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7/10/08 20:13
7/10/08 08:54
Ho Vic, it's so good to hear from you, you've been through a lot the last couple of weeks and I'm so happy to see you are doing ok and seing a positive side of it, that man didn't deserve you and I really hope that you are going to found your perfect man and have another baby and that it will all work out for you.
I'm still in ttc as you can see it's taking me a while but that's ok and I'm grateful to what I've got and I'm so sorry all this happened to you and I really hope a better futur for you Vic. I will miss you loads as you were a great friend to me on bounty, so thank you and (((((((((((((((((((HUG))))))))))))))))))))
Take care of yourself hun xx
7/10/08 01:07
Hi everyone. I have to say this is the first time i've been on Bounty since I last posted and I really didn't expect to find my diary, but thanks to you girls its still here
Well, its nearly a month since my mmc and it truely does get easier with time. I'm still grieving but not on a day to day basis, actually feels strange when I go by a day and realise I haven't thought about everything. As you know my ex pretty much disappeared, offered no support to me and never came with to scans, procedure etc. I bagged up all his things and put them to a charity shop
I have only heard from him once and that was him phoning to find out if his friend could come collect it.........which I reponded proudly.........'better go down Oxfam then!!!!!' Must admit it felt good 
I'm still of the frame of mind that everything in life happens for a reason and although you sometimes can't see it at the time it does become apparent. As much as I wanted and still want my baby he/she was too good to be brought into a situation I wasn't even aware of (with ex). He wasn't the person I thought and in the past couple of weeks i have to say my life is looking up
i'm looking to the future again and enjoying being single and also determind to not waste another moment being upset over him! He doesn't even deserve a single thought from me. Its amazing when you step back from a situation you see it/ them for what it really was.I'm going to post a seperate thread but I can;t even begin to say thank you enough to all my Bounty girls, its overwhelming the support you have all given me and I've really missed chatting to everyone. Unfortunately, I now don't really have a place in Bounty, I don't want to dwell on whats happened and I feel if i'm in any area of Bounty at the moment it will prevent me moving on with my life. I promise however that I will pop in every so often to say hello.
I've been through a tough journey for the past year, ttc, 2 bfps, 2 mmc, seperation and now rebuilding my life with my children. I can honestly say from my heart that i'm begining to feel like the old me and looking forward. I may be back at some point down the line with a new man
and trying to ttc once agin but at the moment i'm going to live my life for me once again.Huge hugs and so so many thank yous to you all for being such amazing friends
Vic xxx
to all xxx6/10/08 10:40
No may text her to make sure shes ok and all x
6/10/08 10:02
Hi hun, no i havent heard anything from vic...ive been thinking about her, i hope she is ok.
Vic if your about let us know you are ok hun
Shell xx.
6/10/08 09:42
Has anyone seen or heard from Vicz? Just wondering how she is xxxx
23/9/08 15:39
bumping for vicz, thinking of you hun xxx
22/9/08 13:58
I'm thinking of you Vicz. I'm sorry your DP has been like this, but I'm glad to hear it went ok in the hosp for you.
22/9/08 11:39
Thinking of you hun xxx
19/9/08 08:42
Morning vic hun...thinking about you ((((((hugs))))))
Shell xx.
19/9/08 08:41
Bumping for vicz, wondering how you are sending loads of hugs (((((((((((((((vicz)))))))))))))))
17/9/08 12:48
so sorry hun, been thinking of u loads, hope you are doing ok and got other support xx xx
17/9/08 09:16
Oh hun,I'm in shock!!! I've come back from Cyprus to find out that everyone has been having a really rough time. E-lou with her sad news and now yours. I'm so sorry to find out about your loss as well as the break-up between you and your dp.
I really hope that you find the strength to cope and go on. I'm praying for you and the family at this time.
Steph xxx
16/9/08 21:43
Giving you a big ((((((((((HUG)))))))))) hope you are ok.
15/9/08 16:44
Hiya, page 7. Just want to let you know that you have been in my thoughts all weekend.
Hope your ok, well as ok as can be expected
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13/9/08 21:13
Vicz so sorry you had to go through all of this. Is your dp the father of your other children? Hope your children are giving you all the love you need to get throught this time. We are all thinking of you. ((((((((HUG))))))))
13/9/08 16:54
You are so brave Vic, well done you. Must be so hard going through all this on your own, your partner is a real b*****d, I can't believe he's behaving like that, you are well better off without him, you deserve so much better hun.
I hope you are resting and taking it easy, I'm sorry you won't be ttc anymore but please keep in it touch here. Best of luck ((((((((((HUG)))))))))))))
13/9/08 15:06
Oh Vicz, I'm so so sorry for your loss, your being so so brave and so so strong. I agree with bionic babe when she says come back and see us in the Di and ttc forums. You have been so supportive of everyone and I'm sure we all here will do everything we can to support you if you need.
As for your now i assume EX dp, what a kn0b!!! How dare he treat you like that. He should be very ashamed of himself and does not deserve you.
I'm sure your angel was too good for this world and I'm sure will be looking down on you.
If you need anything just get in touch. I want to wish you and your kids all the best. You know what they say, 1 door closes and another 1 opens.
All the best and please stay in touch
Jenny xxxxx
13/9/08 10:29
Hey Vic im glad thurs went as well as it could of, you do sound so strong hunii, and im sure everyone will agree when i say to still pop bk in to ttc and pop in di boards to catch up with everyone when u are ready, i know the help and advice u have given ladies has been great and the support u have shown to ladies too, I hope one day you find someone who treats u the way u deserve to be treated and that u and ur kids find the happiness u all so deserve, text any time u neeed anything or even just to say hi hon, will keep in touch with u anyway xxxx
13/9/08 09:46
Ah vic ((((hugs)))) what a hard day for you yesterday hun
Your dp is a prat, i cant believe he still hasnt contacted you since last week
i do hope you and your kids will be ok and have the happy life you deserve.If you ever need a chat you know where i am hun.
Your in my thoughts
Shell xx.
Vicz glad you are ok and things are looking up for you. Hope you keep poping in.
(((((((((((((HUG)))))))))))