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1/12/08 08:51
1/12/08 00:21
hiya gurlz ive just only recently come back on to bounty after loosing my first born boy is sept at 30+2 wkz. me and dp have talked over ttc so many times since and would like to join ur list if posible?
im on cycle 2 , cd12 today, af/bfp due 17th dec (28 day cycles)
lucy
x
ps: good luck to every1 ttc'n
1/12/08 00:09
Jessiep27 = BFP
Helsp73 = BFP
TTC JULY 2009
Modernmillie = CD 39TTC AUG 2009
Mrsmorgan = CD 36
Whitewitch = CD 34
Shell = CD 33
Kay1406 = CD 26
Donnawatson = CD 26
Emzmorrison = CD 24
MelB = CD 22
Mollysmum = CD 22
Dge = CD 21
Rayray1971 = CD 18
Stac1983 = CD 17
Geeh74 = CD 11
Joolie1976 = CD 5
ElizabethHealy = CD 3Taking a Break
Sarahlou01
Tobyrose30/11/08 20:50
well done Helen. Shell,. I'm so sorry to hear that your Dp doesn't want to use the fertility clinic, Hope you find a way through soon, have you considered taking a break for a while? Perhaps wait till after Christmas and see how things are then? It's hard, really hard but I'm sure somewhere in my mind/body/soul it's doing me good. I'm considering going on the pill but i'll have to wait til I've had my meeting with the gynecologists at the hospital. We could have our own 'Taking a break' thread? I had a lovely weekend with my family but missed my boys so much. Nephew Corey is doing really well and could be out of hospital at the end of the week. sending you huge hugs Shell...X
30/11/08 17:39
Hi,
thanks for the congrats everyone. Shell I'm sorry to see you've been having a tough time - mega (((((hugs))))) to you and I hope your dp was just being hasty and that there's a reason behind his reaction which you can maybe explore and sort out between you. Fingers xxed anyway.
Sorry the witch got you Liz..
Any more testers?
to you if so.Love, Hx
30/11/08 11:13
cd2 for me shell how are we all??? i had a great xmas night out got very drunk going xmas shopping today just popping in before i go
30/11/08 09:29
Jessiep27 = BFP
Helsp73 = BFP
TTC JULY 2009
Modernmillie = CD 38TTC AUG 2009
Mrsmorgan = CD 35
Whitewitch = CD 33
Shell = CD 32
ElizabethHealy = CD 29
Kay1406 = CD 25
Donnawatson = CD 25
Emzmorrison = CD 23
MelB = CD 21
Mollysmum = CD 21
Dge = CD 20
Rayray1971 = CD 17
Stac1983 = CD 16
Geeh74 = CD 10
Joolie1976 = CD 4Taking a Break
Sarahlou01
Tobyrose28/11/08 22:34
(((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))))))))) for shell and staci and whoever else needs them cd 1 for me 2moro shell she arrived this afternoon but is still very light so will count 2moro as cd1 n not today tested this morning n got a bfn so new she was due sometime though shes early foe me glad baby corey is doing well rosie heres to an xmas bfp!!!
28/11/08 17:47
Hello everyone,
Shell, im sorry your not feeling yourself at the moment ((((hugs))), i hope things get better for you x
Stac, men are sometimes hard to open up to, but im sure if you both sat together one evening and talked, you would feel alot better x
Rose, im so so glad corey is ok. Sending kisses and ((((hugs)))) to him, and all of you for being so strong for him x
CONGRATS HELEN!!!
Another BFP for the month, i hope i can join you!! Well, its my due date today aswell as my birthday
Im actually coping better than i thought i would, been out for the day and are going for a meal a bit later so i've been kept busy. We're going to light a candle for him in a mo, to mark the day for him, and so he knows im thinking of him. Miss you Kaiden xxx Mummy and Daddy think of you everyday On Cd19 today, im hoping this is my turn, i so want something positive to happen in time for xmas, but im trying not to think about it too much.
Good luck to everyone due for testing. Love Mel xxx
28/11/08 17:22
Hi girls,
Stac i hope you and your dh can sort things out over the weekend hunnie ((((((hugs)))))
The doc rang me and said my results were fine, that the tests showed that i was ovulating fine (I wasnt happy with what the receptionist said so i got the doc to ring)
She offered to refer me to the fertility clinic...i spoke to dp about it and we've just had a blazing row, he says he wont be going to any fertility clinic, not for all the money in the world...im sitting here in tears at the min...i dont really want to talk at the min so il speak to you all later xx.
Shell xx.
28/11/08 17:08
thanx shell i am sorry your having problems too if only relationships where easy. Maybe its me who's changed i dont know. But over the weekend i will sit and chat with him.
Sorry they didnt go in to details about your results. Can you ring them and discuss them. Glad they where ok but that still doesnt tell you what they meant by acceptable. xxx
Hope the rest of the girls are ok xxx
28/11/08 15:47
got my results...all they said was they were acceptable whatever the f*** that means, was hoping she would tell me more than that
shell xx.
28/11/08 13:56
Ah Stac hunnie (((((((big hugs))))))) i know what you mean.
Me and dp had a row the other night and he said ive changed this last yr, im not the person he met, now i know ive changed since the losses and i dont know how to get that person back, sometimes i feel like my heart is frozen and if i keep him out and everything else out then i wont get hurt again....i dont think it works.
Its hard trying to hide your feelings day in day out...maybe just sit down with him and tell him how you really feel....tell him what you miss, and tell him your sorry for feeling like this but your heart is broken, i hope he understands where you are coming from.
Anytime you need a chat stac you know where i am...always rem that xxxx
Shell xx.
28/11/08 10:42
i do talk to him but not about my true feelings if that makes sense. i havent told him that i spend most days at home crying when i am on my own. I think its just me but i really do truely love him and just want us back again if that makes sense xxx
Oh i am having a feel sorry for myself day i ahte it when i am like this. Thanx for listening shell xxx
28/11/08 10:16
Hi Stac...im fine thaks hun but been having a hard time with dp as well as few days.
I hope you and your dh can get the closeness back, i know the cuddles are nice but a wee kiss and cuddle is better.
I sometimes think men dont think that we need the closeness, anyone can give you a hug but you need a special closeness to feel loved and wanted.
(((((((hugs))))))) for you sweetie...dont think you are going to lose him...do you talk much to each other xoxo
Shell xx.
28/11/08 09:29
hi all thanx for the list shell. How are you ???
Congrats to everyone with there bfp its so nice to see them all i hope they are all sticky beans for you all.
I am feeling really down about me and hubbie. We havent had special cuddles in over a month. I have been ill he has and so has dd. But we dont seem to kiss or anything anymore. We have a cuddle but thats it. It feels as though we are really good friends. I love him so much but i feel as though he is not interested anymore. I need to talk to him but how do i bring it up. scares me that i am going to lose him xxx
28/11/08 07:43
Morning girls
Helen....congratulations hunnie...sorry i didnt say it yesterday...had a hectic day
Liz...i think you could test cuz you are cd 27 today and if your going out tomorrow night then you could test in the morning....
Charlotte i think im due on wed....i ov late again this mth
though i do have cramps as few days so dont think its my mth again Rosie...thats great news about Corey hunnie...
Hi Ray...hope you are well, and WELL DONE on losing all that weight...thats brilliant, and your right about the list...we are all dwidling away (thank god) there were lots of bfps, a lot of the girls are in due in may and june and we have a few in july, its great news.
Hope you are all well.
Shell xx.
28/11/08 07:40
Jessiep27 = BFP
Helsp73 = BFP
TTC JULY 2009
Modernmillie = CD 36TTC AUG 2009
Mrsmorgan = CD 33
Whitewitch = CD 31
Shell = CD 30
ElizabethHealy = CD 27
Kay1406 = CD 23
Donnawatson = CD 23
Emzmorrison = CD 21
MelB = CD 19
Mollysmum = CD 19
Dge = CD 18
Rayray1971 = CD 15
Stac1983 = CD 14
Geeh74 = CD 8
Joolie1976 = CD 2Taking a Break
Sarahlou01
Tobyrose28/11/08 01:13
CONGRATULATIONS ON THE BFP's - Shell that list gets shorter every time I come on (Havent been on very often, but pop on now and again to check in).
I am still going to slimming world every week & tonight I lost 8 1/2 pounds (dont know what I did to lose that much - must be all the bding
) so I have now lost 2 stone 5 pounds, so I only need to lose 9 more pounds & I will be back to the weight I was in April before I had mc. Hopefully that might help with getting my bfp - I hope so Anyways - sorry I havent been on for a while but will try to come on more often from now on as keep missing all the news (am sure the list wasnt that short last time I looked so I must of missed quite a few BFP's)
to anyone about to test & lots of to all those who have got their BFPs whilst I was gone 27/11/08 18:39
Congratulations Helen!!! Sending you loads of baby glue!
Shell when are you due? Did you ov late this month?
Rose I am so pleased to hear that Corey is doing well and I wish him all the best. It is great news that he is going home too.
I am 7 DPO, I had an implantation dip at 5DPO and my temps have risen now so hoping it's good news. lets hope they stay high. I have had some mild cramping too but trying not to symptom spot as I have pregnancy symptoms before AF shows too.
Charlotte
Hi Lucy...you are very welcome to join the list hun
I am so sorry that you lost your son...my heart goes out to you (((((hugs)))))
I will add you to the list now, i wish you and your dh all the best of luck and i hope you get your bfp soon xx.
Shell xx.