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29/10/08 12:44
29/10/08 11:56
Hey aw glad your backs better Lynds x how brave are you not testing lmao, i can never resist the urge,,, still got em all crossed for you hun... x
was feeder good babe?Yeah Shelly just noticed the new pic, wow your ready to explode i think hehe x
Sarah honey how are you today? xxx
29/10/08 11:47
morning girls
well cd28 for me today still waiting for af to turn up and didn't test today resisted the urge sick of seeing bfn's. considering doing a test tomorrow when i'm off again. may do 2 different tests if af hasn't shown up. keep wondering if af has been delayed from stress at work.
shelley wow you have come out like the new photo. pity your little boy keeps waking you up at ungodly hours but at least baby is making itself well known to you lol
sarah good luck with mw today hope you hear a lovely heartbeat xxxxx
theresa hope work is better. i'm back in today on a 9-7 but off again tomorrow on a normal day off woohoo!!!
oh yeah back is better now all nicely healed up saying i pulled it while sleeping!!! i sat in the car travelling to wolverhampton last night and it just eased off.
xxxxx
28/10/08 17:54
Hey all x
Work well just getting on with it at mo x
Lynds bless you babe x did you not test this morning or will you do tomorrow
xx have fun at the concert babeSarah hun yeah dont worry too much, a lot of people dont get movement until 20 weeks xsuppose where baby is laying and that aint it,,, x how is your work?
Shelley bless you i was woken at 4.20 by ash getting up grrr i find it hard to get back to sleep, he is starting work at 2am tomorrow morning hope he dont wake me up then i will be knackered! lol
anyhows just popping on as tea time catch u all later xxx
28/10/08 17:33
Hi girls
Lynds have a great time at the concert. Bet you have a headache as well a backache afterwards. Hope it's not too far to travel to. Well that's a good sign, no af yet.
Sarah, good luck at the mw tomorrow, I'll be thinking of you. It will be such a relief for you once you've heard the little hb. Won't be long now til you do feel something.
I got kicked constantly for around an hour and a half last night! It was so nice though as I hardly get much movement during the day when I'm on the go and standing up!
Alex shouted me at 5.44am today and told me he was hungry! I told him it was still night time and to go back to sleep! He did until just after 8am but I couldn't nod off again, once I'm awake that's it. Dh has been warned it's his turn tomorrow!
Theresa hope you're ok and they're not giving you grief at work.
Alex has been naught yagain today when we were out shopping! It's not been a good holiday so far!
xxxxxxxx
28/10/08 17:20
Hi girls
Just a quickie before i go & pick up ds.
How'd u hurt your back Lynds? didnt know u had a bad back too......
hope your having a nice week off shelley! shame your not getting any lie ins'. That must be tired, thats blimen early. Joshua used to wake up around 5am every day, killed me. Now luckily its more like 7am.
Got midwife app tomorrow. So hopefully she'll be able to detect a heartbeat, as i haven't felt any movement yet....
hope your ok theresa, & works not too crap. 3 weeks to go until your app !! i take it your not ttc in the meantime?
catch up later girls xxx
enjoy your concert lynds!!
28/10/08 13:19
hi girls
cd27 no sign of af yet! i was off yesterday as it was a normal day off and booked today off as on a long shift and going to the unholy alliance tour tonight danny wants to watch his favourite band slayer!!! the concert starts pretty early so were going for something to eat first. my back is still really hurting i've definitely done so bad damage to it
shelley seems like school holidays test all mum's as you say kids get bored so quickly xxx
sarah musn't be good coming home in the dark but i'll be joining you from tomorrow when i'm back in again xxxxxx
theresa honey hope your well xxxxxx
27/10/08 20:19
hi girls
sarah, don't worry too much, some of the ladies in my due in forum didn't feel their babies move until much later than where you are now. when you see your mw this week, she will listen to the heartbeat, make sure she does before you leave. although i felt this baby from 12 weeks, all pg are different hun. i'm sure everything is just fine.
yep i'm off this week, could have really done with a nice lie in this morning but alex had other plans at 5.50am! grrrrrrr. we've all had a bady day. alex gets bored very easily when it's the holidays!
theresa so sorry work is the worst place for you to be atm, hope you find something else soon, you don;t need all this s*** hun, hope your day hasn't been too bad though.
lynds you never know, we're all keeping our fingers crossed for your bfp, stay strong. enjoy your couple of days off and relax. is your dh off as well?
27/10/08 19:47
Hi girls,
winter has certainly arrived, it was blimen' freezing coming home from work tonight, & dark !!
lucky u having a couple of days off work Lynds. Whats this concert your going to 'thrash metal' ??? ! Any signs of anything?
How u doing shelley, u ok, u off work this week for half term?
How'd u get on in the end at work today Theresa? well done for sticking up for yourself, if they're not treating u decently, then u do wot u feels right.
Shattered, off to chill out now
night girls xxxx
27/10/08 13:31
hi girls
sarah shouldn't you feel baby move around 16 weeks? so its coming up as far as i know. hope your feeling ok
theresa sounds like your place is toxic hope you find something soon and leave there as i know you'll feel better once your out.
shelley sounds like you've definitely hit the 3rd trimester i bet your counting the days till your on maternity leave.
i'm not working till wednesday as normal day off today and booked tomorrow off as a holiday as we're going to a thrash metal gig tomorrow night in wolverhampton. cd26 for me today so due to get a show either today or tomorrow and af to show up just don't feel confident that we've got this month xxxxx
27/10/08 08:50
Morning all x
well systems are down the one job im left to do isnt working so i am truely sat here doing nothing! sarah honey dont worry i have calmed down i wont just leave but i have made up my mind i am going to get another job asap, in fact will take pretty much anything just to get out of here, i knw companies dont care anymore, but i alsop think the way they treat you here is quite personal ( in a nasty way) and i aint having that,,,
Bless you shelly, you put your feet up and relax x
Lynds honey x sorry on the BFN!, please don't give up hope though, god i know its hard, boy oh boy do i chin up keep going x are you at work today babe?
really tired today girls cant be bothered with all the idiots in this place! i know i will just ignore them all! hahahahaha
Love always Theresa
26/10/08 20:33
Hiya all, so you're still quite tired then, generally shelley? Guess now that you in the 3rd trimester the tiredness will sneek back in anyway!
i dont understand all these woman whom all of a sudden give birth without even knowing they pg....how can u NOT know you're pg?? im shattered, get out of breadth etc. feel dizzy at times. Also have lost of my appetite completely, which is strangely wot happens when im pg. Haven't even got a sweet tooth this time! Boobs are still sooo tender, i go mad if ds accidentally pokes them.
i was 15 weeks on fri....got mw app this week, then consultant next week. Starting to get alittle worried as i haven't felt the baby move yet, & guess i should by now?
Hope alls ok with u theresa....are u giving in your notice tomorrow? Good luck if u are, but do think carefully before u do it. I know you've said that they haven't treated u too well, but to be honest - i think the days are gone, of working for a caring organisation, whom really cares about each, individual person. But im sure u know wot your doing hun, just dont want u to act on impulse, then maybe regret later.
night all xxx
26/10/08 20:15
Hi girls
Well I seem to have doubled in size overnight! It's amazing what putting the clocks back an hour can do! Alex had us up at 6.30am as he is used to being up at 7.30am! Grrrrrrr. I fell asleep watching tv last night yet dh can't understand why I get so tired! Men!
Lynds sorry you got bfn but you never know, hopefully in a few days it will be bfp
. Stay positive hun xxSarah, awww Joshua sounds sweet in his costume. I bet he didn't want to take it off! How many weeks are you now? Do you have a date for 20 week scan yet? How you feeling now?
Theresa how are you hun, hope you're coping ok and having as good a weekend as you can. Look after yourself.
26/10/08 13:20
Hiya all, sorry you got a negative Lynds, but it could well be too early. A couple of times ive tested 2 days earlier year & got BFN's - only to get a positive a couple of days later.....
Here's hoping.Wot a miserable day, been raining all day here.
xx catch u all later xx
26/10/08 12:20
hi girls
not to worry Liane thanks for telling us
for your pg.well cd25 for me today another bfn. not sure if af is due got another headache. feel so tired even though i've only been up over an hour. i can't see myself being pg this month i really can't so i'm sure its onto 3rd cycle of clomid.
hope you've all had a good weekend xxx
26/10/08 08:36
Sorry girls that was supposed to be posted in the 2ww thread. Dont know what happened there. sorry
Liane
26/10/08 08:34
Hi girls!! Ive done another post but its BFP for me this morning!!
Not feeling very confident about it at the mo, but thats what 4 mc this year has done to me, i think!!
Really praying that this will be my sticky bean, and Keera will have her little brother or sister next year
Off to get dd's breakfast n stuff sorted.
Liane
25/10/08 17:47
Hiya all,
yep miserable day here too, in more ways than one. Me & dp aren't getting on at all, but im not going to say too much cos i know he comes on here & has a nose!!
Still feeling crap, but going out for a friends bday tonight, but will only pop in quite briefly, not feeling like a big socialising session. Will be tired by 9pm anyway.
Hope u have a nice night out theresa, glad your getting on with things. Not that the thoughts aren't there, im sure. But nice if u can have a laugh tonite, even if u forget about things for the odd 10 mins here & there.
Bought a halloween outfit for DS this afternoon, he was sooo exciting. Has still got it on now. dont think he quite understands what ghosts etc are, (& i think it would scare him half to death if i told him anyway!!) but he loves the dressing up bit.
Nerve racking when it comes to that time of the month, for testing Lynds....Fingers crossed. Reakon you'll make it to monday to test? lol doubt it, i wouldnt.
How u doing shelley, got all next week off eh? lucky u.
Ok off to cook dinner, have a nice eve ladies.
xxxx
25/10/08 15:18
hey chicks x
hope we are all okay on this blimmin miserable day! grrrr
lynds yeah was nice to chat we havent for ages hun xxx off out later tonight but will catch you for a youtube session early evening! eak im going out on the p*** im a bit nervous but will be fine, get it when now eh as i will be back n the ttc again hopefully very soon xxx
right millions of love, i agree we are entitled to feel down shell, sod the world eh xx
have a great evening love always xxx
25/10/08 12:45
hi girls
well cd whatever possibly cd24 as cd26 should be monday. due around tuesday ish then. another day another bfn but then what else was i expecting!!!! were gonna be on our 3rd course of clomid when we got for our 3 month check up i expect. as much as i really want my bfp i'm just so used to not having it every month i've become so jaded with ttc i just don't expect it to ever work.
sorry to hear that brat will be back out after half term shelley he's needs to get expelled like NOW.
sarah hope the cold is on its way out for you now xxxx i think its good that your off work i believe work isn't doing alot for you right now and its disgusting that their giving you a disciplinary cos you can't get more business in.
theresa honey good talking to you last night xxxxx roll on tonight xxxx
Hiya all,
Wow look at u shelley, u have grown!! i guess u must be starting to feel pretty uncomfortable now? i find that im always breathless, so god knows wot ill be like in a couple of months. Got mwife app later today, so fingers crossed she can locate the heartbeat.
u have done well not testing lynds! i used to get the same, fed up with disappointments of a BFN, so sometimes couldnt bear to test just incase. things are looking quite positive then....?? lots of
My works still busy busy, ill be kept on this disciplinary until im on target....crap really. They're doing this to everyone. Managing to not let it get to me too much at the mo. Mind u, by beg dec things will really start to slow down, so only got another month or so of crap!
Catch up later girls xxx