Louize is right hun but jus dont let him talk ur round when ur sittin calmly explainin (he might not be that sort of man, i dont no)
Good luck chick xxxxx

sit him down wen you are both alone and calm, explain how you feel and your decsion, then talk thru the details of how it is gonna work once you move out.  try to be really upfront, and keep your emotions in check (thats the hard bit!)  and be civil and adult about it, if you are he should be the same. xxx

 dont wantto read and run... but iv not been in that situ so dont have any advice hopefully someone else can help

hugs and luck

sorry thought it was best i post this here,last week i told my partner i atleast wanted a trial seperation he asked me to wait 2 weeks to see how i felt,nothing has changed i am so unhappy and just want out of here i have been looking at flats and im just waiting to see them,anyway my question is he has been really good this last week and there has been no arguments (to my suprise) how do i approach the subject about me leaving? all the places i am looking at are within 5 mins from here so i can make sure he still sees our dd whenever he wants. I just dont want to hurt him but things havent been good for so long