hey huni i know exactly what u are going through this happened with my partners parents. i actually had been living with them for like 8 months and when we told them they said if i didnt have an abortion that id have to leave! i decided to keep my baby boy and am now 36+5 and i have just found a suitable 2 bedroom flat for me and my baby. im due on the 30th of june and they said they wanted me out before baby is born, but they have calmed down and now im able to stay until i move into my flat which means when i have the baby he will be at there house for like 2 weeks. the best thing to do huni is 2 keep ur head up and just think of what is best for u and the baby. u want the baby and that is all that matters trust me they will come around it may take a while but they will. cos that what has  hapened with my partners parents his mum has gone out and brought so much stuff for little man i cant bleive it she has also said that she is happy im pregnant and is excited, my partners dad is still on the off side but who cares we are happy and that all that matters. take care and email me if u want any advice or wanna chat xXx

Chin up hun, hope it all sorts itself out for you and you and your DP can be together! I kinda had the same probs with my bf family but as my bf stayed with me it was there loss, they now think Kian is the best thing ever although i still hate them for wanting me to abort him - way i see it its not fair on Kian not having all his grandparents (so have to deal with them )  Hope all works out hun, member dont get to stressed when preg Hugs xoxox

omg i cant believe they reacted like its not like ur kids plus really its got bugger all 2 do with them!!! i was 18 getting preg on my 1st and yea my dad wasnt overly happy cause im his little girl but he was fine once it sunk in, my nan cryed and didnt speak 2 me for 3months lol she said i had ruined my life i had my dd at just turned 19 and was preg on my 2nd at 20 and had him at 21 im now 23 and 24wks with our 3rd

i was 15 when i got pg with my son when my parents found out they were really annoyed and said some horrible things but in time they came around and now they wouldnt be without their grandson.iv just found out that im expecting twins im 22 now.they are over the moon.

They were being a bit selfish by suggesting that you av an abortion.maybe they are just in shock like you said.try not to worry about this too much its not goo for the baby.hope everything works out for you.

nikki

how old are you nikki

I think they are just in shock at the moment, my partners parents were just the same (well, he isn't my partner anymore but thats another story heh) They kept telling me to have an abortion which i clearly didn't do an they pretty much said i was ruining their sons life by not doing so, and of course its all my fault totally forgetting it takes two to tango as my mum would say lol.

But my parents were really supportive, i feel very lucky to be honest, but anyay, when they realised the 'problem' was not going to just go away and that they had a grandson on the way they have become much better with it, his mum phones me up to see how i'm doing an stuff an really wants to keep involved when he's born, i live over 100 miles from them so it wont be easy but we'll see how it goes.

I think you just need to give them some time an space, let your partner talk to them about it more, at the end of the day it is their grandchild and i find it hard to belive that once it is born that they wont love it as much as you and your partner will.

Good luck anyway, hope they come around for you

Steph (30 weeks)