Don't let them get you down hun, they are no friends if they only take and aren't prepared to give anything back.  Just stay positive and think of your little bundles of joy that will soon arrive.  I can assure you that once you have your babies you'll be suprised at how many friends and family want to visit!  I am 3 weeks in with b/g twins and haven't been able to fit in half the visitors yet as it's been so constant yet in the 4 weeks before I gave birth the only person I saw was my dh and mil!!!

I am 30 weeks pregnant today and for the last 3 weeks everyone has been so helpful mum, brother, brothers girfriend and some friends. However some people who i have been there for loads during their hard times in their life have really let me dwn during this big change in my life. My so called best friend who i was there for wen she was pregnant and her daughters dad was tellin her literally to F off has since getting back with him acted like i dnt exist i even went to all her scans and was there at the birth of her child! her response wen i told her that i was annoyed with her was that "we all have lives now" cheeky like i didnt have a life wen she was going through stuff. There are a few others (ok not a few just 1) but to be honest not worth getting in to. aaaaahhhhh just want to scream at these ungreatful people. well i dnt speak to this so called friend anymore as i have had enough of being let dwn by people i care about. just one more ahhhhhhhhhh i will never do anything for her again!

Des 30 weeks