h hun... i reallt feel for you but before you rush in to anything take a step back and think about what you really want...

as fir money situation try www.entitledtoo.gov.uk that will give you all the monies you are entilted too... fill it in as a single mummy and just use advage rent cots from your area... goodluck love...

aw hun ((hugs)) try not to b upsetting urself to much (no this is easier z than done!!) u would b best speaking to citizens advice about benefits and that, they will b the best for giving u advice on ur situation. good luck x x

Hi where do I start, Sorry ladies long story!!!!!!!!  I just feel i need to talk x

I am 26 and have 2 boys 4 and 2 but am expecting another baby in feb 2009. Partner and i have always had petty row's but now it is getting to the point i just cant stand him.

Yes he does work hard but he never helps at home only when other people are there to observe so they think he's the doting partner and husband.

I feel its the last straw now as i have had a very rocky pregnancy ,plus lots of family illness including my 4 year old in and out of hospitals, But he still isnt helping and all he ever is moaning about is that i dont give him enough attention(eg SEX). Now for months he is telling me that i am lucky to have him and he will have to go elsewhere for someone to give him a bit of tlc. he is now saying this on a daily basis and to be honest i really dont care i dont even cry over it anymore.

I am just scared that how will i cope with money ect are there any benefits i can claim as i dont work anymore due to a bad back from a car accident , and how will i manage once baby no 3 is here.

If anyone can give me a bit of support and help i would be really grateful.

Thanks

steph