hi im still a little tearfull its takes around 2 weeks for the meds to work, hubbys weird some days hes ok others he shouting at me im just ignoring him now whens hes in one of his moods its the only thing i think i can do i hate raised voices around the kids its not fair on them.

oh hon!!!!

i really feel for you,my dp has been hard work but nothin like the sound of your oh,he needs a kick up the arse!!!! dont no how you are copin with him as well

see your post was a couple of days ago,how are  you?

well went to the docs yesterday i have got pnd, this sounds silly but my hubby hates the thought of me having a depession and not him hes kept saying theres nothing wrong with me im giving him a breakdown the other nite he was on the net to try and find a depression he could have hes unreally hes picking fights with me now for no reason, i really hate him now its like having 5 kids not 4 hes giving me no support at all just shouts at me hes said last nite im a lazy cow, i dont do anything. i have had enough i had a prem baby shes 19 weeks old i had a em c sec and through all this he gave me NO  support at all i cant forgive him for this.

i think i am suffering with pnd millie was born 10 weeks early by c section due to pe and placental in suffiency  , i got preg quite quicly with her as i suffered a still birth in the oct and was preg by the dec same thing with that preg too but i am crying all the time snapping at the kids and partner , but doc wont put me on anything seen a counsellor today she says she will speak to doc feels like i am cracking up

i myself have sufferd from pnd an its awful i know how hard it is 2 feel alone an unable to cope especially wen u av other little ones i went to the docs becuz i was that bad i started havin sucidel thoughts he put me straight on to 20mg catalopram had some side affects but they have helped me just had my dosage decressed now so hopefully soon ill be off them but i would say get help asap because u may just sink deeper an depper an it isnt a very nice place to be xxxx

forgot to mention - try looking into chinese or herbal remedies if your worried about pills from the doc. i know a few people that have tried this and they swear by it.

hi, it may all seem grim now but by going to the doc's you're taking the first steps to feeling better. when you see the doctor ask about counselling, it might seem weird talking about your life to a stranger but it can really help, it certainly helped me.

as for your hubby, i'm not defending his behavior but men don't always understand whats going on! he could actually be trying to ingnore the situation because he's scared and doesn't know how to help?

i tink i have it i just cant cope with anything i total blame myself for eveything thats happen to my liitle girl she was born by em c sec at 29 weeks she stopped growing  i just cant stop crying i have 3 other kids 4yr 3yrs and 19 month, my hubby is making me feel even worse hes not giving me any support at all  hes says im fine he was trying to find some kind of depression that he could have last nite i feel like hes one big kid whos trying to go one better i just cant take any more i have now made a appoinment to see the doc on thurs told hubby hes just said you havent got it  its just the kids upsetting u,  i cant cope i hate myself and now because of his lack of care and understanding im started to hate him.

im also scared it the docs does give me anything for it i wont be able to stop taking it this is way i havent been to the docs yet .