Hi girls, my nights are the same week in week out, lo goes to bed 7.30pm, then tidy up and do washing up and come on here for hour and then in bed, usually tucked up by 9pm as so bored...  Its hard if you dont have a sitter, my parents are very good but dont like to ask all the time, they had her last tuesday night and i did not know what to do, none of my mates are single so ended up having another early night, but it was nice for a change not to listen out for the baby... 

Hope your sister changes her mind, maybe spend more time there and just leave her with your lo for few mins and build it up gradually hun, things will get better xx

Hi girls, my nights are the same week in week out, lo goes to bed 7.30pm, then tidy up and do washing up and come on here for hour and then in bed, usually tucked up by 9pm as so bored...  Its hard if you dont have a sitter, my parents are very good but dont like to ask all the time, they had her last tuesday night and i did not know what to do, none of my mates are single so ended up having another early night, but it was nice for a change not to listen out for the baby... 

Hope your sister changes her mind, maybe spend more time there and just leave her with your lo for few mins and build it up gradually hun, things will get better xx

thanks girls...... i know it won't be forever but it feels like it.....i have mates round and stuff but somenights i just want to get out of the same 4 walls and meet different people and maybe just maybe have a flirt or two.....be me again instead of a mum 24/7,,,i love the kids to bits but just want a break....don't make it easy when the ex is ringing when out to see how layla is.....not that he is actually bothered about layla...just think he is rubbing in that he is out and i'm not!!!

Hiya sam,

i totally know where ur coming from chick........ive not been out for over 12months now!.....laila is always stck to my A$$.......troy is just troy........but id had enough like u last week ended up having a hugggggggge argument with my mum....then she said comewith me i wna show u sumit and i wnt with her like a child lol and we ended up wit the pub........god it felt so bloody great being Amy!!! and not mummy!!!!!!!!

i got so bloody drunk it was unbelieable!...but ill shurrup now if i lived closer if help ye out chick.......maybe go to ur sis house try and get layla asleep before u go out???? then maybe have a few hours out and then when u go back to ur sis for her if she wakes she will think u have been ther all along.........sorry if im not help hun

Amy xxxx

omg i was just gonna post to say how bored i was! lol. Sorry to hear u have no one to look after ur lo I have my parents but my dad hasnt been well so i dont like to ask at the moment so i know how u feel hun. Im fed up with the same old all the time. Oh look its nearly 10. my bedtime im like a grandma

i am so fed up of doing the same thing every night......i am desperate for a night out ! i tried to leave layla with my sis a few weeks ago and 30 mins later i got the call to come back as she wouldn't stop screaming....when i got back she was in a right state and that was just my sister...lol!  well as i don't have family around my sister was my only option but it has put her off! she said she doesn't want to watch her until she is much older and can talk so she know what she wants..... the last proper night out i had was 16 months ago now and i am so in need of a night to myself!