Trying to conceive

Trying to conceive
Katt12 Poppy108 and Luchi TTC buddies

6/9/08 17:41
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luchi

KAAAAAATTT, i had achey tops of my legs toooooooo!!!!! I AM SOOOOO EXCITED FOR YOU!
6/9/08 16:27
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Katt12

Thanks Poppy, I hope so, I have had a late period for a long time so it is unusual. I am dying to test but I cant face another bfn, so am just going to wait.

I think it's a good thing re getting in shape for ttc, I am gion gto start with the healthy eating either way, I have put on so much weight. I am a large 16 and I would love to be a 12 or small 14, I've never wanted to be a size zero! Just a healthy size.

x
6/9/08 16:25
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poppy108

OMG am soooo excited for you!!! Good for you holding out to test though! Can't wait for the BFP I know is coming!!!!
6/9/08 16:22
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Katt12

Hi ladies

OMG - so far af has stayed away! I don't know whether or not I will test in the morning, I have some mild cramps so I dont know if the witch is on her way?? If she doesn't turn up in the morning I will get some tests in the afternoon and test Monday morning! I don't really have any symptoms apart from feeling a little bit sicky and not quite with it, oh, and the tops of my legs ache, but I could put all of those things down to other reasons.

Glad you are both feeling more positive. Poppy, I am glad you sound in good spirits.

Emma xx
6/9/08 15:43
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luchi

i am feeling pretty good, not energised (still spend most of the afternoon trying to stay awake) but i am in better spirits! eating better, not so sick all the time (just now and then!) i just can wait for my next scan, so i know everything is still ok! i think i will worry the whole way through that somethin has happened and i dint know about it! cant wait to hear heartbeat properly, so that can be a reasurrance!

poppy, you are sounding very positive which is brill, tell your dh to keep up the training so that you dont to anything next time!

hope af has stayed away still katt! i am so excited for you x
6/9/08 13:14
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poppy108

Yay Katt!!!!!!!! Hoping she stays away, am soooooo excited for you, I think this is it!!

Will be waiting to hear the results of your testing tomorrow!!

Feeling ok today, just can't help thinking how different this weekend is from last weekend. But feeling positive about moving on, am going to lose as much weight as possible before conceiving again, DH has started working out again in preparation for the mammoth amount of bding we will be doing ( and, he says, to be ready to do EVERYTHING when I do get pg, as I will be taking it very very easy this time and he will be knackered lol!) both off alcohol and cafine etc apart from for Scotland games so we are going to make an super sticky healthy bean next time.

How you doing Luchi, past three months now so are you feeling more energised?

Hope everyone is having a good weekend,

j x
6/9/08 11:02
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luchi

glad you are feeling better poppy, it does good to have a good cry! nd yay for the broadband being fixed!

ohh katt, it is so exciting! i really hope you get you bfp soon x
6/9/08 08:12
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Katt12

Morning ladies

How are you today Poppy?

I was due af yesterday, so far it's not arrived! That's a bit unusual, but have done an ebay cheap test this morning and got a bfn, so if still no af tomorrow I will test with a normal clear blue.

Hope you are both ok and enjoying your weekend.

x
5/9/08 10:45
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poppy108

Yay, broadband fixed!!

Feeling much better today. Think I needed to have that good cry yesterday, blubbed all the way home in the car from work. I think I had really been avoiding thinking about it, so me and dh had good talk, also told my best friend and had a good chat to her, so feeling much better.

Am going to take this month to do all the healthy things I was going to do when pg. Aiming to make myself as fit and healthy as poss so when I do get pg I am in top shape with a nice comfy womb for little bean to be comfy in.

For the first month ever I can't wait for af to arrive, cos then we can start over.

How is it going Katt, will have to transfer all my symptom spotting and baby vibes to you for a bit. Hope you get your BFP this weekend!!
5/9/08 10:19
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luchi

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4/9/08 19:06
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luchi

i was exactly the same poopy, going from fine, to uncontrollable floods of tears. i actually had to randomly pull over when driving once becuase it hit me again! just let it out as and when you need!

i id start tying again after having af, after speaking to some on ttcal it seemed a common theme that if they didnt wit to get af, and got pg, they lost that one aswell. i just felt i needed the time aswell to get over it emotionally.

i had a scan on a friday, after not bleeding for a week (before then i had a week of heavy bleeding) and was toild there was no baby there. i didnt go back to work, had the weekend, then didnt go work on monday. on the monday i pampered myself, got my hair cut ect, and then went back to work on the tuesday. i made sure i was busy at work, and away from the clients so if i needed to take 5 mins, i could. i did this for 2 weeks, and then was ok.

obv it is diffeent for everyone, so just take the time you need.

katt, it aint over till the witch is here, i have never had an early bfp!
4/9/08 16:47
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poppy108

Just done search on the net nd found loads of advice, seems gp's will tell you to wait one cycle as that makes dating the pg better and there doesn't seem to be any evidence that says after a spontaneous mc which is as uncomplicated as mine appears to have been not to start trying straight away.

Have printed off some info to hopefully convince dh that it will be safe to start again.

Feel a bit better knowing I might not have to wait for ages. I think he is just really scared no that it will happen again - he hates to see me upset and thinks he is really unlucky, so I may have a job on my hands persuaing him.

Hope to be back online soon, speak later,

Jill x
4/9/08 16:24
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poppy108

Hi girls,

Broadband still out back at mums to check in!

Tried going back to work this morning ut only lasted about five minutes before I went into meltdown and was promptly sent homeagain, not back until monday now. I am ok most of the timeand then lose it for a bit. Just wish I had internet, then I could work things through on here.

Think the thing that gets me most is not being able to try again. The nurse who did the scan said that I would bleed for about a week and that my uterus lining would be too thin to sustain another pregnancy right away. DH won't let us try again now until after another af.

But the leeding has stopped today, which means it only lasted two days, so I cn't see how it can be that thin, I bleed for longer when I have my period!!

Katt, I am sure you are not out yet, I didn't get bfp until three days late!
4/9/08 13:09
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Katt12

Thanks Luchi, but I don't think it is my turn.

I am going to wait and see now if af turns up, if not I will test on sat with a normal one.

x
4/9/08 12:34
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luchi

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4/9/08 09:48
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luchi

try using a non digi katt, you cant get a faint bfp with digi's, thats why i got cheapo wilko strips, got a faint line on them!!

poppy hun, how you doing today x
4/9/08 07:54
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Katt12

oooo, don't know what happened to my post yesterday! LOL

How are you feeling today Poppy?

I used a cb digi this morning, bfn

x
3/9/08 11:13
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Katt12

***>poppy, i am so sorry to hear your news, like luchi said, if you want to chat or scream we are here.***> ***> ***> ***>no, you haven't scared me, don't worry! ***> ***> ***> ***>take care x***>
3/9/08 10:49
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poppy108

Thanks Luchi,

Don't know what I would do without you guys!
3/9/08 10:48
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poppy108

Meant to say,

depending on whether cable guys appear again today (and actually fix the problem) I might not get back on til tomorrow when back at work.

Grrr hate this keyboard!! Keep missing out letters!!