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16/10/08 09:21
16/10/08 08:49
Morning all,
no still no results from the nuchal - they said they should be received by friday....so any day now....nerveracking.
At least the school are finally taking it seriously Shelley. Did u meet this other mum - or did they have u both in separately? Its really bad that this boy, has such poor behaviour at such a young age.....great news about alex being moved up a class!!
how are u both theresa & lynds?
hope alls well. Well busy day, so chat later girls
xx
15/10/08 20:29
Hi girls,
Sarah sorry you're under so much pressure at work, it can't be nice for you. Have you heard anything about the blood results from your nuchal scan yet?
We went to see the Headmaster, it went well we think, they had the other boy's Mum in and we were told she has been called in many times over incidents with other children, to the point where she is there more than the staff! Although it won't be nice for her, her son is not on the receiving end of it and that is worse. Her DH doesn't care, he leaves it to her to deal with. Anyway they are closely supervising the other boy and not allowing him out at playtimes and he spends lunchtime with the Headmaster. They are working hard to improve his behaviour but admit he is struggling with school in general. They said they had seen worse children that they have turned completely around.
On the plus side, Alex and another girl are doing so well at school that they have been asked to move to a higher class for some activities, so that's lifted our spirits somewhat.
15/10/08 18:58
Hiya all, nice to see on here Theresa. Had a look at all the pics on facebook, & had quite afew tears myself....must have been a v emotional day. How is Ash dealing with it all? men have got a habit of burying their heads in the sand.....The funeral sounds lovely. Well done, the 'worst' is over, you've got thru the 1st week....When u due to go back to work?
Can't believe wots happening at school shelley!! wot a little brat. why the hell dont they get the brats parents up at the school? surely they need to be aware of wots going on so they can discipline him at home too?.....bet you'd love to give them a peice of your mind yourself!! Poor alex. How's he feel about it all, hopefully its not putting him off going to school?
Works still crap, am v behind target.....but blimen customer's dont want to sign contracts at the mo - theres a credit crunch on ffs !! but still giving us loads of pressure at work.....I haven't got any deals due to close, so starting to panic.
my ov pains used to be pretty painful lynds - almost to the point id want to take a painkiller, im sure its just that. Hopefully its a super strong egg this month !! lol hopefully you'll both feel better, at least you've already got the bedding in. Quite tough when its that fertile time, & one of you's ill or something.
in the middle of cooking dinner, so catch up later girls xxxx
15/10/08 14:59
Awwww Theresa, Morgan's funeral sounds beautiful. You are very brave going through all this again hun. Never mind you could cry for me, I always have tears in my eyes thinking of what you've been through, my problems are nothing hun and I really feel bad for bringing them up! Stay strong Theresa. Do you have an appt for the Consultants in London yet? I pray they will help you babe xxxxxxxxxxxx
Lynds sorry to hear you're in pain and Danny too, let's hope it's a good pain for you.
No we haven't had to pay for the repairs to Alex's glasses so far thankfully but if ever we do get charged then we certainly won't be the ones paying for something that has happened in school!
All well this morning when I saw MW. I'm measuring fine and BP fine, had bloods taken for iron levels etc.
Sarah how are you, still stressed at work?
Catch up later girls, will let you know how we get on!!!!!
15/10/08 13:50
hey all; x
thanks for your kind words and the lovely flowers again xxx all went as well as it could on monday. thanks x sarah i am pleased i was able to lay morgan to rest very quickly with ashleigh i had to wait 5 weeks what with the post mortom and all that i couldnt do all that again, no way... no need for it i know i dont have a chromsone problem and the babies are normal so no need for it, had a lovely limo picked us up and me and ash sat in the back with little morgan holding either side of the coffin we carried her out, in fact i think i took her and just eld the box tight was very hard but we did it x some pics of the flowers and that on face book.
shelley i could cry listening what you are going through , oh honey i would go f***ing mad, that school god they need to do something! thats not fair, do you have to pay for all these repairs?? its not on babe, what does the school say to you when you ask them what they are going to do?
lynds relax babe x glad danny had put out all crossed that you will have some good news for us very soon xxx
love always girls x take care xxx
15/10/08 12:07
hi girls
we did the bd'in for 2 days but hubby was in pain last night in his stomach and i've got constant pain in my left ovary as we speak its a dull ache so booked to see the doctor on friday as its so uncomfortable. i really hope we've caught it this month and this dull pain is something explainable. my friend contacted me today to tell me she's 10 weeks pg i'm so happy for her
oh shelley this boys parents need to be brought in the school can't keep burying their head in the sand its not fair on the other children its their welfare as much as this little trouble causers and in case of you being stressed in pg its not helping you.
sarah hope your ok honey xxxxx
job is still shaky so not been in the mood to bd anyway right now. just feel fed up and gonna ask one of the clomid club girls about the pain. xxxx
14/10/08 20:52
hi girls, yes we miss you theresa, hope you're ok?
sarah, awww no sorry to hear your job is stressing you out, that's really hard on you, can't be good for you blood pressure hun.
well the boy at school seems to think it's funny to s*** alex's glasses off his face and stand on them/throw them around/put them in the loo etc etc. this has been going on for 6 weeks now and there hasn't been a week when we haven;' had to go and see the teacher! the boy's parents don;t get called in though and this p***es me off a lot. he obviously has behavioural problems as he naughty with other kids as well but that doesn't make us feel any better and the school just make excuses but like dh said to the teacher it has to stop. i'm almost 29 weeks pg and can't be dealing with this. we are constantly at the opticans getting alex's glasses fixed and they can't understand why the boy hasn't been removed from school yet!
lynds, fingers crossed all your dh hard work has paid off for you this time. can you only stay on the clomid for 3 months then? sorry a bit confused by it.
no def no nookie going on here! got a hell of a lot to catch up on next year but then we'll be too tired to care!!!
14/10/08 20:29
hi girls
missing theresa on here aren't we girls lets agree on that.
cd13 or whatever. been bd'in since sunday and upto tonight then hubby gets a rest poor boy he's not worked this hard in years!!! lmao pity i don't get it this often EVER lol
this is the 2nd month of clomid so only another month to go next month is our last month in november!! i'm just so hoping this month does work i couldn't bear if after 3 months it didn't work i suppose i'm just nervous.
shelley can't believe that little creep is still getting away with the crap he's pulling and that they actually haven't brought his parents to rule over this.
sarah such a stressful job can't be good for you honey its not good. i don't like stress so i go for the easiest jobs never went to university and stayed no more than a year at college as i wanted money not education. i can live on 15k a year no problem between us both we barely bring in 45k and we manage to survive don't know about when a baby comes along.
ok gonna sign off now as watching Some Kind of Wonderful on movie channel and i've never watched it all the way through before
14/10/08 18:27
Thought u may have popped back on here by now theresa, hope your ok, thinking of u. Can understand you're need to stay away thou. xxxxxxxxxx
Oh poor u Shelley, that blimen' little brat at schook!! Wots he been doing to alex now? & wot does alex think of it all? Id be fuming too, can't believe they haven't told this brats parents.....i can't understand why. Yep u certainly dont need this stress!! Try not to worry, easier said that done. Im sure as our kids go thru we're gonna have loads of issues to deal with as time goes on....Let us know how u get on at the mw tomorrow.
u go girl Lynds!! Is hubby co operating alright this time then, or is it still taking abit of nagging? & whyd' u say that this is your 'last month' ?? Lots of
that this'll be your month hunim ok, but works crap, just constantly stressed out by it all, its really presurised at the mo cos im behind target.....not fun. want an easier job!! but thing is u get used to the money (& need it!!). im working long hours too, with no spare time for the gym or anything!
Well girlies, have a 'nice' eve lynds, i know wot u 2 will be up to LOL none of that going on for the rest of us.
love XXXXXXXXx
14/10/08 16:04
Hi girls,
Hope you're ok Theresa and coping ok. Thinking of you hun xxxxxxxx
Lynds yay go girl with all the bding, keep your dh busy with it! How are you feeling today?
Sarah how's things with you?
All ok with me and bubs but still having major problems with Alex at school. The other boy is still targeting him so we have to see the Headmaster tomorrow. I'm so angry as they keep making excuses for the boy and not telling his parents what he's been doing. Dh went off one one when he picked Alex up this afternoon. I'm at work so I wasn't there. Grrrrr really don't need my BP to be up tomorrow when I see MW.
13/10/08 17:56
hi girls
theresa i'm not good with words but i hope today went well and you laid your little angel Morgan to rest in the most loving way you know and that your garden is organised and ready to add her to Ashleigh. I'm so sorry you've had to do this twice this year xxxxx
cd12 for me today had a few sharp pains on my left side last night and today but i'm not sure if its ov. danny and me bd'd last night and i've asked for tonight and tomorrow too as want to make sure that if this is surge time that we've got it thoroughly. i so want my bfp this month as i know next month is our last one xxxxx
sorry to hear your having trouble walking shelley and sarah hope you pick the right bulbs and plant them soon before winter sets in xxxxxx
thanks everyone for visiting us on here feel free to join us at any time we love company here xxxx
13/10/08 16:06
Hi girls
Been thinking of you today Theresa and wondering how you've coped? Hope the funeral went as well as you hoped.
BIG ((((((((((HUGS)))))))))) to you hun xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
13/10/08 14:10
Hi all,
Just popping on very quickly to give Theresa lots of (((((((((hugs)))))))) &
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxThinking of u today hun. x
12/10/08 20:51
Theresa I will be thinking of you tomorrow, so sorry you have to go through a funeral again though. Don'treally know what to say, I can feel my eyes filling up for you. You look after yourself and grieve in whatever way helps you through this difficult time. Lots of love and hugs to you and millions of floaty kisses to your 2 little angels xxxxxxx
Lynds, so much good luck for your bfp, fingers crossed for you. I usually get 2 weeks off over Xmas, well mostly I do, but at times I've gone in for a couple of hours to keep on top of things.
Sarah, have fun planting those bulbs. Does Joshua help you? Or does your dp do it.
All ok here pg wise, feeling a bit uncomfy now and finding it hard to do much especially walking.
12/10/08 19:22
Theresa you're in my thoughts and prayers tomorrow. Don't stress about how you're going to feel or cope, just let the feelings flow. You are human after all. No-one will judge you. It's such a difficult thing to have been through and though you may not feel it now, by the words you write I can tell you are a very strong woman.
God bless your little angel and your family
12/10/08 17:36
Hiya girls, gorg weather here today !!
Well done Theresa, u seem to be doing really well. Yep id be buring my head in the sand too - u just do wotever helps u to cope. How's Ash doing? u 2 getting on ok? its very natural for couples to take it out on each other.....does he show his feelings much over it all? I know my dp never used to, really used to p*** me off, cos i used to feel as though i was going thru it on my own. (& actually i was). Ive just about had enough of him at the moment actually - he's driving me mad
.Will be thinking of u tomorrow theresa hun, will it be a group thing, like last time? I wonder if it'll be alittle 'easier' for u having the funeral quite quickly, as your getting 'closure' quicker, as apposed to having to wait, like u did for Ashleigh........Either way, still a blimen' awful thing for u, to have to go thru, again. Still can't believe it, as im sure u can't.
Wot dates your app? Another 6 weeks or so? That'll fly by, then you'll get some answers.
Been to the garden centre today bought a load of bulbs to plant, & had a look at a load of beds too. But im so blimen' indecisive will take me ages to decide wot bed it want! So looks as thou ill be without 1 for some time, luckily its still quite comfortable on the floor.
Well got everything crossed for u this month lynds.
Love to u all
Sarah xxx
12/10/08 14:38
hi girls
theresa honey your holding up really well but i know what you mean about burying your head in the sand you'll break at some point and grieve fully but for now you are staying strong. good luck for tomorrow sweetie you know we'll all be thinking about you xxxx
shelley lucky you finishing in november i'm so envious you have xmas off work xxxx can't believe how quickly this year has gone xxxx
sarah hope you've got your bed all sorted out and are no longer sleeping on a mattress on the floor xxxx
its almost ov time for me i think just need to keep doing the opk's and checking woohoo!!! fingers crossed for this month xxxxx
12/10/08 14:24
Hey x
aw Shelley thanks although i dont think i cope, i just bury my head in the sand really i mean, to me i was never really pregnant,,, crazy way of looking at it but well i dunno dont get me wrong i shall grieve for Morgan also but hiding it at mo is for me, will prob hit home tomorrow,,, xx
Sarah hope your having a good weekend and getting your bed sorted x
Lynds xxx love alwasy catch up soon i prob wont be on tomorrow so speak soon xx
11/10/08 20:20
Hi girls
Theresa awww you're sounding much better hun, (((((((HUGS))))))) to you, you're such a star coping so well. You're in the wrong job btw, you should be a professional Counsillor. I will be thinking of you on Monday. Glad you dont have to go through a PM again though. Just give yourself time to heal babe.
Sarah, yep you have a good rest while your dp is out, good on you for making him do some housework though ha ha ha! Wil your results from your bloods come through the post or do they ring you? Hope you get a bed sorted, don;t envy you on the floor!
Lynds how are you feeling? Hope you're not doing too much housework over the weekend?
All ok here, see my MW on Wednesday for bloods done and check up. Not got long to work now, finish on 27th November - yay!
Take care all xxxxxxxx
Hi Sarah,
No the other Mum was in separate to us. They live 3 doors away so we can't avoid them completely!!! She hasn't spoken to me this week, I don't think she dare!
Well no news is good news with your results, shouldn't be too long now til your hear back.
Will catch up later girls, hope you're all ok? Off to work xx