol.

though 19+ doesnt seem very busy??

he is 19 months on the 12th but what with all the rows going on here im planning on splitting soon.  Thats y im asking who else is going

I'm officially moving over on the 11th October as that's her 19 month birthday.

When are you moving?

over to 19 month thread.  Just interested on who is moving over same time is me