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27/11/08 15:58
27/11/08 15:38
hi ladies
sorry not been on much been reading.
well its cd26 for me today. due on tomorrow and praying the witch stays away. got really sore boobs and my brain is all fuddled i can't seem to think or talk straight.
theresa glad af showed up sorry your in pain xxxx enjoy the nvq honey were dead over here!!!!
sarah hope your mummy is feeling better and she's doing ok with her healing xxxxx
shelley enjoy the chill out time before baby shows up i say she'll be here by 15th december :-)

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27/11/08 10:46
Morning all,
Whats your NVQ in theresa? Is it interesting? Good idea, gives you something else to focus on....
Ive got serious 'pregnancy brain' at the moment, well i have had all the way through. really find it hard to concentrate etc, & can't remember anything!! Im supposed to be preparing for an hours presentation this afternoon to my big boss & as usual my brain feels all fuzzy.....eak. its a struggle.
ohhh how exciting shelley, could be any time now.....can't believe how quickly its gone too. got your birth plan worked out, etc?
well talk later girls xx
27/11/08 10:33
Hey all x
Sorry not been on for few days been so busy with training and just started doing an nvq at work arghhhhh, all okay cd2 for me today so im having my first af bang on time yey yey! glad thingas seem to be getting back to normal but kinda painful arghhh!
Shelley eak! eak eak, you reckon she is coming soon hun? i thinkshe will be here second week in december? *0 thats my guess!
Sarah honey hhow is your mum now babe? hope she is on the mend and you are not rushing about too much! or i will have to come have words with you! xx
Lynds
for tomorrow have yo managed to hold off testing early?Love always T x
26/11/08 20:14
Hi girls,
Wow Lynds that time again already, really hope your af does not show up at all
. Be kind af witch and annoy someone else this month! We really want Lynds to get her bfp now.Sarah, Alex was 5 days late but that probably won't mean anything, I was a 2nd baby and came 8 days early! Today I have had lower back aches and period type pains so think my cervix is starting to soften in preparation. Still suffering with heartburn and frequent nighttime toilet trips! I'm 35 weeks tomorrow so could happen any day from now! Eeeeeeeeek!
How is your Mum doing, is she getting looked after in hospital?
Theresa hope you're ok, not heard from you in a couple of days now.
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26/11/08 19:14
Hiya all,
im shattered, as usual, planning a night infront of the tv.
Wow each month seems to fly by, Lynds, can't believe you'll be testing again on fri!! im sure it doesn't go quite so quickly for u though. fingers crossed.
Listen to u, miss domesticated, shelley. your certainly nesting, now!! When did alex arrive, was he early / late? just wondering if she'll keep u waiting or be early..,.
U ok theresa?
right better do some tidying up.
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25/11/08 19:14
hi ladies
fire thanks for stopping on by do join us if you wish
this month honeywell cd24 for me today managed to get in touch with fertility clinic today and my results for 21 day bloods were 87.6 which means i ovulated and that it was a week before the blood test which means we were bd'in at the right time!! fingers crossed for us but i'm ignoring the opks and doing it based on how i'm feeling and watching for ov signs. due on friday so fingers crossed it stays away eh!!
theresa sounds like a big batch of tests but if they find something and can get you that lovely baby you so deserve honey xxxxx
shelley wow you are on a nesting cleaning bit aren't you!!! glad you've got it all sorted for the nursery now.
sarah hope your alright honey and hope mummy will appreciate all the care you'll be giving her over her healing process xxxxx
25/11/08 11:20
Hi girls

Sarah wow you're almost half way there already! Can't believe how quick that time has gone! One of my colleagues hardly felt any movements all the way through her 2nd successful pg (she had 3 mc, one at 6 months) and she was sent to the hospital several times for monitoring of movements and they were very very light ones that she wasn't feeling very much, she had a healthy baby girl, so it just shows eh!
Hope your Mum is doing well.
Lynds some positive symptoms going on there but it's hard to get excited when you get them every cycle. Tons of
to you.Theresa hope you're ok hun and coping at work. Any signs of a new job yet? It's so hard with all the redundancies etc atm.
We managed to get everything else for the Nursery yesterday, just got to wait for the baby chair to be delivered from Mothercare. It's the Fisherprice Newborn to Toddler rocker, expensive but gets fantastic reviews. Went Xmas shopping for Alex as well yesterday. Today I'm just doing little jobs, done the washing, cleaned the cupboard out under the sink. I'm going to read for a while and have lucn and then do some ironing! The days go too fast!
25/11/08 08:35
Morning all,
thanks fire for popping in, good luck for u ttc this months.
Thats good news all will be done whilst you're knocked out theresa....cos lets face it, they're not all very nice, invasive tests etc. Its bad enough u have to go thru it all anyway, but at least if your asleep u wont feel a thing. Guess i was 'lucky' that i got away with not having to have too many invasive tests.....although at one point i was panicking about having the HSG, cos id heard from alot of woman how painful it is (i know u didn't find it too bad lynds, lucky u!!)
Will prof regan be doing it herself or another doc? & when u going in?
Also, u been helping out on that other website as support theresa?
how u enjoying being a lady of leisure shelley, wot u been up to?
any symptoms Lynds? not long now until testing.....

Im starting to get uncomfortable at night now, can only sleep on my side, not on my back or front....
Well loads of work to do, then picking up my mum this am from hosp & she'll be staying at mine.
have a nice day girls xx
24/11/08 21:38
Hi all.
Just wanted to say hi and love to all trying again for a bundle of joy.
After my miscarrage my body has settled and now me and my partner are trying again after the normal period I just had.
Fingers crossed I am trying to be positive and keep happy.
Wish us luck.
Love to Theresa
24/11/08 18:29
hey x
aw sarah, sorry on your mum babes x hope that she gets better soon
dont worry on the movement thing prob the way bubs is laying, do you he a doppler? bless ds thats so sweet, i just read one of them chain emails about a boy and firestations made me cry i will have to forward it... omg a blimmin eua is examination under anestetic lmao! what a t*** i am eh. anyway she will do all of the tests under that checking my cervix and womb and walls etc... xxlynd sorry im doing it right now texting now okay haha... x
shelley bless you thanks for saying that, i kinda believe i do deserve a baby too but then so do millions of others eh xxx
right gotta dash catch you all tomorrow xxx
24/11/08 10:32
hi ladies
sarah wow 19 weeks already with the lack of movement you may just have a lazy baby who gets more active as it gets bigger xxx sorry to hear your mum has an infection in her wound lets hope she responds to the treatment and infection goes. wow he's loving the firemen then nice one xxxx
shelley wow not long to go now for you xxx as you say too much to do and not enough time to do it!! i've got a rocking chair waiting for me at my mum's she used it when she had us xxxxxxx hope you get all you need today.
theresa wow sounds like she wants to check absolutely everything out which is good then whatever is causing the issue can be fixed and you can have that little baby xxxxx
i'm fine girls around cd22 i think i'm peeing a bit but then i always do, had itchy nipples again and boobs are getting a little sensitive but other than the mood swings nothing to speak of. made breakfast this morning then couldn't eat half of it xxxxx
hope your all getting sorted for xmas i've got most of my xmas cards done now just waiting for a few people to text me their address (theresa!!) and i've only got about 3 more xmas presents to buy!!! xxxxx
24/11/08 08:13
Morning all,
Was supposed to be at a meeting with my boss first thing today, but he cancelled....what a result!! Couldnt be bothered.
Think im about 19 weeks now shelley, so nearly 5 months. I do feel the odd little 'poke' in my belly, but its only when im sitting still & not moving, & really have to concentrate.
Im abit concerned cos my '20' week scan isn't until im '22' weeks.....dont know why its abit late....might ring up today.
Have a good day all. Lots of
for u Lynds, & hopefully you're tests will be as soon as poss theresa, so u can get on with ttc again.Talk later ladies xxxxxxxx
23/11/08 20:50
Hi girls

Theresa thanks for your address too! Sorry hun, I just kept forgetting, pg brain eh!
It sounds like you're in very good hands with all the tests to be done, let's hope they find some answers and get you back on the ttc track very soon hun. Nobody deserves a baby more than you. It will happen babe.
Sarah sorry to hear your Mum had to go back in hospital, poor thing, she must be fed up by now but she's in the best place eh.
We had a tiny bit of snow on the car this morning, nothing major and it soon went!
We have a few things left to get for the baby, curtains and lampshade for the Nursery, baby chair, changing mat and that's about it. We are going shopping for those tomorrow though so it's just a case of waiting then!!! Eeek need more time. I could stay pg for a few more months yet, it's going too fast!
I didn't know that about Fire Stations, I bet your ds had a great time. How many weeks are you now Sarah? Have you felt any movements yet?
Lynds hope you're ok and having a good weekend? How are you feeling, any sickness, sore boobs yet?

23/11/08 18:58
Hiya all, hope you've all had a nice weekend.....any snow over your ways today? We had a little this am but soon melted.
Last night was abit stressful, my mum was discharged from hosp & staying at mine, but yesterday seemed to have taken a turn for the worse, she was in alot of pain etc. So thought we're not taking any chances & called an ambulance. Shes now back in hospital.....they think she may have an infection in her wound, or something.....eak.
Did u go for your blood tests on fri theresa? have u been honest with work about the reasons for your time off etc? Thats great news shes' got loads of tests lined up for......Id never heard of an AEU, & the other thing.....All that was never mentioned when i went for my tests!! just shows that shes the most knowledgement in mc's for a reason.....really pleased for u hun that theres an end in sight. Must be a reason why your waters keep breaking so early; she'll find out & sort it.
When u going for these tests?
So now your a lady of leisure shelley !!! lucky u.Got alot more stuff to buy for her?
& any symptoms for u, yet Lynds?
My ds is absolutley obsessed with fireman at the moment - has spent most of the day dressed up in his fireman kit. DP took him to a firestation last week - i didnt realise but apparently most stations will let kids in & show them around etc if they're not busy.....Think i wanna take him myself next time!
Anyway girls, catch up with u all tomorrow.....love Sarah x
23/11/08 16:51
Hey x
yeah glad we have a way forwards now, i have had two laparoscophy before i know they can be blimmin sore but she is also going to do something with my cervix, test the incompotenst of it some how? and check my womb shape etc, eak! so how does it feel to be free,,,, cant believe its nearly time for you i truely cant, it has sooo flown by x thanks for the addy hun xx
Lynbds hope your okay babes, any symptoms yet chick? xx
how was your weekend, i have been busy with the angel babies cause thing, really enjoying it thoguh xxsarah hun how are you my friend x hope that all is okay, is your mum with you? how is she?
right catch you all tomrorow love all around T xxx
22/11/08 20:19
Hi girls,
Theresa that's good news they want to do further tests, when will you have these done? I've had a laparoscopy & hysteroscopy in the past hun and was home the same day albeit a bit sore but round my belly button not lady bits!
Lynds how come you're working next week, have they messed your holiday up?
Sarah hope you're ok and your Mum is settled at your house.
All ok here, apart from Alex having a lousy cough and cold, he was losing his voice earlier!
22/11/08 12:08
morning ladies
woke up bright and early this morning. still gutted i'm not off next week i would've loved a week break. but now just gonna go into work off next friday cos its my day off so visiting a friend in chester to give presents and some such.
enjoy your time shelley honey so excited for you xxxxx
sarah hope your mum is looking forward to spending time with you and your family xxxx
theresa honey sorry i missed you last night we both crashed out and i just wanted to watch and film and try and get an early night. i woke up around 9am this morning wasn't impressed but seems that since i woke up early all this week for work its reset my body clock a bit.
doing some laundry and needing to do some shopping and going to spend the rest of the weekend relaxing xxxxxxxx
be well my lovely ladies xxxx

21/11/08 21:24
Hey xx
on finishing work Shelley xxx eak flown by hasnt it will be you next sarah hun... x aw bless your mum coming to stay, hey maybe i can come stay and you can look after me too whatcha reackon?? 
Cant find my letter now but she wants to give me an EAU think it said! oh hang on yes an EAU and cervical assesment with a hysteroscopy and a timed endometrial biopsy wow! lol hey ho onwards and upwards eh... xx
Lynds where are you i have youtube open and im raring to go lmao! xx Ash gone over his mates and mums away so house to myself in fact bit creepy! earrrrrr lol
have great evening all xxx oh Shelly PM me your address woman!
21/11/08 20:22
Hi girls

Lynds good luck with your blood results, hope you get the result you're hoping for hun. How're you feeling now?
Sarah awwww that will be hard having to look after your Mum whilst pg, make sure you don't overdo things. That's rich coming from me, I don't know how to sit still in the day! No I won't get bored at home, so much to do. I do a bit then put my feet up for a while and read my book then do a bit more and then read a bit more.
Theresa hope it went well for you today, what's the next step hun?
Have a good weekend girls xxx

















Hi girls
Theresa what NVQ are you doing hun and are you doing it through work? That will keep you busy for a while, good luck with it.
Sarah, well I haven't wrote a birth plan but this time around I know what to expect and I'll just go with the flow really. I def want gas and air whether I need it or not!!!!!!! Loved it! I don't want an epidural, the pain of that was horrendous. I said to dh yesterday, I hope this little one is not lying back to back like Alex was as that's the worst labour! Pethidine did nothing for me except give me a lovely bruised thigh! So that's it. I keep getting twinges on and off today and I'm not sleeping too well.
Alex stayed off school today as his chest is quite bad with cough and cold but the GP said his chest is clear and to keep giving his inhaler and calpol.
Hope your meeting goes well despite your pg brain!
Lynds awwww you've resisted the urge to test? Well done you. So much good luck for your bfp tomorrow, really hope the witch isn't going to get you this time hun
.