tmi coming up ....I manually orgasm after the deed is done, as the pulsing sucks the swimmers right up there - it's much less messy and there not always much excess to wipe away.

don't know where the ? came from, it was definately me who wiped it away!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Heh heh

I'm now DID but when we were TTC I? wiped away the excess ones coz they're not going to crawl back up there !!! lol   And then made sure I went for as long as poss with my bum on a cushion and my legs in the air. Also made sure I had a wee right before sex so I wouldn't wash all the sperm away straight after!!! It worked!!!!!!!!!!

i would try not to clean up straight away as i used to do this and when i tried not doin it straight away and puttin legs in the air i conceived straight away when i tried it! good luck xxx

Thanks so much..at least I know I'm not alone which makes it more bareable and its all worth it in the end. Thanks everyone for being so open and honest on such a delicate subject cheers (and i'll keep you posted if anything happens)

Since ttc I've been lying on my back with my pelvis tilted to help the little swimmers on their merry way, I stay there so long there wasn't much if anything to clean up which I can only assume is a good thing! Lol

lol...def tmi! lol. I don't 'clean up' as like you I don't want to wash away them little men. I've got Tourettes and coughing is one my tics which i have to try really hard not to do as it comes back out again and i feel that its a waste of time!

Its not nice been sticky all night though, so if I know that its not near concieveing time I will wipe up. HTH

I usually have some tissue on hand to wipe the outside then whack on some big pants with a panty liner in!!! lol If you're b'ding at bedtime then hopefully you can lay flat all night but if its during the day then lay as long as you can so the swimmers can go as far as poss!!

does you tend not to "clean up" straight away when ttc?? Just wandering what everyone else does as I don't feel comfortable going to sleep sticky but thinking about it washing the swimmers away won't help conception.  Just thinking out load, sorry if tmi for everyone!