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Parents with children with adhd CHILDREN
7/10/08 22:54
7/10/08 21:02
all. Sorry I have not been on in a while. Not been well Adam had an app at camhs yesterday and told them what school said but not sure if she belived me as the head teacher said he was getting on fine and then when it came to parents evening his teacher said she dont think his meds are working or wearing of to early. His doc said she wil have to talk with the school.She is not worried about the death pictures and him talking about coffins etc. She said maybe its just a phase or he his trying to express himself through the pictures so she wants a talk with him alone as he would not talk yesterday.She did say to keep an eye on him though and he if becomes really low and starts trying to ham himself then to get back intouch with her asap. If not she will see us again in 4 wks time.
Its my eldest lads 13th b day today and the paper people changed his round so he had new houses on top of his old round in all he had to do 34 houses instead of 19 took him 2 hrs and he left some cause he couldnt fing the houses. I ahve tried getting intouch with the paper people but they are not answering my calls, i want them to take sum strrets of him as its to much and difficult to find even i struggled as i had to take him to the new houses.He his out with his friends tomarrow bowling.
Hope everyone else is ok im of now got a splitting head ache again.
Charlotte
7/10/08 20:43
hope you enjoyed your day off its nice to have once in a while i cant remember when i last had one masons had a goodish day hes had his moments off to take him to look at the special school tomorrow so ill get a idea of what he feels about it so that be intresting gonna not like tomorrow as a lot of traveling on bus i have to take them all to school except mason then on a bus to the special school then after back on bus drop mason off at his school then collect his sister from her school on the bus to a hosp app then home again on the bus i hate buses at times cause they are never on time............ mini moan over
7/10/08 18:15
hi ya
Had a whole day to myself today..................... lol. I wouldnt be without my two for anything but it was nice to have a day to myself, not had one for years.
Jacks school is quite good really and they do try to understand him, they are pretty understanding really so I should think myself lucky for that, obviously your kids are older than Jack so im not sure what the future holds for him schoolwise, they have to leave his school aged 11 - we'l cross that bridge then.
Wheres Charlotte got too, hope shes okay.
Well, hope your kids have a good day tomorrow - speak soon, Rachael x
7/10/08 12:49
afternoon ladies hi vick i agree with you school sometimes seem to be on another planet i asked him why he hit the girl and he simply said cause they hit me not nessarilly the girl but others so hes hitting out on the next vunurable child cause he cant get back at the person thats hurting him he does this at home if we tell him off and we upset him then he takes out on his siblings
off to tidy up see you later theresa xxx
7/10/08 12:06
morning ladies .......
sorry to hear masons playing up again theresa , glad to hear jacks been ok racheal .
i think its part and parcel of it the ups and downs good days bad days !!!!!
jays school doesnt believe in trying to prevent situations so hes just a tickinhg time bomb when hes at school. they also dont believe that any of the behavour he displays after school is any thing to do with whats happend during the school day ... its just silly drives me nuts but they just dont listen ...
hope everyone is ok i have cory off school today again
vick xxx
6/10/08 20:01
hi laides sorry ot hear your having behaviour problems, its wierd how they can seem to be doing really well and then bang, back to square one. Very frustrating.
Jack was back at school today, we needed a few hours away from each other. He didnt do too badly today so I was really pleased for him.
got a stinking cold grrr, its done the rounds in our house, think its going round at the mo.
Your very brave Theresa for going on the school trip, dont think I could face it lol.
Speak soon
Love Rachael x
6/10/08 19:41
hello ladies been busy mason been in trouble today for hitting a girl at school with a stick so he was made to sit in the hallway/ corridoor his behavior is getting worse again we were at christening yesturday and i just spent two hours with jasmyne and niall at a 3 yr old party my poor ears niall trying to jump on all the balloons to burst them making some kids cry, one mum has a set of twins age 6 and a set of 4yr old triplets as well as a teen im glad im not in her shoes id go gray quick i have the same no of kids as her but a least they are all different ages going on a school trip with mason on friday were going to some tudor house so that be fun 55 school children not done ought like that either before anyways catch you later theresa xx
6/10/08 16:07
hi ladies , hope your all ok and ur familys ,
sorry not been on much the boys have been quite difficault lately jay actually hurt my youngest yesterday we have no idea what happend he was the only one in the room with her , she has a nice bruise on the side of her head it came up straight away and was quite swollen , she was in her chair had just woken up .
we cant work out what happend ,... i had a phone call today from the head to say jay had a fight today all fun lol ....
apart from that not been up to much just trying to decorate our frontroom
hope your all ok vick xxx
5/10/08 15:13
Where does everyone keep disappearing too lol.
Hope you are all okay and kids behaving, mine arent but nothing new there
Im desperate to try another medication, Friday cant come soon enough here.Well, watching Chitty Chitty Bang Bang, love all those old films lol
x
4/10/08 15:06
hi everyone, hope you are all having a good weekend, peace in my house today, well behaved so far.
Done loads of washing and ironing, thats about it lol.
speak soon
Rachael x
4/10/08 12:28
afternoon ladies hope evryone is ok not up to much this weekend off to my nieces christening tomorrow but apart from that no plans dh is at archery so hes got peace mind you they are not to bad at the moment catch you all later have a good weekend
theresa xx
3/10/08 15:38
hi ladies charlotte im sorry to hear your having a bad time with your son and school and the behaviour over death most be highly worrying for you although i lot of children do wonder about it my son often spoke how he wanted to kill himself and i cry when he spoke like that we are taking mason to visit both schools this coming week to get his opinion on each school as they have brought forward his anual review from feb next year to end of oct/nov so running around getting things like reports and his opinions sorted this is cause the school choice desitions is in feb/march were going to primrose on friday 10th july to 18th so youll have to book for then so we can have a bounty meet up lol
hi rach it sounds like you having a bad day hope things calms down for you so you have chance to take a breather catch you all later
3/10/08 15:15
Hi everyone, sorry to hear Adam is having a tough time - what sort of noises does he make as Jack always makes noises - screeching and raspberry blowing etc and clearing his throat verrrry loudly. To be honest, part of the reason we came home early was also because we were megga stressed from the behaviour and being stuck in a caravan lol - we couldnt enjoy any of the days out from tantrums and behaviour problems, its really getting to me now. We have an appt on Fri with the pediatrician to discuss trying medication again. Hope you manage to get Adams medication sorted out.
Is there a sick bug going round, im so glad we left a day early as jack woke last night and was sooo sick - it was like something out of the exorcist, poor lad, he seems fine today though, his usual self, though kept him home today as wouldnt have been worth sending him today.
Im feeling megga on edge at the mo and not really coping, as in im shouting a lot and really have to make an effort not too, does anyone feel like they are losing the plot sometimes? aaaaaagh.
Gotta go, they re fighting, speak soon
r
3/10/08 10:11
hi ladies, sorry not been on in a while. adam struggling again at school. had parents evening the other day they said he his not concentrating much at school and not getting much work done they said his noises hvae come back what he makes and they have to often remove him from situations and its affecting the others with learning sometimes they have to remove other pupils if things are bad. and he his often hiding under tables. they think his meds are not working much or running out to early.he his constantly talking about death etc and while we went shopping he kept asking to see which coffin he will have when he dies and what songs will we play and where will he be burried etc, his pictures are really showing death aswell i have asked school to keep a eye on it aswell.
other than that things are ok at home. theresa we are also having to decide which special school to send adam to in sep next yr.we missed the open day they had so got to wait till the end of the month now. also trying to get his annual review paper work sorted etc.got camhs on monday so will discuss things with them then see what they say.
*** class="comment">hi rachael, sorry you had to finish your holiday early. it is all money money when you are there with is the only down point really. my kids to also wanted everything in sight the kids took there pocket money along with them aswell what they have been saving up so they uused that to buy things with.hope you had a good time though.
theresa forgot to say when are you going next yr we r thinking about booking again for july 11th not sure yet though
***>2/10/08 19:03
aww shame you had to end a day early but glad you enjoyed your hols ive started saving for mine just a few quid a week but ive got ages to save cause its not till july nice to see you back
2/10/08 18:48
hi everyone, we came back a day early - ran out of money (why do kids want everthing lol) and it got sooooo cold at night.
Kids loved the break and dd danced her socks off at the roary show every night lol. Its a great place, would definitely go back there.
Hope everyone is well, im ploughing my way through the washing so gotta go but will post properly tomorrow xxx
2/10/08 17:58
where is evryone today hope your all ok?
1/10/08 19:22
evening hope evryones ok were ok dh got some bug so hoping kids wont get it mason went for his xray but i feel there be nothing wrong there the school have been told to bring his statement review forward and may be as soon as six weeks time cause its his final yr at juniors so its the diciding time for him to go to special school next yr so got to chase up doctors now for reports
30/9/08 17:24
evening.all
hope college went theresa ,hope all ok charlotte ....
not done an alfull lot today , had the caff review nothing much came from it , and mark rang the job centre he has an appt on thurday .
jays been ok at school today and cory had a fight with 2 boys and kat was good lol
hope your well and family too vick xxx
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aww nice to see you charlotte sorry to hear you not been well happy belated birthday to your son
and a not a good trick that the newspaper people did to him they should of made sure he was happy with his round hes only a kid im sure the doc is right with the death thing and it is a phrase but a worrying one at that i hope he cheers up soon catch you later hope your headache goes soon take care theresa xx