Hi all......I'm mum to 3 boys.....split up with dh in May & its been a very confusing time. Have finally come to the conclusion that I don't want dh back (I think..) and I'm mostly quite happy ...'til today, feeling very bored and lonely and I'm almost ashamed to admit it but I would like to meet someone new now....!!!!!!

Hi ya, i'm libby and i got a little boy who is three years old .Split with my ex more than 3 years ago straight after our son was born as he was agressive and contolling. Been on here a while now, welcome all the new gals x

Hi! I'm Laura and I have 2 DDs, Imogen is 3 in October, and Jodie is 7 months. I seperated from my husband 6 weeks ago now, so I'm also fairly new here! Sorry to hear what a horrible time you've had!!x

Hi, I'm Emma Mum to Holly 5 and Georgia 2, just introduced myself too.  Have popped in and looked on this site since Janury on and off and finally am rid of my husband of 8 years in a new home just me and my 2 girls which is such a relief.  Sounds like you have had a nightmare, sorry you had to go through that my husband also has no money and managed to find cash for prostitutes, not an easy one to deal with.  Welcome and no doubt will see you on here again soon x

Hi. I'm Nicola, Mum To Shannon 3 And Caitlyn 19 Months. I've Been Single On And Off Since April But Finally Ended Things A Fortnight Ago After 8 Years Together.

Sorry To Hear That Your Relationship Has Ended.

Hey there, i think i may be also about to join u cos me and my dp are really really on verge on seperating to, we have been arguin nonstop since before y little man was born 19months ago but wanted to try make it work but it clearly isnt.

Im sorry to hear ur rlatiosnhip has fallen apat, good luck to you and ur lo

Hiya all

Bit of background - My oh and I were together for 5 years, throughout this time he cheated on me with his exs, new women and prostitutes - I forgave him and forgave him. This year nothing changed, except he had a huge tax bill he was unable to pay - things at home began to get financially tighter and tighter but he still didn't stop seeing prostitutes £150 an hour! He never paid my lo any attention and I never trusted him to be alone with lo or to care with him after a few disturbing incidents.

Anyway lo is 14 months old, we've been without his dad for over a week now. I am just at the stage of contemplting what moves to make eg work/study/housing etc etc

So please welcome me ladies and any advice would be great!