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20/6/08 19:19
13/6/08 18:29
HELP!
how do i go about finding out about local antinatal classes and stuff and when should i start them form like how many weeks also...
is there any antinatal classes for like younger mums?
many thanks
20/5/08 13:26
Just bumping for your return.
10 weeks left for me whoo!
Hope he/shes not been a little monkey for ya ! Awwwww im so exited!
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11/5/08 18:14
Awww your baby will defently defently be here now!
Hope he/she is doing good, and i doubt he/she is a little stunner! You will have to get some pics up when you come back to bounty so we can all ava peak!
Hope your feeling okay and enjoying been a mummy!!
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7/5/08 21:43
ohh next time i speak to you u will have it!!!! aww im so chufffed your finally there! hope it worked and you aint going to have a c section, but i guess as long as he/she comes out then thats all that matters!! ohhhhhh im so exitedd lol.
well i thought he was joking didnt i!! we were laid in my bed all cuddled up cos he stayed over for the weekend and we had been like silent for a bit n he just said amy.. n i said what n he said will u marry me, no ring or ought like that but a real little shock it was! i looked at him and was waiting for him to start laughin an sayin only joking.. n i musta been staring at him for lik 20 minutes, then he said well.. an i was like
but no words would come out, so i just kissed him an said are u joking, an he said no im been serious and i said well if u aint joking yeh!! then we talked about it and av decideed its gna be between me and him for now until shes born an then if were stil tgether n all happy as we are once hes got used to her being around he will do it proper. but its really made my week even though i guess its not real cos wen we first got together he was like i want u to no that i dont do the falling in love n i dont want to get married cos thats not my thing so for him to be all like this is rather nice my ex is still been a t***!! hes only gone and booked to go away on the 8th of august! bearing in mind im due on the 1st.. i wish he would go away i really do lol. he just windes me up with things that i really dont care about.
anywaysssss hope things have gone well for youu and hope your little baby is all healthy and has all its bits.. im right exited for you cos ur like there and im 12 weeks off! your so lucky!
update me as soon as u can
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7/5/08 13:25
ok well i'm ritin this from my hospital bed!! not had spud yet
the stubborn thing!! being induced today. had one pessary already n jus waitin 2 see if it works. if not then will have another at 6. if that dont work then will stay in overnight n a doc will look at a c section...eeeep!!! fingers crossed it dont come to that!!it's so wierd knowin that next time i go home i will have my baby with me. its jus so surreal!
ooo a proposal!! wat did you say?? did he get a ring n everythin? i want all the details...where did he do it? wat did he say? did he get down on one knee? i am sooo nosey!!!
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5/5/08 22:34
Dying to hear from you!
Hope he/she has arrived now.. If so give he/she a big cuddle from meee!!
I got proposed too today
Bit soon like but made me smile.xxxxxxxxxxxxx
2/5/08 11:08
Was just coming on to see if you had popped out yet lol. Oh no that must be horrid, i hope im not overdue.. Aww the mil needs to be locked up for a few days just so she cant bother you, im sure she wnt be allowed in the hspital if u say u dnt want her there. interfearing c0w.. thank god ive nt got one of those anymore lol.
well that sounds like it might av been a tiny little something of a show, aww im right exiteed now.. your like dueee!!!
well his ex decided she wanted to keep the baby.. although stil no acutal prove of her being pregnant.. then she text him yesterday sayin. hi just to let you no ive ada miscarige.. so it seems abit like she made the whole thing up cos theres no upset or ought. and well tbh i though she would end up sayin something like that.
yeh gettin big huge kicks
and nice little elbows n bits sticking out.. rahter strange lol. no ive stil not got anything really.. need the cot, pram, sheets for bedding, towels things like that.. however i do have her a wadrobe full of clothes which range from newborn to 9-12 mths... so im really thinking ahead lol. you dont really need to sort that out though until its ready to be in its own room anyways so thats all okay i could be writing this and you could be in labour.. or sat at home with a gorgous little baby. awww im so exitedddd!! your gonna no what it isss like now or soonn.
keep me posted
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30/4/08 12:36
ok so i'm officially over due now
gettin bit fed up n havin people text me EVERY day jus to see if baby's popped out yet just doesnt help!! and the MIL keeps tryin to come round n sit with me just so she can be there when it all happens. she really not gettin the hints that i dont want her there!! so scared she'll try n get in delivery ward!! eeeep!! may have to warn the mw's hehewas having really strong contractions last night for bout 2/3 hours n thought it was IT but went to bed n it all stopped n nothing this mornin
gutted. had a false start on saturday too but that didn't last long either. having a sweep on sunday if nothing's happened by then...then gona be induced by the followin wed or thurs if still nothing.....soo exciting!!!so how did it go with the boyf n his ex? is she keeping her baby? hope everything is still going ok between you two cause it would be a shame if it messed that up. hope everything's going ok with you lil girl too. you gettin big kicks now? bet you got all her stuff now with you being so organised. i got some furniture for baby's room like a week n half ago n it's still jus dumped in there!! you can barely open the door. i can't even get in the room now cause my belly wont squeeze past the door n some drawers we jus pushed in there!!! hehe really should sort that out now
hehehexxx aimi + stubborn bump 40+3 xxx
24/4/08 10:43
Yep its defently his, hes told her he dnt want her to have it cos hes got enough kids as it is and he cant afford another one.. as wel as he just dont want it! Think there meeting up tomorrow to have a chat about whats going to happen, hes promised me he int gonna be leaving me to be with her cos hes too happy with me
an if she does keep the baby then he dnt want ought to do with it cos its not fair (they were only together a week or so). Shes been saying things about me.. calling me a sl*g for being pregnant at 17, and shes now in the same situation shes well eating her own words. Grr why cant my life just be simple. I really could write a book! Ohh so closee!! Im so exited for you! You really could have it any day now and be a little family awwww
In 2 weeks your defently going to no wether its a he or a she aswel! finally lol! Well i shall say good luck now incase it all goes down before i get back on.. Ohhh im so exitedd!! xxxxxxxxx
23/4/08 14:05
ooooeck!!! is it deffo his or is she jus sayin it to cause trouble you think? what's he said about it all? is he gona support her n the baby or stay with you n jus support the child? i'm sure if he is as decent a lad as you make out he will stay by you n still support his child. when is she due to have it? and you aint a b*** for wanting to be happy with a nice guy. they don't come around that often n you just wana protect what you got n there aint nothing wrong with feeling like that.
just come back from mw n she's got me all giddy talkin bout baby arrivin! bump is due on sunday n will see her on wednesday if i've not delivered n if not delivered by the sunday after will have a sweep n if still nothing then will looking to induce by the wednesday after. so baby will deffo be here in 2 weeks no matter what!! how scary is that!!
but hopefully we will have lo out waaay before then! had few contractions yesterday so think it's all gettin ready. baby is still jus 3/5ths engaged but they can stay like that till labour. just want him or her out now xxxxxxxxxxxx
22/4/08 23:01
Hiya.. well just when things look up for me.. His ex girlfriend anonced she is carrying his 3rd child this week! & to make it even better shes one of my mates!
i feel like a right cow but i dont want her to have it.. )* im a bi**h i no but grrr just when im happy something has to come along and rewin it! Awwww im so jelousss of youuuu.. ur going to be having her/he soon
how amazing is that! Glad everything went ok at the monitoring thing Im so exited everytime i get a reply from you i get all giddy lol. im such a geek! Aww i wish i ada room for her to put furniture in, an yehhh kinda last minute that isnt it! But if i remember rightly you arnt a very organised person lol. Ohhhhh babyyyyyys coming soooooooon
i cant imagine what it must feel like! xxxxxxxxx
22/4/08 14:42
hey hun!!
your new man sounds like he's treatin you great! i'm so happy for you! sounds like you've found a good 'un there. i've only ever been out for a meal a few times with my boyf n he's usualy drunk! he's not exactly the most romantic guy in the world but we do have a laugh. he's just more of a take away kind of guy. bless!
had a few twinges in past week. it's getting soo excitin. had few pressure type pains low down n v strong BHs. when i get in bed it gets worse so i think it could be soon...well i hope so anyway! i am so fed up of waiting!
the monitoring went ok. spud was v lazy at first n mw kept looking at the thing dead concerned like. she suggested a cold drink to make spud wiggle but i had to drink agglons of water for it to work! thought i was gona pee myself!! but she seemed happy with it in the end so tis ok.
got some new furniture for the baby's room too. a wardrobe n drawers n toy box n cot all matching! need to sort it all out now as we jus sorta dumped it in the room at the weekend! but it's all finally coming together. nothing like leaving it to last minute of anything!
off to buy a memory card for my mum's camera in a mo so i can use it to take spud's first pictures! probs end up filling it up before i even leave hospital! pretty much all packed now jus need to put some drinks n snacks in n my bags ready to go! gettin bit nervous!!
hope all is well with you n ya wee girl xxxxxxxxxx
19/4/08 02:14
Hiyaa!!
Things are going good thanks
Ohh thats weird. Ohh i hope everythings okay!! Let me no how u get on as soon as you can.. ohhh its all real for you now! health visitors and things, im so exited for you! i cant wait for your baby to come now.. its taking too long. Grr im so jelous lol. ive decided im using my pink sports bag for my hopsital bag, going to go themed. All In pink lol.
Ive not been to the pics in ages! I miss most of the film with gettin up 20 times to go to the loo. Hmm popcorn
Ohh no thats well late! but thats nice of him to av been thinking about you and very thoughtful with the food.. not sure its what every woman wants at 4 in the morning, but its the thought that counts lol.
I no what you mean! cos im only at sixth form and dont ava job i dont have a thing to do an i get so bored
.. i find sleeping is good lol. Ohh yeh or shopping!!Yepp everythings good with me, the boyfriend took me out for a meal tnight was right cute, never been taken out before for a meal.. The exes taking me out included at least 2 of his mates tagging along. then we went to the pub after.. and his ex was in lol and well shes not quite over him yet and she made an absolute tit of herself.. made my night lol i couldnt stop laughing. Then she anounced she was pregnant to him.. Although he only slept with her once n he dint manage to do the deed.. shes a total loon! Oh i do pick them dont i!
Had the mw yesterday.. was crap! was in there all of 5 minutes.. it right windes me up when they have the trainee mw working on ya cos the apt goes so much quicker cos theres 2 of them doing it.. got to hear her heart though which made me very happy.. my little sister came with me cos shes been dyin t hear it and she said she dint even realise wat she was listenin to ..
Let me no how you and bub are wen ever u get a minute
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16/4/08 12:57
hiyaaaaa!!
managed to steal some time on a comp! hows things going? been to see mw today n i'm going into hossie tonight to be montitored as lo aint moving round as much as before n mw found some portein in my urine. had to rush to docs on monday too cause had this wierd episode thing where all the right side of my body jus sorta failed. very scary!!! baby's fine tho n doc said was prob some sort of mild migrane caused by a rise in my bp. wierd! meeting health visitor for 1st time in bout half an hour too so making sure the flat is spotless! VERY busy week!! i'm bloody nakered! but least get to make sure bump is doin ok later. my mw told me to make sure my hossie bag was ready tho just in case...eeeep!!!
yeah that film was ok. i liked it but not as good as it looks on tv. my boyf hated it tho! owell i got to proper pig out on popcorn! hte boyf went to that dinner thing and didn't get in till 4!!! but bless him he did ring me like almost every hour n didn't get too drunk and even brought me a burger hom ecause i'd said i'd wanted one for lunch that day! so sweet!! dunno if he honestly expected me to eat a huuge burger at 4 in morning when i was in bed but it's th ethought that counts!!
it's killin me not workin cause dunno what do with myself all day! the flats pretty darn clean tho! may have to venture out to the shops to make myself feel better
hehe spending money usually does the trick!!hope everything is all good with you xxxxxxxxx
13/4/08 00:12
Yeh really think things would be better if he just vanished! He should go to were ever hes going with the girlfriend n then just stay there lol. No hes not going on the birth certificate, he gets more rights towards her if hes on there.. so thats a defeate no! I think my mum is going to be at the birth wel if she can stand to be there.. if not it will be either my dad :S or lee.
the ex is not going to be allowed any were near until i myself tell him to come lol.Ah thats good! I could do with a few nights like that cos i just dnt av the strength to get up atm.. its like i drag myself outa bed thn drag myself around n thn flop bk into bed at 5.
Aww thats nice. will be like the last time in a bit i guess now. I was ment to go to the pics tnight... but got to the new fellas house n thought hmmm bit comfier here lol.. Was it good that.. i want sure about going to see it??
Ohh thats nice ofhis boss lol. Sounds like a decent night too!
He is much nicer thn the ex.. how i feel like now after like a week feels so much better thn wat i remember the first week with the ex. If that makes sence lol. No ive nt met his kids yet.. One is in hospital cos hes not too well and the other he int allowed to see cos the mum of him is abit of a cow lol. Both his boys are propa cute thought! Right little stunners!
Finally lol!! You defently need to be stopping work, get your feet up
Okayyy well i hope everythng goes good with the labour etc if i dont speak to you before.. Ohhh its so soon now! i cant wait
Im so exited for you. i cant belive ive been talking to you for so long, and now its here for you!! well almostxxxxxxxxxx
11/4/08 13:19
well it sounds like you and you little girl are both waaay better off without him to be honest! at end of day if he's not in country when she's born it's only him who's missing out. what type of proper dad wants to miss out on the first few days of his kids life??? you planning on putting him on birth certificate? or do you have to, to be able to get child support off him? do you know who you want with you at the birth?
i've had two of the best nights sleep i've had in months!! it's been great not waking up feelin like crap! actually had energy to do things. going to pix tonight with the boyf. goign to see that son of rambow cause it looks rate funny! he's off out on saturday night to this sportsman's dinner thing. it's a proper night out, 3 course dinner, comedian, guest speaker n all paid for by his bosses. kinda like a staff do thing. so i've told him to try not to get wasted....
doubt that'l happen but it means he's taking me out tonight instead so i'm not complaining! just hope nothing happens while he's out!!awww i'm glad your happy with your new fella. he sounds much nice than your ex! have you met his kid yet?
my mum n her boyf have decided that it's bout time i stopped working (only got 2 weeks left!!) so wont be on here as much till i get tinternet at home. but trying to get that sorted today so shouldn't be long as we already have the line in. but will still keep in touch if i can't get on here as much.
hope everything carries on going as well for you cause you've been through enough aggro with this ex of yours!! will come on as often as i can untill i get web at home xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
9/4/08 20:34
I no it can take upto 6mths to get csa sorted and to be honest. i wont be able to afford her if that happens with me not working atm its not like jobs just apear over night. No hes not paying a penny towards her until he has to, so ive said well u best be getin urself a pram and car seat cos shes not going to be going in ur car in my car seat! He gets me so wounde up lol. Hes planning to go away on the 25th of july with his new gf an im propa mad cos im due the 1st! its just not fair at all.
Slighty is abit pointless lol! Guess its okay though having it towards the end, not much of a worry for ya. Ohh im so exited for youu! He/She could come any day now really.
Aww that cant av been nice
i hate hearburn its propa just a nasty thing ! im sure he wont have minded, i bet he cant wait now! He seems really lovley towards asking how ur feeling bless him lol.So they go away and your left to look after it! thats not too good.. There off sunning themselfs and your about to pop and ur doing that.. i wud be after a mega bonus lol. Least ill get to talk to u more offten lol.
Me and the baby are really good
ive had such a fab week this week.. I now go out with this new lad.. nt sure if i told u lol. But hes so cute! He pays more attention to her than her own dad does!Yep it has been.. the high blood pressure dnt seem to be as high anymore.. Not now im all happy anyway, got mw next week.. cant wait to hear her heart again
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9/4/08 11:39
what a b***!! it can take a while for csa to catch up with em too can't it. i don't understand why men think that they don't need to put any money towards their child if it's not actually out of the womb!! is he just expecting you to go out n buy everythin after she arrives??? what a tool!! i really hope his conscious (sp) gets the better of him n he does give you some finanacial help before she is here.
just got a letter from docs saying my last blood test showed i was 'slightly anemic'. what the floof's that mena mean??? 'slightly'??? not too descriptive is it! gota go get some tablets later. great! but it does kinda explain why i've had absolutly no energy recently! got midwife next week so wil have to ask her all bout it.
was up n down soo much last night. boyf went out to play his darts n almost as soon as he walked out the door i started gettin bh n pressure pains down below.....not cool!! haha when got to bed was sooo tireed n uncomfy then was up every hour with heartburn. not nice at all. kept wakin boyf up too
felt bit guilty bout that but he was lovely n rang me this mornin when he's gone to work to see if i was feeling any better 
today's mena be my day off n i've had to come in cause i work for my mum's boyf n they gone away so i need to come in every day this week to keep on top of it for em....not what i need right now. may stop workin soon n become a lazy bum
sounds like a plan!hows you n your lo? hope your pregnancy is trouble free so far xxxxxxxxx
8/4/08 18:31
I am too
Yeh he keeps talking to me, hes refusing to pay money until i take him to csa.. i can only think of one word to descibe him atm and thats .. Kn0bhead lol.. grr he just windes me up. He asks how the baby is everytime i come online.. i think hes finally realised that i am the mother of his child and he cant just egnore me.. but with no money been put twards her i aint best pleased!Aww glad she did! Haha its right silly wats going on dwn there, yad think they wud have it all sorted by now with it been like one of the major airports!
Lol my mate does that all the time too. She will text me sayin omg amy ur having a baby.. like a real one.. an im like noo i thought i was just gettin fat lol I no! 9 mths int really that long and somone can change so much.. ive grown up alot!
Aww bless him.. good job hes not done wat mine did an thought ohhh nooo get out get out !! Ha i dnt think boys ever grow up tbh.. there all kids at heart!
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Hiya, i decided against the classes, but ask your midwife she should tell you
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