Yes he brought him back on time but it turns out he had been down the beach with his girlfriend and didn't hear the phone so I did loose my temper and said that I should always be able to contact him when he has my baby,   he has never seen me in such a temper and he was shaking, looking back I must have been like a mad woman in the street screaming at him that he should be using this time to bond with his child not playing happy families,  I had 4 hours of wondering what was going on so was in a right state by the time he came home.

 It probably done us the world of good as things were said and he has agreed now that he shouldn't have introduced LO to his girlfriend without telling me he had met someone else and discussing it and he was very apologetic and he would always keep checking his phone in future.   

has he dropped him off? perhaps just forgot phone but id ask him in future to carry it as yur ds is so young

Don't worry, he's maybe just forgotten his phone. I know it's easier said than done, but if he needs it he'll either come back or go get another one xx

meant to say 4 hours not hour he due back at 1

My lo dad picked him upat 9 for his regular hour with him today, about 10 mins after he left I realised I’d forgotten to put his beaker in. I have been phoning him since and he’s not answered the phone to me once, my lo is only 9 months and me and his dad spilt before he was born all sorts of things are going through my mind now