Glad to hear you had a good weekend.

Things will get better it just takes time, you now have to get used to being yourself again and thats a challange too but everyone here is nice and will listen. xx

Have had a lovely weekend.......my friend stayed the weekend and we went out Saturday night.....had a great time but felt soooo old,the girls seemed to mostly  be wearing just underwear and nothing else,lol!! Had a lazy day today as felt exhausted ,see ,told you I'm getting old.  

Have cheered up a bit now......Yes,I work part-time which,& although I moan about it,  does keep me busy(family have the boys while I'm working) . And I have been keeping busy ...the kids love the park so we're there most days(nice & cheap), and we've also just found out that our dog likes to play football (!!) which is great fun(not for the poor football tho,lol) . Its just me feeling sorry for myself tbh.

I've got hypnotherapy this afternoon which I'm starting to get a bit nervous about ...and I'm starting to wonder if I should be spending all that money ......but I am looking forward to it. Have decided that as its so expensive I'm only going to do 3 sessions at the most...keep your fingers crossed that it works!

And I'm going out saturday night so looking forward to that. Thanks for your comments!!

Bless you hunny, this is really getting to you lately isn't it.  I don't have the magic answer, you know what I've been going through too so I can tell you that it definately helps doing things, I've taken my daughter to the park a few times, taken my dog on extra long walks, arranged to go cinema with friend tomorrow and tidied the house lol. I don't know if you work but I've found that to be a great lifeline as a time to forget and have a laugh.x

Go and do something fun with your kids.  Get some special cuddles from them to help cheer you up.  Remember all the bad stuff that went on while you were together and how, now you're not, all that unhappiness has/will stop.  Your life is your own again.  You can watch what you want on tv (when the kids aren't hogging the tv of course), you can stretch out in bed, you can change sides in the bed if you want to, you get all the hugs whenever you want them (kids willingness permitting of course).

And you're safe in the knowledge that although he seems happy now, it will turn round and bite him in the bum soon enough.  It might not happen this week or this month, but it will happen as he's rushed into everything far too fast

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.....again.....went to bed feeling a bit fed-up ,now I've woken up feeling really miserable. Grr.....how do I snap outta this?