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19/11/08 17:20
19/11/08 16:17
hi theresa and eveyone.
having a s*** day, we got a coal fire, i was cleaining it out from last night, dropped the hoover and crap went everwhere, my dad went to the hospital because he is having chest pains and he has angina (found out a while ago he has diabetes) and dh unhappy with someone at work.
that with monday ive had enough lol. jack is fine though so thats a plus, part from ive run out of yogs so he cant have is half at 4 so is a bit lively.
i think i might have a glass of wine or two tonight, sorrty for the rant lol.
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19/11/08 13:20
morning ladies hope evry ones ok just catching up on my laundry apart from that got a quite day
18/11/08 10:37
hi charlote so good to see you ruddy nurses they should make sure they have their facts right before giving you diagnosis good to hear your sons behaviour has improved as for your hubby hes been a bit unreasonable i was a sixe 12 / 14 when i married at age 17 but now 13 yrs later im at a 18 / 20 but at my biggest after 7 kids i was a 22 / 24 but with looking after a s.n. son i have not the time to count calories he has the problem not you maybe ask what he thinks you do all day and ask for his support and just maybe with the right support you might be able to lose a few pounds but only do it if you want to take care chin up were all here for you.
hi rach hope your ok kids ok not read all thread yet catch you later
theresa
18/11/08 08:37
Oh Charlotte! firstly I just want to say how nice it is to see you here again. It sounds like you are having a really crappy time, im so sorry. Im glad to hear its not as bad as you thought with your grandad, it must still be hard though as he is still very poorly.
As for your dh im sorry things are not going too well. I felt really grrrrr when you said he said he wants you to be slim again, youve had kids for gods sake - MEN!
thats not exactly going to make you feel any better is it, ooooh that makes me mad.I hope you manage to work things out, having a child with ADHD doesnt make a relationship very easy either does it, specially with all the other crap thats going on, have you sat down and told him how you really feel, maybe if he knew how down you were you could have a good chat and get things out int he open? just a thought, I really hope things pick up for you hun.
Make sure you keep us up to date and speak soon
Rachael (hi to everyone else too x) x
18/11/08 08:15
Hi all, Hope everyone is ok?
My Grandad is ok we have just found out he doesnt have phenomina and never did have.The nurses said he had it but they were wrong they said he still is not out the woods yet and 1 of 3 things can kill ihim instantly which is 1 a nother stroke 2 a chest infection 3 a urine infection. They are giving him antibiotics to control his chances of getting these. They ahve also said they dont think he will return home as there will be noone to look after him as he will need 24 hr care and my nanna is practically disabled my uncle carnt as heas had kidney failure etc and my auntie as the same condition as my uncle. So he will prob end up in a home.
Adam is not to bad now we seem to go through periods where he his good and then back tracks. We have another appiotment at camhs on the 10th so see if its worth continueing withhis sensory profile.
Me and dh are going through a bad time he says I dont have time for him any more etc yet its him thats been really distance from me not being himself and then moaning at me cause all he does is go to work come hoome do decorating and then to bed for work the nextday.Its not as if he does the decorating eeryday anyway its took him 2 months to decorate the hall stairs and landing and its nowhere near finished yet.He had the week end off so could of done some then but he just lazed about doing nothing. Sometimes I think we are just together cause of the kids and I know he doesnt really love me anymore although he says he does I can tell he dont by the way he his and looks at me. All he keeps going on about is me losing weight .
I asked him to see what he ould like for xmas and his answer was for you to lose weight and be slim like u were when i met u. 14 yrs ago and before 4 kids came along I was a size 12 so 14 yrs on and 4 kids later im a size 22. I also had my 1st child really young at 14 so not really had a life or anything and back then everyone was saying u r eating for 2 etc so that made me put on weight.Sometimes I wish I could click my fingers and be the same old me but I know thats not going to happen. I have told dh we have to decide what we really want from the marriage and decide where to go.
Sorry for ranting.Charlotte
17/11/08 21:21
Hi everyone, hope you are all well.
Not been up to much today, gave my car a flat tyre by hitting the curb and locked myself out this morning all by 10.30am
dh had to come home from work to let me in. We had friends down the weekend so im knackered, house needed a massive clean today.Apart from all that, Jacks still doing well touch wood and everything else bless him.
Hope everyone is okay.
R
x
16/11/08 14:31
i will, not upto much today masons been testing today with behaviour im doing my bills sorting out the budget for christmas shopping i allow extras at crimbo so thats where my budget doubles for the two weeks im getting fed up about it already enough moaning take care
16/11/08 08:26
Say hi to vicky for me x
Yeah I hope Charlotte is okay, shes not been on for quite a while has she.
Have a nice day everyone
Rachaelx
15/11/08 17:33
hi enjoy your friends visit that be nice for you ive spoken to vicky on face book shes ok but had some probs with her son just concerned about charlotte as her grandad was ill so hope your ok charlotte take care enjoy your night / weekend x theresa x
15/11/08 13:25
Theresa! hi x
We got friends coming down from Cornwall not seen them for over 2 years so really looking forward to it. Only thing is they stopping til tuesday morning an jack will have to sleep in our room so not sure how it will all affect him at school monday and Tuesday.
Glad you are having a chill out weekend, lucky you - just think of me tidying up after everyone lol. Hope the kids are behaving, Jack at my mums til the morning.
Going down the pub tonight with my friend and my friend down the road so might have sore head in the monring hehe.
Speak soon,
Rachael x
15/11/08 10:56
morning anyone hope evryone is ok ive got quite a relaxed weekend just got to take ds to optition apart from that nothing on the agenda oh appart from laundry have a good weekend theresa xxxx
13/11/08 22:32
yep i got £3 to find for 3 of mine my eldest two dont do it they abide by a strict uniform policy but its for a good course and ive done the washer thing too infact only the other day fortunatly i managed without the items inside off to play on the wii and do some excersise now so catch you tomorrow take care
13/11/08 22:24
Lol, I had a mare this morning, thought id put the washing machine on last night with ds uniforn in it, found at at 8.05 this morning that I didnt, and we ended up bein 20 mins late coz he wouldnt wear any other trousers lol, aw well. It should have happened tomorrow as its children in need there too and now i gotta pay for him to wear his jeans lol (only jokin as its for a good cause x lol )
13/11/08 22:13
boo back lol its so quite been upto nothing mason still behaving himself just been cutting out fabric dots to attach to kids clothing for 'go spotty day' in aid of children in need at school so 3 kids wanting 'spots' on clothing good old double sided sticky tape hope evryones ok just trying to catch up on laundry cause it cant dry it ive got a pile again or rather a mountain
13/11/08 21:43
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12/11/08 16:39
Hi everyone hope you are well. Aww Charlotte im really sorry to hear Adam is giving you a hard time and hope he settles down a bit for you.
Theresa, great about masons review, Im keeping my fingers crossed that you get the outcome you want.
Not much to report here really, still trying to toilet train the new dog (i must be mad lol) but jack still doing okay thank god.
Catch you later ladies xxxx R xxxxx
11/11/08 23:18
hi charlotte glad to see your grandad is showing sighns of getting better and sorry to hear adam is still being a bit difficult it must be hard for you wive evrything going on for you at the moment hope your cahms apointment goes well
hi rach its good to hear your sons doing well mason is too we had is annual review today was supposed to be a quick hour but turned into 2 but evryone agrees including the senco at the mainstream secondry that mason should go to special school next september but now its upto sen at county hall
getting late catch you all later take care theresa x
11/11/08 17:39
hi all grandad got numonia and things were not looking to good in fact he was given 48 hrs . But he his still here today and dad said he his looking a bit better. Hopefully things will improve slowly.
Things are taking a turn for the worse here and hating it today I thought we could make paper chains and adam couldnt stick them today as he was licking it to much told him to use tape but he just went on one and lashed out at me and damaged the living room floor took a big chunk out of it to which dh is not happy about. I just feel so down today as everything is going so wrong and I dont know what to do to control it. We have an appiotment at camhs on thursday so will see what they have to say about things.
Anyway got to go now speak soon. Charlotte
10/11/08 20:12
Hi Natalies, good luck on the 20th {g}
Hi Theresa and Vicky and Charlotte, been so quiet here lately, please dont let our thread die
I enjoy talking to all of you.Theresa hope you are well hun . Jack doing well at the mo and im really proud of him, hope mason is okay.
Will post more tomorrow when i have some peace lol xxxxxxxxxxxx
oh hun hope your dad gets well soon go to you bedroom put something heavy behind the door so know one can get in and indulge in comfort food and wine on your bed well thats how it works in soap land lol niall is full of cold and wont leave my side i know hes only two but cant even go to loo without him trying to climb on me knee hubby cooking tea were having jamaican brown chicken stew and rice take care hun charlotte i hope your ok what with your grandad and now your dh remarks my husband would never be like that towards me and i hope he realises what a wonderful wife he has lets face it he got you preggs so should understand that the supermodel mums just aint in the real world im sure you know what i mean
take care