ty for ur replys i think i will try both to be honest she went to kick her teacher today shes only been there 3days but she had no magazine today as i told her she wasnt having one till she went into school  nice gonna give it a go and let you know

Take away whats important to her,at her age she will have a favourite toy dvd etc .If she is really in to one then room it! Close door for 4 mins [her age] then go in and try to calm her down

It depends how early you catch the tantrum on what works best ,what is important is that she is punished in some way cause she will understand more at her age and will realise eventually you will not tolerate it,you feel like a big meanie sometimes but it has to be done!

If i feel my dd is starting i use the "im gonna count to 5" threat and sometimes that ,alone works but you have to follow through

Hope this helps!

When i first moved in with my partner. my Daughter was like that, he kinda took over since he is good with kids. If she plays up, he gets sent to bed. If she is naughty she gets sent to bed. Even if its only for 5-10 mins. She apologises and tries her best to avoid going to bed..(except bed-time when she asks) And very rarely has to go to bed. Just a suggestion since it has worked with my Lo....

my daughter started schoo; on wednesday but still has tantruns and is naughty i dont tell her she is naughty just that her behavior is not good what can i do to get her to do as she is told ive tried naughty mat and reward chart but neither worked what else is there