Welcome back and your holiday sounds absolutely fab. Plenty of sun, sea and s*x 
I'm sure your next appointment will be here before you know it. Time does seems to go faster when you have something to aim for iykwim.
Take care
xxx
Welcome back hon! Sounds like you had a fab time. I am sooooo jealous!!!
My appointment to see my cons to discuss my last BFN is next week. I felt like it was months away too, but it has come by quickly, so I'm sure your appointment will be the same.
Anyway, got to go...I'm just about to indulge in the most divine chocolate tarte.....mmmmm!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxx
You lucky sausage. I bet you have a lovely tan too. I'm glad you had such a fab time and I hope your first day back at work hasn't been too traumatic.
Love Katxxx
Hi ladies!!
OMG, how beautiful is Agios Nikolaos in Crete?!!! It is goooooorrrgeeeoouuss!! Loved every minute there, ate sooo much I'm surprised we weren't charged for extra personal baggage, lol!
Weather was glorious, people are wonderful and friendly, food is amazing, the place itself is stunning, generally in love with the place!! Def will go back!
So, had a quick read and can't really remember what was written now! LOL! But want to say to Scarlett that I'm sorry to hear of your sad news and hope you'e doing ok. Am very pleased you are going to go ahead with treatment again in Dec tho and I will be keeping fingers and toes crossed for you!
My hospital appt with the consultant to discuss what we do next isn't until 17th November!!!!
Oh well, not much I can do about that! I'm sure the time will fly by! So IVF won't be until next year, but heym new year new beginning! 
Well, I have no more news really, not been home long enough to have anything happen, lol! Will try and pop on individual threads later, work a bit busy! 
Love to all! xxxx
Hey JFC,
Are you back off your jolies yet???? How was Crete? Hope you had a fab time. I can't wait to hear all of your stories....come on spill the beans young lady!!!!!
I haven't really been on Bounty much recently and I know you said you had probs accessing my diary again, so thought I would give you an update here. I've had quite a lot going on to be honest. I had a death in my family so was busy with that and the funeral. Then I also had my little nephews 1st birthday party which was brillant fun!!! Work has been really busy but I think my existing contract is going to come to an end, so I may be out of work at the end of October. In terms of treatment, I think we will start again in December. Still need to discuss it properly.
Anyway, hope you're ok hon xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Have a fabulous holiday JFC I hope you come back full of beans. What is it with your back being bad after treatment? Very peculiar.
Have a great time you deserve it Jo x
Have a wonderful holiday and over indulge until your heart is content. I hope the lovely sunshine helps your back so you're feeling fab when you get back.
xxxxxxx
have a fab holiday. i'll keep my eye on the bbc news site for news of chaos and deportations in crete lol. i have heard that the best back treatment is relaxing in the sun with regular c***tail intake and make sure you keep your tummy permenantly full of good food too, its the only true back cure.
have fun, katxxx
ps. my big news is that my chickens have called of their strike action and are laying eggs again ....... not much happens in my world hehe.
Hi ladies!
Well, I've been awol again due to my back, again! Grrrr!
Still, at least it happened BEFORE my hols not during!!
So, tomorrow I'm off on my jollies, look out Crete, lol! So I just wanted to pop by and say hi to everyone!
Jo - great that you saw/heard heartbeat, sooooo exciting!!
MrsC - next scan soon!!! Very exciting!!
Slimchick - good luck with the stimming (is that right?! sorry if not!) and I'll keep fingers crossed for you!
Scarlett - can't get into your diary again so not sure what your plans are but sending you lots of
and am thinking of you xx
Kat - any news in your part of the world?! Thanks for always making me chuckle these last few months, hugely appreciated! 
Tinkersmummy - am praying AF doesn't show and that your IUI was 1st time lucky!! 

And if I've missed anyone, I am sooooo sorry, brain has gone on hols a day early! 
You've all been so fantastic and I'm grateful to all of you for being so supportive and generally just fabulous! 
See you when I get back next Weds! xxxx
Hi JFC,
Just dropping by to make sure you are ok. Am thinking of you hon. Have a good weekend.
Love and kisses,
Scarlett 
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I hope you are doing OK.
and (((HUGS))) Katxxx
Hi honey sorry not posted any earlier been away for the weekend... really gutted about your news lots of hugs coming your way.... I do admire you lots and keep smiling when you can i think all the ladies on here should take a leaf out of your book and keep your head up and be strong.. Anyway have a fab holiday don't get too brown and i bet you will miss the rain (NOT).. xxxx
Hi Honey,
I'm so sorry for not posting on your diary sooner...I've just been taking some time out of Bounty since my BFN. I'm absolutely gutted to hear about your BFN...I'm so sorry hon. I hope you have treated yourself to something nice over the weekend to take your mind off all of this TTC business.
Thats great news about your holiday...its so nice to have something to look forward to. I'm sure you will have a fab time.
Love and kisses,
Scarlett 
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Oh hunny, I'm sorry it didn't work for you this time (((((((((((HUGS))))))))))). What a devastating blow for you and dh.
I think Crete really does need to watch out for your arrival
Only joking hun - you go and have an absolutely whale of a time and overindulge in everything - if I can be sick off alcohol then so can you 
I do like how you have a positive outlook (I think it helps). You will have your dream, unfortunately some of us have to wait a little longer than others but boy, will it be worth it!!
xxxxxx
Aaaw, Jo! I love you!
You make me smile. 
I may still have a little sob tonight, once the alcohol has taken hold, lol! But mostly I like to think positive on days like this. I've suffered from depression in the past (over very separate issues, looong story!) and I never want to walk that road again. So I do what I can to keep me from going there again. It could be why I'm a little whacky, lol!
Through suffering from that depression I realized I had so much good in my life and I wasn't going to let anyone or anything spoil it. One of my crazy dreams actually got me back on track. It made me see that wallowing wasn't helping me, I was only making myself feel worse. So I just sucked it up, put on a smile and went out there to get my life back. I put the past behind me, forgave some ppl who may/may not have deserved forgiveness. I can't allow bad feeling to take over my life. It worked a treat and I have never looked back. 
Anyway, preach over, lol! I'm off in a mo so you ladies have yourselves a wonderful weekend! xxxx 

Wow that was quick. It is a really good thing to see your consultant rather than keep going for IUI I guess he will be able to discuss some stats with you and then you can all make the decision what is best to do.
JFC you are a wonder but don't forget it is OK to feel sorry for yourself and take some time to be sef indulgent. We all do it!
If you are anything like me though having something to aim for helps me get over a BFN and I think that strong positive attitude is what will get you your BFP. It will not dare to not show up! Although IVF is a tough ride you have good odds of it delievering and it will be well worth it in the end.
I think I am going to start a JFC fan club! You rock my girl!!! 
Wow, well the nurse has called me back already! The consultant has reviewed my file and wants to see me & DH again so we can discuss where we go from here.
So my guess is that means he will suggest IVF. I think as the 3 IUI attempts have been textbook that he'll probably see further IUI attempts as just wasting time. Which is ok by me since I have that maternal family history of early menopause. So, having had the day to get used to my BFN and think things through, I'm happy to go with IVF as soon as the list allows for it. I had thought I would wait until March at least to start the treatment but I've decided to just go for it at the earliest opporunity.
So, I shall let you know when my appt will be! Thanks again for all your support!
xx
Thanks Kat & Jo.

LMAO @ the ppl of Crete not being ready for me & DH! Probably not, poor folks!
I'm going to get my neighbour to teach me some Greek before I go, that should embarrass the hell out of DH! It'll amuse me no end though! I love attempting to order something in another language I've not mastered! I'm a sucker for accents, bet I can get us a free drink at least by making the effort with a waiter who appreciates it! 
Right, I'm back to feeling positive. A BFN is nothing more than a minor blip and I'm not beat yet! 
Love to you all! You're all fantastic! xxxx
Hi JFC
I am so sorry hun I was secretly hoping for you too (or maybe not so secretly) {{{{{hugs}}}}}. You always amaze me with your positivity and will to look to the future and make the most of what you do have in your life.
Your clinic sound as though they are really good and want to do what is best for you. It is so important to have faith in your clinic as it will give you such confidence. Hopefully you will have a plan of action soon and you can have some months off the treatment rollercoaster and enjoy yourself.
I think a cuddle with that little pug will help no end and then a huumungous glass of wine and a big cuddle from DH.
You have had a lot of knocks the last few months with ongoing treatment and I think you deserve to let your hair down on holiday and enjoy every second of it. I do wonder if the people of Crete are ready for you and your DH though. Maybe we should send a warning in advance!
Take care hun and I am thinking of you. Roll on the weekend so you can have some you time with DH. Big {{{{hugs}}}}}
Jo x
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Welcome back JFC. Glad u had a lovely holiday. Im so jealous!!
November isnt all that far off chick. Is it IVF this time?
Min xxx