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11/9/08 11:14
11/9/08 09:51
Hi Ladies hope eveyone is ok.
Vicky hope everything is ok and feel free to have a moan it will do you good to let it out.
theresa sorry to hear about Mason being bullies I suspect Adam is being bullied aswell some lad called him name and hit him cause he never scored a goal at football yesterday.Hope you get on well with your Maths and English and your T.A course.
I am starting my maths and english on the 23rd September. I think I will have to start right back from the begining as I had children young I never really got good grades at school etc.I did a childcare course back in 2006 ncfe level 1 but they never graded me as I diddnt finish of a few bits of course work cause I was heavily preg and my crb check never came back so I couldnt go to my placement to finish my few bits of. I did the exam but again they never marked it and I made the effort or going to do it when dd 2as just 2 days old. I ahve still got all my course work etc so im hoping to go back in to it soon I would also like to become a T.A as I feel there is a lack of them around here.I should of gone for an assessment for my maths and english course last friday but they never had a creche running and the tutor wouldnt let me take dd up while i did it even though she would of been in her pushchair.I ahve to done the assessment on the 1st day.
Todaywas a nightmare getting Adam to school he wouldnt go and was really aggressive towards me and his sister today. I counted up his pasta yesterday and he as earned £5 in a wk and a half which is great he was to take it on holiday with him a little extra spendning money.
Rang primrose yesterday to put in a request for a caravn close to the facilites as it will be easier and she tried to get us to upgrade to the platinum caravan she was really trying to get us to upgrade saying it had flat screen t.v etc but we thought we better not go for it because of AdamI dont want him damaging it lol. We also wanted to extend the stay and stay an extra day but it would of cost us £70 for a extra night but we couldnt afford it so diddnt go for it. The lady said we will most likely get a caravan next to facilites etc as we havent been allocated a caravan yet fingers crossed.
Thresea you said there is a soft play aera near scarbrough or brid Im just wondering if you know what its called would love to take the kids there.
10/9/08 23:07
hi ladies not been on for a few days latly either been so busy.
vicky i hope darcie feels better soon and if you ever need to 'moan' feel free were all here to listen.
charlotte im sorry you meeting didnt go well and your dh comments were a bit harsh of him to say hope you get a better result when you go back some 'experts' can be such t***s cant they i hope you your hols and the kids have chosen something suitable for the car journey.
hi rach is your kids ok if your planning primrose as a holiday youll love it its got loads near by the beach is a 10 min walk and a couple of miles down the beach and your in filey there 2 pools one just a normal pool with outdoor bit the other more family themed a nice little boating lake and play park soft play area near scarbrgh or brid so lots on site and off site i really recomended it.
well masons had some bullying and its made him real upset to the fact it upset his tummy so he had a little accident yesturday so had to go in about it today and surprise surprise they know nothing about it ruddy school hes been a bit more better today but its hard to tell cause he keeps evry thing bottled up bless him
well i start two courses tomorrow maths and english with learn direct then my introduction to being a t.a course from 22nd sept so im gonna be busy . it felt weeired going back to collage today to enroll aint been their for 13 yrs when i did my catering course plus before it was a collage it was my junior school wich takes me back to being 10yrs old lol
catch you all later
theresa xx
10/9/08 14:21
Hi Vicky, sorry to hear you have been having a rubbish time, sounds like you have your hands full. Sometimes it all gets too much doesnt it, but feel free to moan, Im the worlds biggest moaner so I definitely wouldnt mind lol.
Hope you feel a bit better soon.
R
xxx
10/9/08 11:10
hi ladies sorry i haven't been around for a few days ,
Darcie my youngest isn't very well she has an awful cold temperature and shes very grumpy , and the boys have been total nightmares .
fighting arguing ect there driving me nuts , cory refused to get in the car this morning and walked to the bottom of the road before he would get in .
i have also been feeling realy down and didnt want to come on here and moan about how crap i have been feeling .
any hoo , hope your all ok and kids behaving
welcome to all the new mums will have a look at all the posts i have missed abit later
vick xxx
10/9/08 09:22
Oh you mean the experiment lol, awwww - thing is it will scare the life out of kids hearing stuff like that on the news. Glad he has been doing so well the last couple of days.
Jack went into school well today, we talked about stinging nettles the whole way there lol
, they are one of his obsessions.Have a great day, not sure where everyone has gone either???
Love Rachael x
10/9/08 08:52
I hope everyone is ok not seen many on for a while?
2days we have had of adam now he as been a star its like he his a totally different boy. He was upset though last night and this morning as he dont want to die lol he as been watching the news and listening to other kids at school.
Well better get the cleaning done while dd is watching tv.
9/9/08 09:37
Yeah im fine thanks. Hope you have a lovely time at Primrose Valley and a well deserved break!
Kids can be so cruel with the teasing, im dreading that as ds is 6 so has not come across it yet but i guess its only a matter of time. Its hardly going to help them being teased is it, bet it makes you so mad.
Well, hope the blooming insurance man turns up at a decent time, they dont make life easy do they lol.
Have a great holiday and let me know when your back, I wanna hear all about it and what Primrose is like.
love Rach x
9/9/08 09:23
hi Rachael,
I was just thinking that mysef about it beinf quite.
Today we had a really good morning. Adam is trying to make a chick hatch out one of my eggs lol. But its keeping him enternained etc.
He came home upset yesterday from school as he was playing football at school ( he his not very good but tries) and some lads took the mick out of him.
Im just packing and getting ready for sat when we go primrose juts hope the wether is not like this.Been told they have aindoor play aera but for little ones only. We also wanted to take a trip to flamingo land aswell so fingers crossed it will be nice.
Got the furnuture insurance people coming out today aswell to assess the damage of the coffee table that adam broke while playing with his toys dont know what they want to see lol but I have only got the bottom bit as the top bit was smashed I had to take it all out as it was glass.He rang not long ago saying he will be here between 2 and 5 told him i Hvae school run and he got a bit arsy and said if he comes out while im at school I have to pay £25 yet I informed him of the times so he should avoid them but I can see he wont.
Hope you are ok and your children are ok.?
Charlotte
9/9/08 09:11
Hi everyone, just wanted to pop on an say good morning and hope you have a nice stress free day!
Its been very quiet last couple of days, where is everyone hiding?
Not seen Vicky much, hope she is okay x
Rachael x
8/9/08 12:54
Aww sorry to hear that. He is probably aggressive towards you because you are the one who is there all the time. Have you sat down and talked to him telling him how bad you feel when he does this, I know its not easy sitting them down and talking to them let alone making them understand you, sometimes when ds is making me feel really down i will tell him that he is making me feel poorly and sad and sometimes it does go in, worth a try a guess. Not easy though I know.
It puts a strain on a relationship doesnt it, I know how you feel. I really hope things pick up a bit for you as its horrible thinking you feel so down, we all know how horrible it feels sometimes.
Chin up chick, thinking of you
R
x
8/9/08 11:51
Just thought I would pop on and let you know how my appiotment went at camhs.
Well it diddnt go well and she said she doesnt think its the tablets andthinks they are working as she doesnt understand it as when he 1st take sit he gets a lot let out in his system and then it gets a little released through out the day.
She also doesnt understand why he his only aggressive to me and the other children and not dh. No one seesmt o understand what I go through day in day out with him trying to get him to school etc having to be on guard all the time cuase he will lash oyut at me at anytime with no warning. I have to admit it im scared of my ds. She kept saying that he his really imature due to his developmental delay etc and that way may expect to much of him etc. She also went on sayig we have to model good behaviour foir him to copy etc.
This morning was not a very good day and adam put his hand through the bed and broke the slats. And he started on his older brother.
What tops it of worse his dh said on the way back I will have to get my arse in to gear and change so i told him its not only me who as to change he does aswell. But I guess its something im doing or doing wrong to make ds aggresive to me day in day out. I just feel like climbing under a stone adn not coming back out.
We have another appiotment in 4 wks time with my oldest ds aswell so he can understand more. She was also talking about getting ds some play therepy to see if that will help.
Hope everyones had a better morning. I off for a nice hot cuppa now.
8/9/08 10:06
Hi everyone, I had a lovely weekend thanks, a nice break as the kids have lots of people at the inlaws to keep them entertained lol. You will have to let me know what Primrose Valley is like - it looks great on the website. I never listen to reviews as I think sometimes people are just far to fussy lol, the kids im sure will love it x
Hope you are all well and hi to the ladies who have just joined this thread.
Are the kids settling into school now? Think it will take my son a few weeks to calm down a bit.
Well, rain has held off so far, so fingers crossed I might be able to get some washing on the line today.
Have a lovely day everyone xxxxx
8/9/08 07:43
Hi Rachael, we are going on sat andcan not wait im like a big kid again and all excited. I even get like this with xmas lol .
The kids can not wait as well I had to make them a calendar last night to show them how many days they have left now they dont have to ask me every 5 mins of the day lol. I am hoping it doesnt rain aswell fingers crossed. Kids have been looking on the site and dd 2yrs keeps trying to say anxious lol.
I heard so many bad reviews lately about primrose valley but now I have a little faith as loads of people seem to begoing.Kids will always be on the fair and go karts etc so will cost a bomb lol.
How was your weekend away hope you had a good time. Got to get kids sorted now and get ready for when dh comes to pick us up for camhs appiotment,
Charlotte
7/9/08 20:15
hi racheal did you enjour your break? just been making sure all the uniforms and homework are all in order masons doing a timeline of his life in school so theyve asked for pics from his life so far good can you imagine how long that took me with 14 yrs worth of pics to go through i really oght to sort them out but never find the time.mason was unwell last week but i feel hes gonna pull up for it this week!
catchg you later
theresa x
7/9/08 19:13
Hey Choco, when are you going?
Speak soon everyone x
7/9/08 19:11
Hey ladies how are you all doing, wow,more names, im glad there is a thread here for people to talk. Theresa, we are going to Filey, Primrose Valley end of this month, just hope it doesnt rain lol.
Well, ds has been very hyper lately since going back to school, I can feel my patience getting thin now. Hope everyone had a lovely weekend, speak more tomorrow once im sorted.
Love, Rachael.
x
7/9/08 17:55
oh i hope you enjoy your hols my mums currently in caister e often went to caister when we were little we havent been on holiday since june o6 so next year be well welcome we had our verry first holiday in sept 05 as when ds was younger it was hard taking him anywhere i know it wasnt fair on my other kids as my eldest was 11 before she got to know what a holiday is enjoy it
that was nice of adam even if ity wasnt nice i find my son is so loving and can be quite caring in the right mood anyway off to serve my chicken roast
7/9/08 17:17
Hi ladies and welcome I have not long joined my self and its nice talking to someone on here thats going through the same as you.
Hi Thresea, We are also going to Primrose valley with Haven and can not wait. Just hope the weathers good. Looks like theres lots to do on the site for the kids so will keep them busy.We havent been on holiday since 2006 where we went caister on sea with haven and thats gone hill hilla lot we use to always go there every yr and can remember when they had the donkey derby and family fun day on the green but they have done away with that now and just made room for more caravans. That holiday was hell with ds and we nearly came home early because of him but we managed to sort things out with him. So this yr im hoping it will be a lot better espically as ds is on his meds now.
Adam as just made me a coffee with about 3 teaspoons of sugar it taste like and luke warm water lol. I had to pretend to drink it as diddnt want to hurt his feelings.
I will let you know what primrose is like when we get back.
7/9/08 17:04
hi welcome ladies your both more than welcome to join us
charlotte where are you going sorry being nosey i hope you enjoy it weve just booked our hols for next july so a long way of were of to primrose valley, nr filey with haven.
good luck with your meeting hope it goes well for you.
hi sarah welcome to the tread your little baby in the pic looks so cute were all here to listen or if we can give advice so feel free tochat.
proudmum03 ill pm you in a minuet
Hi everyone. Good luck with your courses charlotte and theresa! I keep thinking about going to learn hairdressing, its something i wish id always done. Think I might phone around later to see if I can find any courses (depending how much they are)
Sorry to hear you are both having problems with bullying, this is something I dread, its not started yet thankfully.
Yeah, Im hoping to be near facilities too, apparently we are in a basic caravan so I'l just wait and see when we get there and if its too far il ask if we can be moved.
Hope everyone is feeling okay today, how are you Vicky? feeling better?
Speak soon, Love Rach x