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24/10/08 20:43
24/10/08 19:41
{{hugs}} sarah hope you start to feel better soon x awful aint it esp when you cant really take anything for it x yeah hr are just as bad tbh, well f*** em pay me same money and i will do sod all! but see thing is i cant i have to be busy as much as i hate it there i do love my job! will keep looking for something else x coping? honestly? i thought i was but im not sure, maybe just low as having a bad day so will try answer again tomorrow xxx
24/10/08 18:23
Hi all,
Ive been off sick last couple of days, feeling quite crap with throat infection, temperature etc.....still went out though last night, had already planned to meet some friends for a meal. Felt like crap but still nice to get out.
Can't believe work are giving u crap now Theresa, hun, how bloody unfair. Think i read on another thread somewhere that they're taking the majority of your responsibility away from u?? Thats really bad, id be fuming, like u. Companys' are really selfish these days. Have u got an HR dept / union? Thats all u need now - u need a job to help keep your mind off the crap at home.
Silly quesion i know, but how r u coping, generally hun?
My job's still crap too - am on a disciplinary, basically, for being behind target. They're doing it to alot of people..........not fun at the mo.
Your not alone Lynds - i used to take at least 3 pg tests each month!! i must have wasted a fortune
how u doing shelley, hows the brat at school?
well must cook dinner, talk later girls xxx
24/10/08 16:51
Hi guys soz not been on much, having a real bad time at work now, i am going to find anything, even considering going to work at tesco with ash mum just to get out of here, i just cant cope with it here anymore they are awful, i know im being vaigue i will explain when i calm down a bit...
Lynds glad you are back on track,,, grrr blimmin men eh! xxx what u like saying that i got my bfp cd24 x i will be so pleased if you get it this month hun... we need some bloody happy news! x
Shelley how are things with alex, eak 30 weeks, seems ages ago you announced your bfp though but then well a lot has happened eh xxx
Sarah how are you hun how is your back? hows your work now babe hope things are a little better for you sweetie x
24/10/08 10:44
hi girls
shelley wow 30 weeks how soon has that time flown by
yeah me and danny are ok everything has returned to normal. i did a test on cd23 today which was stupid as it was bfn don't know why i would think i'd get a bfp this early!!!
hope your well theresa xxxx have a nice weekend honey
sarah sorry to hear about your cold hope your on the paracetamol to help with the blocked nose and the blocked head lol
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23/10/08 20:06
Hi girls
Theresa so nice to have you back hun
So sorry you've been in a lot of pain with the op. Hope it has eased a lot now and you're feeling much better. It's crap you have to go into work tomorrow though. Give em hell if they start on you! Sarah, sorry you;ve got a cold, nothing worse to knock you off your feet. Hope it gets better soon. Have plenty of hot drinks and go off to bed!
Lynds chin up, hope you sort things out with Danny soon. Maybe you're down because you're already pg and don't know it yet. It can make you feel like that in the very early days. Fingers crossed for you.
Millie, nice to hear from you, please keep posting with us.
All ok here. I am now 30 weeks! OMG not long left and we still don't have everything yet! Money is very tight atm as it is for everyone.
23/10/08 14:04
hey girls
theresa so glad your back here we have missed you so much honey pie, sorry it was painful but i suppose they wanted to make sure you had no retained products.
sarah and shelley lol on the vibrator thanks for the option but i don't like to fiddle with myself and already have one in my underwear drawer laying around doing nothing!! thats what men are for are they not lol
things have settled again with hubby i just get leg wobbles occasionally about whats going on, i think i sometimes can't believe i'm a grown up lol!!!
i'm hoping there's a bfp round the corner fingers crossed girls xxxxxx
nice to see you on here millie come join the gang xxxxx hope your feeling better today
23/10/08 13:22
hey x sprry your feelign crap sarah, i hate a cold! grrrrr yeah last time i had pain but not as bad as this time, they pumped me with pefadine but just hrt like hell for hours which is why they wanted me to stay in... eak! aw meant to say sorry about your work, all f***ers aint they! im back in tomorrow and have a meeting so will see what s*** they try throw at me this time! im ready and waiting for it! bring it on! hope the cars okay x
hey millie x hpe the head gets better x
23/10/08 13:16
Hi all, nice to hear from u theresa. Sorry it was really painful this time....was this from when u woke up in recovery? i remember when i had mine, i was in quite alot of pain when i woke up, & they said it would take abit of time for the painkillers to kick in!! Obviously took blimen' ages.
Sounds as though you're being really brave, as usual...Not too long now until your app with prof regan, it'll whizz by. When u going back to work hun?
How r u both today, shelley & lynds?
off out in a min to pick my car up. God i feel lost without a car, rediculous.
Also come down with a bad cold today, so for once thought id fone in sick!! so am off work today & tomorrow
Talk later ladies xxxx
23/10/08 13:11
lovely to see you back theresa Sorry you're in so much pain. Hope you can manage to take it easy x x xGood news about alex, shell. Hopefully things should get a bit easier for him.
Hi to everyone else. Hope you're ok. Sorry, can't stay, got a massive headache and hve to settle dd down fro afternoon nap and I'm going to join her.
Lots of love n' hugs ((((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))
23/10/08 12:30
hey girls x
im back im back x op went well was in tremendous pain this time though, was never like that last time, but the minute they mentioned staying in over night i seemed to perk up lol! funny that eh! just been relaxing yesterday had loads of time to myself to cry and think about things but its okay gotta have a god old cry sometimes eh x i know what u mean about the not ackowledging your pregnant sarah, still hasnt sunk in that i was and i have lost again? crazy aint it
shelley aw bless alex i mean after all he is going through he is still doing so well xxx 8 weeks i cant believe a school would leave it that long, im gonna smash their windows too! grrrrr
lynds i didnt read your thread last one before my last one ..... sorry things are a l ittle rocky, remember all relationships have ups and downs good god i knwo that f***er! you need to find a happy medium, met half way iykwim, keep your chin up hun thats all we can do eh and keep fighting for what we want x
right off for shower x love always and catch up later xxx
22/10/08 20:28
Hi girls. All ok here. Alex had a good day at school, it was parents evening tonight and his Teacher is really pleased with his progress. We also spoke to the Headmaster who said Alex and 2 girls and going to be doing some Year 1 work after half term to challenge them a bit more! He got a certificate for his attendance record! Then at swimming he got his first Starfish Certificate, so it's been a good day! Alex did keep shouting me in the night to keep tucking him in but after the first time I refused!
Ha ha Sarah I was going to suggest a vibrator to Lynds but didn't have the guts really! Don't get one though cos I don't think you can use them if you're pg! You bfp is just around the corner I'm sure of it.
Sarah I'm sorry your back is causing you so much trouble. Try and rest when you can, though I know it's not easy with work and a little one to look after.
Erm to be honest my brain hasn't been the same since Alex was born. Generally I have an excellent memory but I still do daft things like go into the local shop and can't remember what I went in for! Things do get much easier in the 2nd trimester though. The tiredness eases a lot and the hunger but both come back with a vengence in the 3rd trimester!
Theresa hope you're ok and resting up hun. Come back soon, we miss you xxxx
22/10/08 19:29
Evening ladies, how is everyone?
Hope you're ok Theresa, we do miss u on here, hope you're ok & have recovered alright after the erpc.
Ive had a boring day, had to take my car into the garage, then had the hours journey home. Car wont be ready until tomorrow lunchtime either. As its a company car i have to take it to a certain garage, which is blimen miles away !!
im ok, my backs always painful, & doubt it'll change. Ive had a bad back since ds was a baby. Started a 1 to 1 pilates course on monday, & shes noticed ive got a twisted pelvis too. - which is wot my osteopath has said. So that gives me sciatica down 1 leg.....Is abit annoying as i was working out all the way thru pg with ds, but can't walk for more than 5 mins now & im in pain!!
Just the way it goes, never mind. Im sure by the time ill get really big ill be almost sofa ridden, cos the extra weight will make it worse.I find that im generally really struggling work wise too - my memory has completely gone, & im still really tired. Did u perk up by 15 weeks Shelley? Ive read how some woman become scatty etc when pg but its weird!! sometimes i feel like ive got early onset of alziheimers!
+ works stressful, even thou there's a credit crunch we're all being put on disciplinarys' if we're not on target. (i work in sales) - Me included!! never had this before in my working like, - its like being on 'naughty report' at school or something. Mega pressure. My boss has actually got such a bad memory - i think he's forgotten that im pg - otherwise he wouldve have done this! So far im managing not to let the stress get to me, but will see how it goes......& if my back gets worse im thinking of asking to be signed off by the consultant.
Anyway sorry to moan on girls !!
How was school today shelley, hopefully that little brat will either leave / completely change & leave alex alone
Glad to hear that u & dh are ok now Lynds.....I think its impossible to find a partner where your both practically 100% compatible. Doesn't exist, theres always going to be something......Not being funny, but can't u invest in.....erm......u know.....1 of those things that certain shops sell? Ask him to treat u in ann summers ?? lol sorry, hope i haven't offended u. (actually doubt it knowing u). Mind u - once your preggers you'll more than likely go off it anyway !!
Lots of love girls, xxx
22/10/08 12:28
hi girls
shelley thanks for your thoughts. we've kinda talked and feeling ok. i think its the fact that i'm a bit emotional as we speak what with the job and all. oh yeah weighed myself today and i've lost around 4 pounds so i'm well happy...see thats what not eating does lol
i've had a few cramps over the past few days so here's hoping its a positive feeling and i get that bfp. i've not had any symptoms except the cramping and the feeling that i'm not really here lol!!! cd21 for me so not long till we find out
theresa honey hope your ok and healing well xxxxx
sarah hope the backache is not as painful anymore xxxx
21/10/08 20:34
Hi girls,
Thinking of you Theresa and hoping you are well enough to be at home hun, hope you're not feeling too much pain (((HUGS)))
to you, hope you're back on your feet soon enough xxxxxSarah, I understand you not buying anything, we didn't until after the 20 week scan either. How are you feeling now? How's you back? Mine's fine now.
Yes Alex is in the same class as the other boy and the school really have done their best to keep them apart but it's not easy.
Lynds hope you and Danny are ok and can overcome your worries about the sex! I am worried for you about that. So much good luck for your bfp hun.
21/10/08 10:18
hi girls
hope it works out ok for you today theresa honey and you get and get rested.
shelley thank god the headmaster has seen sense i can't belive they let it go on for so long!!
sarah i can understand your aprehension to buy things as you still don't feel confident enough that all is going to be well. xxxxxx
i'm ok today due on around next monday and just seeing how each day goes really. i'm feeling really tired today and basically fed up with work sick of being shouted and moaned at on the phones. me and danny are ok i just get wobbles where i wonder if i've made the right choice but it'll no doubt sort itself out in some way. hope its this month i really am what with work right now i feel i couldn't take anymore disappointment
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21/10/08 09:18
Sorry to gatecrash girls, just wanted to send Theresa all my love thinking of you today love.
((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))
Sarahxxxxxx21/10/08 09:02
Morning all,
thinking of u today theresa, hope its not too painful when u wake up, & Ash is there to look after u & give u loads of TLC xxx
Nope haven't bought anything for the baby yet shelley, & probably wont do for ages yet actually!! I guess i still daren't plan really, & still think something bad's gonna happen. & i think sometimes im even in denial that i am pg - i haven't even announced it to alot of my work colleagues yet! But will have loads to do, need to decorate loads in this house, etc etc.
Glad the headmasters' finally taking it seriously. poor alex, i take it this other boy hit him over the head? he really keeps picking on alex every day, doesn't he. Why can't they keep them apart, all the time. Are they in the same class? Wot a little brat.
Talk abit later girls xxx
21/10/08 08:41
Hi guys, how are you all doing?
Just popped in to say I'm thinking of you today Theresa, although you probably won't get this until you're back. Thinking and praying for you.
Hope the rest of you are well.
Must dash, have toddler music class to go to. What fun!!!
Take care y'all x x x
20/10/08 20:21
hi girls
lynds oh no, i'm sorry you and your dh are feeling like that, i really hope you can work through it hun (((hugs))). awwww hun, sorry. fingers crossed it's your month though, then you'll be too tired to think about sex!
theresa good luck for tomorrow, get plenty of rest afterwards and don't rush back to work too soon, look after yourself
no things haven't improved for alex, he got hit on the head today, that went down well when dh picked him up from school! they called the other boy's mum in and dh spoke to the headmaster who finally saw the light and said they really need to do something serious now! really, after almost 8 weeks of this s***!
sarah, how are you? have you bought anything for the baby yet? will you find out the sex or be very good and have a suprise?
still got a few things to buy and haven't even thought about xmas yet!
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Hi girls, awww you're all having such a hard time this week (((((HUGS))))) to all you girls.
Lynds glad you sorted things out with Danny and are now back to normal. Sorry your test was bfn but like you say, it was early, hopefully in a few days it will be a BFP!
Sarah, awwww no, you sound terrible with your cold. Have an early night, keep warm and drink plenty of tea or hot lemon. It's hard when you can only take paracetamol isn;t it.
Alex has had 4 good days at school but after half term the little brat he has problems with will be allowed back on to the playground, so that's a worry. He's been kept in most of the last 8 weeks for his behaviour! He's one of those kids you can look at and know he's trouble!!!
Theresa I'm sorry you're having problems at work, that's really terrible the way they treat you. I don't blame you for wanting to go and work somewhere else but it's wrong what they're doing. They should be ashamed treating you like that with what you've been though. Don't apologise to us for feeling down, you're more than entitled to feel like that hun ((((HUGS)))). Look after yourself xxx