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2/7/08 17:59
2/7/08 14:49
i agree with everyone on here and especially with plumper, it may not be the worst scenario of having a mc, but what is it is an infection that if left untreated could lead to ms, not trying to scare you hunni cos i know you are that already just trying to say it aint over till the fat lady sings and i am keeping my mouth very firmly shut so get to A&E, tell them you are in agony and can hardly look after DD lie lie lie till they check you out. im gonna log on here later and i want to be seeing good news. take care we are all thinking of you loads and loads of
for you, karen x2/7/08 14:33
When mine started i had to take my DD to A&E with me... i know its probaly not the best situation but if you are like you are you have to do it we took her to the emergency scan at EPU also where we found we had lost and i didnt want to have to take her but you need to know you are gettin worked up and upsetting yourself which can only make matters worse in the physical and emptional sense.
Just go to A&E Lie thru ya back teeth if needs be whatever it takes to get seen. I didnt and i told them that my symptoms were prob just implantation so i wasnt taken seriously and sat and waited for almost 4 hours before i walked out on them so you HAVE to lie.
I have everything crossed for you hunni......
Just get to A&E NOW
Nicole x x x x
2/7/08 14:05
They will have no choice but to squeeze you in for a scan. Take their advice and get to A&E
2/7/08 14:03
i tried just now i was so upset on the phone and they just said no sorry we're full ul have to go to A&E
2/7/08 14:02
You won't have to sit for hours at this time of the day, and if you "knew" already you wouldn't be panicking now over something you are not sure of.......You are not a Doctor, and neither are we, you have asked for our advice, we are giving you more than that because we are worried for you.
So what if you have to take your daughter? She will be fine!
You know, we had to take our daughter with us, she is 3, we had to take her into the scan room, I knew we had lost ours because of all the bleeding and the horrendious pain I was in, you don't have those symptoms, but you DO need to be checked out.
If you don't get there soon the scanning will be shut, and you will be like this all night. Sitting there will not help you or your unborn baby.
Let me just spell this out...........you do not know for sure what is happening, it may be a mc it may not.......but if there is something that can be done, and stops what could be a mc, how would you live with yourself if you didn't act?
I am sorry for sounding so harsh and rude, well, you know what I'm not........I am concerned for you and baby.
We all know how hard this is, but look at Pob, she took the advice, now she is happy!
Chuck a jacket on little one, take her fave toy and get to the hospital.
I pray it is good news for you.
xxxxxxxxxxx
2/7/08 13:59
Can't u phone docs and BEG 4 an epu app? Tell em u can't stand up coz of the pain, I no it's naughty but please...............wouln't they lie their way to that scanner
2/7/08 13:52
just been to the loo and the brown stuff is back, looks more like sticky mucus now, i really dont know what to do, i dont wanna take dd all the way to A&E in a taxi, sit for hours then back when theyre prob only gonna tell me what i already think i know
2/7/08 13:50
In a word yes like I said 2 pob, Say whatever you have 2 and do whatever you have 2.......................Just Do IT.......U will only get yourself more and more worked up sweetie. Let us know.......I'm out the office now but I will log on asap...........and I'm tellin you now ......YOu better of been........or else I'm not goin be impressed...........Joking aside please go I know u are scared and Iknow what u mean about it been the same as last time but some women do just get that sorta thing and its just baby settlin in.
2/7/08 13:44
Hun, I agree if you are that worried you should just go. I was advised by EPU to go to A&E (as it was out of hours) as I'd had spotting and pain. It will be fine. Just tell them about the discharge and pain and hopefully they can scan you asap, maybe some bloods tests too. You can't carry on like this, it's not fair on you x
2/7/08 13:35
Tell them you are getting discharge and having pains, and that you are pregnant.
All you are doing is telling the truth, tell them how worried you are.
The sooner you go the sooner you will be back.
Shouldn't be too busy at this time of day and they can put your mind at rest.
Lisa xxx
2/7/08 13:33
ive had no more of the funny discharge since 9am but the test is worrying me sooooo much!! should i go to A&E epu said they cant see me til friday n thats that, what would i say to A&E ??
2/7/08 13:24
I'll give you advice on recurrent miscarriages if it happens to you, but as of yet, you're still pregnant no matter how faint that line is hon. I agree with the others and we're bullying you I know, but please go and get checked out. Lie if you have to but waiting until Friday and stressing is not going to help matters. I had very strong abdominal pains in my last pg and it turned out to be wind
We are here for you hon.
2/7/08 12:41
I'm with the girls, please try to get a scan asap.
I wish you lots of luck and hope you are okay!
xxxx2/7/08 12:39
honey as plumper has said i have made myself sick with worry, so i must admit i had to pretend to have pain to get a scan but hey ho.
i did a test this morning and you can hardly see the second line, ihad totally resigned myself to the fact i had lost another one BUT
there is a baby and a heart beat, now i can't tell you not to worry as my god i was in tears after doing that test this morning BUT i now know tests are evil and they don't necessarily say what they mean
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE CALL EPU!!!!!!!!!!
2/7/08 12:37
Keerasmummy. Sorry your going thu this but like everyone has said it could be nothing to worry about and everything could be fine. I agree with Plumper go to hospital and make them look at you. I really hope that everything is ok I got everything firmly crossed for you
and big ((hugs)) x 2/7/08 12:25
Pob had the same this morning...........she went to the hospital, look at her post!
She is absolutly fine..............please go
2/7/08 12:20
Then take her with you, your health is far more important.
What you have just described could be an infection, which would explain the pain aswel.
The hospital will realise you need to be seen asap with having your lo with you, I know it's not nice hun, but sitting at home worrying like you are and not getting the answers off here you need, will do you more harm than good.
Worr and stress can cause mc as we all know, don't put yourself through this, it may all be in vane, and everything could be alright with your pregnancy.
Please pop off to the hossy.....................girls back me up here please
xxxxxxx
2/7/08 12:09
thanks girls, ive just done another asda one and its vvv faint so im guessing that cant be good news? Ive had no more spotting, its not even brown or red its more browny yellow and no more since 9am this morning, im cramping quite bad, not agony but i know its there.
still feelin sick etc but with a nearly neg test then there is no way this can progress is there??
Im so upset
can go to hosp as im on my own with dd and have no one to look after her xx2/7/08 11:59
So sorry to hear this but it might not be bad news... I'm 5+4 after 3 MC and had light brown CM at 4+2, 4+4 and 4+5 but nothing since, now my symptoms have started really strongly...
As someone else said, it may just be things stretching and growing.
I've got everything crossed for you
x
well i went to A&E they did a test which came back neg, i did one a couple hours before and it was positive altho faint?? They took blood and ive to go to epu on fri at 1215 and discuss what to do now.
I cant understand how its now went neg when mine was vv faint positive and ive had no bleeding, just this brown mucus, its all so confusing. still none the wiser but it taking it to be that ive lost this one too